Hi I'm an 18 year old girl, I had sex for the first time last year and that was it. The boy just opened it for me, but I didn't repeat it either. I've been masturbating for a few months, I'm generally happy, then I stopped for a few days. 2 days ago I was very aroused and decided to do the same, but this time I had blood on my fingers, at first I thought that my cycle had come. I washed, I recovered, but I don't have a cycle on the second day, but it hurts a lot when I go to the toilet. I have no one to share, who knows what they will say, so I write here. Is it normal to have blood please help me we are scared but I am also confused. I beg you to post because I don't know who to turn to.
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You may not have been completely open. When you masturbated, you stuck your fingers deeper and bled again. Masturbate more often and if you have the opportunity use a vibrator. The vibrator will open you completely and will give you more pleasure.
My, you better go to the doctor. If you lost your virginity more than a year ago and still have blood, I don't think it's normal. You may have an infection. For this, to be sure, ask the doctor what it is due to.
Most likely you tore your manicure and that's why there was blood on your fingers. It also happened to me when I was drier and I wanted to get to the end, lulled into my actions, I did not feel the pain, because there was pain that you probably did not feel. For starters, examine your clitoris and labia to see where the injury is, and then do sumac lavage. Sold in every pharmacy, one package is about 1-2 BGN. Boil 1 tablespoon of the herb in 500 ml. water and after it cools you strain it and do a rinse. Sumac has an antiseptic and antibacterial effect and your wound will close faster. In the meantime, maintain perfect hygiene.
Do not masturbate for a while and the wound will heal.
From the author Thanks for the advice, but I don't have one about manicure.
You better not masturbate! This destroys self-confidence, turns you into a self-sufficient person, disrupts the normal physiological processes in the body ... and it cannot replace the absence of the other half. Not that you need a person to satisfy your instincts and go to bed with everyone you meet. But this can be easily controlled and even when a person has abstained for some time, the pleasure of sexual intercourse is incredibly greater :) I say this from personal experience. I am also self-satisfied, but after long observations and rethinking, after making several consecutive acts with a partner, of course, sometimes in such cases I am self-satisfied. Eventually I realized that something was not binding. I stopped doing it, even for a long time when I was without a wife ... and the result is an incredibly powerful experience. It's best to choose someone to love, and not a vibrator !!! :)
Number 6, on the contrary, masturbation INCREASES self-confidence, a person gets to know his body and accepts it better and thus understands what kind of caresses give him pleasure.