Broken Love

   Offff, isn't yours a Taurus? It's like describing mine, but I'm deeper than you. These people are not crazy, they are big manipulators and egocentrics! I'm going to be very angry if you don't leave this person now, it's a nasty character who will never change. Run now while you have the strength to get rid of and fight this man! Run!

   You will not re-educate him. Get out of this poisonous relationship!

   Rather, you have to think about how much longer you will live like this ...

   Personally, I myself would not tolerate this, I tell you honestly. I've always hated excessive drama. I think that my relationship is to feel GOOD with the person and to support each other, not to be a problem for each other. These are some children's stories or from immature and unstable brains. I would not deal with such a person.

   I read the beginning. I want to tell you that an adult can't change. And if it can be minimal.

   If you want to change the circumstances around you for the better, you must first change yourself for the better, become patient, undemanding, understanding, forgiving, and so on. If you want the world to change to suit your soul, this will not happen and you will be constantly disappointed and bitter. It's hard and I know it may not be easy for you, but you have to remember this: "You're not special." If you can realize it, understand it and it humbles you, then you can change things for the better.

   Aggression and you are still without problems and commitments, tomorrow with 2 children, loans and real life .... watch the news there are many interesting examples. The problem is not in him, but in you. Because common coexistence is not roses but a series of responsibilities and problems. When these problems are garnished with real ones, you will sober up to reality, whatever they write to you will not change anything. Analyze your behavior, his.

   From the author: to 7: Yes, this is the thing that worries me the most about the future. After children, I will be even more "attached" and then he will be even more impudent. But what do you mean by my behavior? Because I allow it, or because I choose such a relationship, or do I provoke it? to 1: the zodiac sign is a psychopath if you ask me ... such are beyond the moon and the stars ... up to 4: I would write such a comment if I were on the sidelines ... until before this relationship I thought in exactly the same way and so I spoke to my friends si .. but you never know how you can fall into the trap of a predator.

   from the author: And of course I don't want a separation, otherwise I wouldn't be writing here .. I love our good moments together, and I see potential as funny as it sounds ... I want to reach it so that it can be seen through my eyes, but I don't know how, I'm powerless ... and physically and mentally he prevails over me, and I don't want to be against him, but with him.

   Up to 6 And you are not special to tell people how to bow their heads to oligophrenics, the world will not change because you said so

   Yes!!! I was in a similar situation, only I was subjected to domestic violence by the man, and about the one-on-one attitude with what you described. There was peace only when man wanted peace, there was drama when he decided. At one point, the harassment became daily, that we were even engaged !! How did I escape? After another fight over me, I waited in the morning with tears, I recovered as if I was going to work, the man did not suspect anything, of course, when he went to work HE, I had already contacted my relative. All my luggage was packed, everything, so that I had nothing to go back to so I wouldn't see it, and God forbid it beat me. Now I live a new life, I realized how good it is without drama, without a person who likes to pick on my every word and look for an opportunity to take my soul. You are right - this is Stockholm Syndrome. Run while you can, because I guarantee you will start beating you, it's only a matter of time. "... he's just a crazy person who's good to me only when he's in the mood." I will ask you from the position of a person who has endured and experienced a lot / a month ago I ran away from the abuser /, how can you even think about a constructive conversation ???

There will be none! Understand !!! These are deeply complex people who "turn", use their complexes on another person. It will get worse if you stay. Then you will regret why you were patient. I can't believe for myself how good I feel that I'm not with this person who did me a lot of atrocities, but I gathered courage and left. I will repeat again - he will not change, even if you change in some way / but I do not think that you are the person who needs change /, and you need to get out of there. These are very toxic and destructive relationships. This individual is drinking from your life, dear girl. Collect your thoughts, realize sooner ... It's like reading part of my horror. Please save it. It will get worse over time. This is not a normal relationship between two people who seem to love each other. It will be disappointing if you stay with him. Write again what is happening. ~ EL

   From 6 to 10 - I know I'm not special but you don't know that either! Change starts with you, if you just complain about others and are dissatisfied, nothing will change except you become more and more bitter and unhappy! You can be BITTER or BETTER!