I have a license for three years and I don't have a personal car. I'm driving our two kids, damn it. I also have some personal money since before the marriage, enough for a car, but I'm ducking and I'm complying with his stupid opinion. And it's that I don't need ' cause I can drive all three of his cars. Opel Zafira, my set, dirty from building materials, stinking of cigarettes, and most importantly-not available. I have to schedule the workers to tote two child seats, every 10 kilos each. And so much luggage every day, sometimes several times. When I see my girlfriend's car-clean, does not smell cigarette, in the trunk everything necessary from spare clothes to scooters and kites. He gets up and goes. I'm ashamed to take a foreign child out of the garden, ask me, one mother, once, how do I get her child in the dust and the butts? According to my husband, these are complexes. The other argument is that I have to accumulate more driving experience before a personal car. Just another stupid thing. I was going to drive perfectly if I hadn't changed my car every single day. One of the diesel, the other on gas-a whole different quarrel, I have no time to get used to. I can't find the comfort in my car every time I move seats, steering wheel, mirrors. Every car with its tweezers, with different dead zones. One week to be in the same car and my driving is getting better right away. I wouldn't say, and that I can't drive, my car just goes off, I don't get the gears--things that are a question of convening. And my husband really knows I'm driving well, or he's not going to let me take the kids out, he's just being dumb. And by putting the car out in front of him, he finds "Hey, don't you learn to drive!" It couldn't happen to him-yes, you can't, but you drive from 15 years on three continents. As I said, we have a chance to buy. I don't want it to be new, I don't want it to be nice, I want mine. Clean and be in front of us, that's all. Do you think it is rude not to consider his opinion and without his knowledge to buy a car with personal money in question? I'm not right, it's not a whim, I have a lot of hanging out with the kids, I go shopping, I lead them to a garden, to checkups, to walks. I'm going to buy some garbage and then poison my animal. I can see how the old cars are always in the workshop, but if it happens with a car bought by me, it will fret to the end of the world. If I had his support, I'd take a leaseback, with an invoice from his company, but, well, he's not taking it for himself, who doesn't get off the car, what's left for me. For everything is so, there are sneakers from high school, but for experiences do not squeeze, I greatly appreciate this quality, however sometimes overdo it. I would have useful advice on how to change his mind, although it is a little lost cause, or how to make a good choice with a car of old. My dad doesn't understand anything, my friends are friends and my husband and it's going to be bad, my girlfriends have also left the choice completely to their husbands. I look at the classifieds again about Zagira, another I did not drive and as the size I like, look to be diesel and have air conditioning, generally do not know what to watch...