My story may seem a bit absurd to you, but I still decided to share my "worries". (I'm 23) A few years ago I accidentally met a man. He liked me at first sight, he insisted that there was something between us, but I rejected him (without being rude) because then I fell in love with another man. So ... since then over the years we have not seen each other, we have not communicated with each other on social networks (although we have friends). But in early September, I accidentally spotted him on the street. He stopped me. We were talking ... God, it turns out we have so much in common! We didn't stop talking. I was really glad to see him, it was obvious to him that he was happy from our meeting. It looks the same as when we met, but I felt such an attraction this time ... But it all ended there. He didn't look for me (I admit, I didn't expect it) and I think the only reason he didn't is because he must have a girlfriend. Honestly, since then, strange as it may seem, I haven't stopped thinking about him and our meeting. Didn't I lose my soulmate a few years ago because of stupidity and naivety? Is it possible, in your opinion, or the people who are meant to be together, to get together sooner or later?
1 single__mom answered
He didn't invite you on a date, probably not because he has a girlfriend, but because you've already cut him off once and he doesn't think it makes sense. He can't read minds and know that you already like him as a man, because by the way of logic you are more likely not to like him after you cut him some time ago. Can he ask you again in 5 months in case you accidentally change your mind? If you have any contacts, look for him and invite him to a meeting or at least hint to him, you like him. Otherwise, yes, we will miss it and you can regret it for the rest of your life.