Years ago, I was in a similar situation. I had, and still have, a scar on my back, plus the little fingers on both my hands are slightly crooked. This worried me a lot and inevitably affected my self-esteem. One day, something happened and changed not only my life, but also the way I looked at it. My friend and I were sitting in a cafe, and there were three girls and two boys, about twenty years old, at the next table. One of the boys was very witty and with a great sense of humor - one of those types of people who will cheer her up and make you laugh and feel better, no matter how bad your mood is. He was the center of attention and the soul of their company. I remember very well when I said to myself, "Look how happy he is. If he was in my position, he wouldn't be so smiling and making jokes." . When they left, I saw that he had problems with one of his legs and had to use one of these short crutches. It was obvious that this did not bother him at all and he had such self-confidence that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect. that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect. that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect.
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If your father is a doctor and avoids the topic or procrastinates, he may be worried about the appearance of the "stain" in some cases it can be dangerous to "tease" something like that. Many people have some scars ... and what ?! I have a "cat's eye" as it is called, in an accident in my childhood, my pupil is elongated, elongated. It is not something that is only seen in summer, but every day, at every glance, with every sighted person. Personally, I even like the way they look ... they can't believe that they see what they see :) A friend has a huge purple scar on her front thigh, she wears it quite calmly every year at sea. Get used to it (scar) hardly make such an impression on others as you or wait patiently until your father finds a really good one to remove it,