Can A Man / Woman / Be So Naive And Good?

   You have come across a unique person - a judge and a chauvinist. There is no point in poisoning your life with it. True, he is the father of your child, but there is no point in cutting your life in half and being with him. Leave him now and be happy and free. You better stay away from him. Move away and live happily with your child. I'm sorry for the strong words, but one day you will realize that you did the right thing.

   RESPECT!!!! I'm telling you a unique woman! I don't know, I really don't know what to tell you, I read the story in one breath and just ... you are a sane person, a strong person and even though you have that fear, you have that note of determination with which people change their lives 180 degrees. You are not naive and you are not stupid, you are just a person, you have feelings, fears, longings and dreams ... it is normal for these human habits to hinder us and make us tolerate such madness. Thank goodness you realize the whole situation correctly, but never blame yourself for anything in this story, you once had a logical explanation for your actions. Good luck, health for you and the child! Zu-Za

   Look, the problem is not in you and this can be seen everywhere. I don't know, but somehow, a great respect and esteem for you was born in me, maybe because you are real in life, which is great. And that's what I'm writing about now and I want to help you. You are just a good woman, loving and caring. But you are not naive. Your husband is very lucky because he has you, but unfortunately he does not see him. He doesn't see what kind of person you are, he doesn't see what a big heart you have. He, unfortunately, has fallen into the trap of jealousy. So much so that he hated you. He imagines that you are cheating on him or at least that you are flirting with colleagues, friends, etc. He doesn't believe you, and it's because of this terrible jealousy he's accumulated for no reason. It's not your fault. It is normal to have jealousy, but there is also love. But he has lost control of his jealousy, and jealousy already controls him. Instead of the jealousy weakening over the years, it always intensifies in him. He hasn't always known you well enough to trust you. And these slaps and this bad attitude and attacks - because of jealousy is, you can see. And despite all this, you go to him for a visit to the hospital because you care about him. But he treats you the same way, he looks at you with the same zealous look. He does not see that you, despite everything, are by his side and, above all, that you are giving him a chance to change, because you still love him, but unfortunately he does not realize it. Talk to him seriously. Because your child will one day ask "Where is Daddy" ... and what will you say? ; (Tell this to your husband. Tell him to realize it in time. Because sooner or later you will stop seeing and even hearing from him if he continues to be jealous and hates you. You will look for and find another who will really appreciate you and there will be no drop of jealousy towards you, or at least his jealousy towards you will be as much as one drop. And your husband? He will realize what he had, but he will realize it later and he will regret it a lot and he will suffer even more after he thinks of his child, which he was not interested in, as he was not interested in you. He will realize that he has lost 2 huge values ​​in his life and for what? Because of his stupid and excessive jealousy. Good luck darling and don't give up. You can change it. Love always wins :) One Boy - 20 years old. which he was not interested in, just as he was not interested in you. He will realize that he has lost 2 huge values ​​in his life and for what? Because of his stupid and excessive jealousy. Good luck darling and don't give up. You can change it. Love always wins :) One Boy - 20 years old. which he was not interested in, just as he was not interested in you. He will realize that he has lost 2 huge values ​​in his life and for what? Because of his stupid and excessive jealousy. Good luck darling and don't give up. You can change it. Love always wins :) One Boy - 20 years old.

   To number 1 by the author ... You are very right and your words are not strong at all, but real ... the truth itself ... and thank you for the kind words!

   To number 2 by the author ... Thank you ... unfortunately until recently I could not look at myself as you describe me ... I was used to the idea that I was almost some garbage. And it was my feelings and fears that prevented me from making the decision earlier ... And I have to stop apologizing for other people's mistakes.

   To number 3 from the author ... Thank you too ... And I was very surprised that such a comment has been written for 20 years. boy ... WELL DONE ... RESPECT ... The question "Where's Daddy?" For now, the child knows that he lives with his mother, and his father lives in his house. Until I love him ... ??? I don't know if there are such feelings left in me ... that there is respect ... there is, but that's it. And it's only his fault, you can't expect someone you hurt to love you like that.

   You are definitely not what you think and flaunt, despite the pubertal comments above. You think of something ("good", "naive"), you play it like that, but this is not your essence, but a great conquest (some phrases in your writing unambiguously betray it). The good man is not naive, but aware. To be good you need inner strength, and the offending person is neither strong nor aware, at least - good. On the other hand, the naive person's self-esteem, friends, flirtations on Facebook and coffee without the label "married" do not grow along with income. So: what you wrote is your version and your self-esteem. It will be very interesting to listen to the other side with its version, as well as the assessments of others (but not your parents - for them you are undoubtedly ideal), because there is a very big difference between what a person is considered to be and what he really is. Your big mistake is that you connected your life with someone still young and green. You did not have the opportunity to get to know people in general, the opposite sex, yourself if you wanted, nor to gain the necessary life experience, nor to choose a suitable and appropriate partner for your nature. People come together in a similar and mutually attractive way, rather than catching the first person you meet (or hers, respectively) and then trying to change it. But you are still very young. Good luck next time! And don't go out in front of people saying you're good and naive - it's grotesque. the other sex, yourself if you want, neither to gain the necessary life experience, nor to choose a suitable and appropriate to your nature partner. People come together in a similar and mutually attractive way, rather than grabbing the first person you meet (or hers you) and then trying to change it. But you are still very young. Good luck next time! And don't go out in front of people saying you're good and naive - it's grotesque. the other sex, yourself if you want, neither to gain the necessary life experience, nor to choose a suitable and appropriate to your nature partner. People come together in a similar and mutually attractive way, rather than catching the first person you meet (or hers, respectively) and then trying to change it. But you are still very young. Good luck next time! And don't go out in front of people saying you're good and naive - it's grotesque.

