Hello! I have read not one or two similar stories, but I want to share mine. My friend and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been living on a family basis for almost as long. A year before we "got engaged", he broke up with a woman with whom he had a 5-year relationship, from which she lived with them for 11 months. But he asked her to move out, and since then, he said, they have only seen each other when she came to his job to ask him for money. That's how he got used to giving it to her, even though he has no obligation to her, they didn't have a marriage or children, and she works too, but ... After we lived together, he told her about me and to stop milking him. However, in addition to not stopping to go to his work and get some money with "I'm sick, I need money for medicine, I broke my arm, I broke my leg", she also managed to take my phone and a year ago telephone harassment. The first time I picked her up, she told me I had been involved in a 5 year relationship, and they were still together. I explained to her that she doubted me because I had been living with him for 6 months and we were always together. He insisted that we see each other, which I refused. I asked her if she had anything else to say, if not to bother me anymore. He also yelled at her and told her not to see her again. We seem to have understood each other, but ... That evening he called me on the phone until 4 o'clock. at night and since then there is hardly a day that does not call me. I didn't pick her up anymore, I blocked her phone, he blocked it too, but she started calling from a "hidden number", which we also managed to block, but she is already starting to call from other phone numbers. I know that the option is to change our numbers, but for now it is impossible. We complained to the police, where they said
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Change the numbers! You should be able to judge someone if they call you that and bother you. That is, to file a complaint, not to judge. Try again with insistence! Don't meet her at all, this psychopath is just waiting for that. Can't someone scare her? And how did she manage to take your phone? Jen
If you meet her, it will mean that you have succumbed to blackmail. From then on, things become unpredictable and out of control. Do not do it. And what can you talk about, think about it? To return her husband? You can block any number from which it calls. And when you hear it, you close immediately. Another option: record all conversations and file a case for mental harassment.
And why does he give her money if they don't have children? This is doubtful. He may have lied to you about it. What man would give money to an ex if he had nothing to do with her? From your good heart? There is something hidden here.