Hello, my relationship has always been problematic, and for a year now he has been parting with me, now we are getting along. Nothing can hurt me more than separation, he knows it and I have no idea if this is the motivation. This time another man appeared, in whom I am more certain than in myself that even the greatest misery in this world would not be enough to force him to separate. And I want sex from him. I can't get together with my longtime friend, no matter how much I love him, it's beyond the power of a person to endure these extremes of gathering and separation. My question is should I end the new relationship before it's too late. I know he will get used to the new person, although it is not easy. He has a soul and a perfect character. After a relationship like that ended, only desolation, pain, fear and self-blame remained. You don't get into love with that.
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Author, I can't know what's best for you, but as you describe it to me, I would try the following: once you're not ready for a new serious relationship, try small steps. Tell the person that you do not feel confident yet and you can start in the beginning only with sex and friendship. And so slowly you will see how it turns out. Your heart will show you whether you want a new relationship or not. Success!