   To number 7 by the author ... I do not flaunt what I am, I know myself well or just now I started to get to know each other ... and in my story / if you read it / I / I wrote that I see people like yourself ... obviously you see me as yourself ... or ... ??? you know, people are like coals, if they don't burn you they will blacken you ... I am writing this in connection with the other side ... for them I am the wrong, the corrupt one / and there is such a specimen in their family / and of course they kill complexes on my back ... and about whether I take over or not ... many people have told me that, and all of them people from whom you can't hear a kind word, ie cold ... it's me I am not and I do not want to be a cold person ... If someone does good to someone consciously knowing what will happen to him, he would not rush to do it at all ... Naively the good does good only because it is good, and consciously the good one does it either for profit or ... all this ... / my opinion /. And this with self-confidence, friends, etc. ... how did you come up with it, with the growth of my income I did not write that who knows what has changed, qualitatively yes, but not quantitatively ... ??? Oh, a man for himself for a while is what is imposed on him / in my case /, and when you realize you really see yourself ... for the people around you it is never more ... And this, that I've connected my life since I was a child with someone ... oooh, I'm not sorry at all ... I haven't looked for much ... we've moved from city to city, I've seen, but I haven't taken advantage ... I praise no one, the fact that someone can't get rid of the fact that there is something more is his personal and mental problem ... / and everyone is more for himself and I respect that in people / /my opinion/. And this with self-confidence, friends, etc. ... how did you come up with it, with the growth of my income I did not write that who knows what has changed, qualitatively yes, but not quantitatively ... ??? Oh, a man for himself for a while is what is imposed on him / in my case /, and when you realize you really see yourself ... for those around you a man is never more ... And this, that I've connected my life since I was a child with someone ... oooh, I'm not sorry at all ... I haven't looked for much ... we've moved from city to city, I've seen, but I haven't taken advantage ... I praise no one, the fact that someone can't get rid of the fact that there is something more is his personal and mental problem ... / and everyone is more for himself and I respect that in people / /my opinion/. And this with self-confidence, friends, etc. ... how did you come up with it, with the growth of my income I did not write that who knows what has changed, qualitatively yes, but not quantitatively ... ??? Oh, a man for himself for a while is what is imposed on him / in my case /, and when you realize you really see yourself ... for those around you a man is never more ... And this, that I've connected my life since I was a child with someone ... oooh, I'm not sorry at all ... I haven't looked for much ... we've moved from city to city, I've seen, but I haven't taken advantage ... I praise no one, the fact that someone does not get rid of the fact that there is something more is his personal and mental problem ... / and everyone is better for himself and I respect that in people / with the growth of my income I did not write that who knows what has changed, qualitatively yes, but not quantitatively ... ??? Oh, a man for himself for a while is what is imposed on him / in my case /, and when you realize you really see yourself ... for those around you a man is never more ... And this, that I've connected my life since I was a child with someone ... oooh, I'm not sorry at all ... I haven't looked for much ... we've moved from city to city, I've seen, but I haven't taken advantage ... I praise no one, the fact that someone does not get rid of the fact that there is something more is his personal and mental problem ... / and everyone is better for himself and I respect that in people / with the growth of my income I did not write that who knows what has changed, qualitatively yes, but not quantitatively ... ??? Oh, a man for himself for a while is what is imposed on him / in my case /, and when you realize you really see yourself ... for the people around you it is never more ... And this, that I've connected my life since I was a child with someone ... oooh, I'm not sorry at all ... I haven't looked for much ... we've moved from city to city, I've seen, but I haven't taken advantage ... I praise no one, the fact that someone can't get rid of the fact that there is something more is his personal and mental problem ... / and everyone is more for himself and I respect that in people /

   Написах коментара си именно, защото се досетих, че преди не си можела да гледаш на себе си като такъв човек. Едно е да се родиш със самочувствие, гордост, борбеност и благодарение на това никога да не са те мачкали, а съвсем друго е докато си мачкан да си изградиш тези неща. Като цяло е трудно за един човек да се изправи и да изкрещи мнението и позицията си, когато всички го сочат с пръст, обвиняват го и му се присмиват. Но много се радвам, че си от жените, които говорят за това, така, сякаш всичко е заровено в пръстта. Зу-За

   To number 9 by the author ... Before I looked at myself ... rather from the point of view of others / my husband mostly /, they told me how they see me like that ... without a personal opinion. From now on it is clear to me that my opinion and position will be quite difficult to break through me, but at least I try to defend my right to a human being ... And for pointing a finger ... it is clear, everyone points the one who, in his opinion, is lower or almost failed - and that has nothing to do ... It is very easy, especially for those whose conscience is not very clear, but while according to them there is worse than them - this is welcome!

   I don't know how you can even contact the person who BILL you? !! He treated you like a slave, he didn't care about your child, it is clear that in time he will attack your child as well ... Leave him alone, you don't deserve such rubbish, let him die alone!

   To number 11 from the author ... I can't stop the contacts normally because of the child ... he will understand what it is about anyway, but she is still young and does not realize what is happening around her, I left her to live in the nursery your world without problems ... for now ... I've left him alone already, but a hard word like "let him die" is very painful ... just like a thought. Thank you!