Hello, I decided to write with a request for advice. My boyfriend and I have anal sex, and despite the regular enema I do before, I have had drops of dirty water come out during intercourse. I attribute it to the fact that the whole amount did not come out in the toilet or that it reached a deeper place. Option with soap and water alone does not seem hygienic enough to me and I feel even more worried. I ask the more experienced to share how they are cleaned before and how they understand if all the water has come out. The version with irrigators, ladies' showers, etc. has not been tried and the result is the same. Are there subtleties like being upright or something? Please for specific answers!
1 casey_williams answered
You wash yourself until any impurities stop coming out, but since there is water left in you, you need to do it for about an hour before sex so that you can throw away or absorb the water left in you. The other option is such a rinse, but you start in the bathroom and during sex, the man abruptly takes it out to drain the water from you and when it stops flowing, you move. At least that's how my partner practices it and she is successful.