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Can I Have A Boyfriend If I Don't Have Social Media?

By ryan_lawrens June 10, 2020 20 answers Last updated June 10, 2020

Can a 22-year-old man get a girlfriend if he doesn't have facebook or Instagram? I don't know why, but when I tell someone I don't have profiles anywhere and they look at me like I'm an alien.

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drippy_kitty answered · June 10, 2020
Maybe you just have to come across a girl who doesn't do facebook or Instagram, either, or at least she's not crazy about them. And there aren't many of them, unfortunately. Black Sabbath
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emi_lady answered · June 10, 2020
I do, too. 21 years old. I'm and I don't have facebook, and when I tell people they look at me very strangely, like they're telling each other:- the crazy one.
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tivanfeger1976 answered · June 10, 2020
In principle, it is not mandatory, but it will be much easier for you to find yourself if you have social networks, because you can always write to a girl, tie up a contact, even by chatting to become close and then get out. Why don't you? What's the big deal, really, what century do you live in? You don't have to waste your time there, you might spend some time in them, but it's still better to have, in my opinion.
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hairyredslover answered · June 10, 2020
Not
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thickcubbb answered · June 10, 2020
I only have an Instagram account, another no. I don't miss men's attention. So yes, you can.
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goddessmoni answered · June 10, 2020
3 Life is not facebook, and the only way to get a boyfriend again is not a social one. network, but you can often fall into a deceptive scheme precisely from cool "chicks" from there or dating sites. Contact with people, Polanski transitions, dancing, sports, charitable volunteer work.... many alternatives.
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manelik_seex answered · June 11, 2020
If it's up to me, any "social" networks will be banned by law. I don't either. profiles nowhere, and everyone thinks I'm crazy. The most annoying thing (that annoys me) is when I go out with company and... everyone gets stuck in the phone and "looks at the face."
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mrmrscouple answered · June 11, 2020
Maybe, of course. As for so-called social networks - I know quite a few valuable people who don't deal with them. But as you know, stupid people are so much more than smart people. You choose whose opinion you hold on to.
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camillabenz answered · June 11, 2020
Because you're out of the norm, and people are used to the norm defining their views and perceptions, ergo- you're weird. It's Bratan.
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wildlondontiger answered · June 12, 2020
Hey, Number 7 said it beautifully. We really need to ban all social networks. I'm a 43-year-old man, I do IT and I don't have any idea to use facebook at all. I don't miss contacts. And just so you know, there's nothing like living contact. They also look at me as "useful fossil" after they find out I don't have facebook. You don't care at all. Go boldly forward and don't be like everyone else.
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sabrina_rays answered · June 12, 2020
Up to 7 It's a good thing nothing depends on one person. If it annoys you what your company is doing, change your company, don't impose laws on them.
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amara_rose_ answered · June 12, 2020
The social network doesn't make you social, it makes you antisocial. A fake network and software cannot replace living contact, charisma, intellect, facial and eye radiation, body energy, the warmth of spoken words, their intonation... Of course, if you don't have the aforementioned qualities, you're probably going to use it to a phone, to a net.
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cockagent007 answered · June 13, 2020
It can, but it's a lot harder. It's also harder to have a Facebook and not demonstrate some unique life there (like me). I guess I go out more often than most of my acquaintances on the face, but it's just not every outing, it's not all pictures...
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folksinjp answered · June 13, 2020
Of course you can. Even if you're a serious and real girl, you're much more likely to come across it.
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mealex69 answered · June 14, 2020
Social media is for women. For starters, I don't see a man looking for on social media. They're for gossip.
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oh_and_ah answered · June 14, 2020
Maybe I'm 22, my husband is 29. We met when I was 17 and we met in a joint company, I hardly used Facebook at the time to date I deleted it, he left it, and we write in a messenger, I removed all social networks because they burdened me and were bugged with unnecessary information. He's looking for a girl like that.
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baisatu answered · June 14, 2020
I'm 26. On one out, I met a girl, but when she found out I didn't have facebook, she quickly left. I guess he wanted to judge me in advance on my photos and profile to decide whether to play my number or like what she sees and get out right away.
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sebilone answered · June 14, 2020
Better yet, you don't have it, so it won't make you spelling adjustments. You're going to look more intelligent among the ladies when you say you're not using social media and you think they're obsolete. Real sociality between people is a much better equivalent than fake online relationships.
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emmacollin answered · June 15, 2020
Of course he can. Your mom and dad didn't have facebook or Instagram when they met. If you showed up without social media, probably then probably there were computers, so it could. You just have to go out more to have more social contacts and meet the right woman.
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fredthegardener answered · June 15, 2020
Facebook didn't have it here until 100 years ago. How do you think people in their 30s - your parents, great-grandparents and a few billion generations before you - were catching boyfriends? By the way, people keep getting engaged without Facebook, whether they have profiles or not. I don't know why you suddenly decided it was impossible...