In some ways, I don't consider me gay when I'm not horny.
If you watch gay porn and tem like that is normal, over time pornography changes the taste of the user, because it gets used to and oversaturates dopamine receptors, I for example like I like to tranitas (dicks tits female traits) but only on a pornograving basis, do I stop for a week, say I become a straight beast to women and my thoughts do not go there at all.
Success.
I'm suffering from heterophobia... I think there's nothing more hated and trampled in today's society than a heterosexual man... Except you're gay to me, and you can't see it, you don't have any more experience. You've never had an affair with a woman before, you've had a relationship with a child. What are you doing with a 13-year-old? What are you proving? I personally would love to be gay in this society, unfortunately I'm not...
But your experience is interesting because it shows some universality in this ideal of a woman, a family. You're attracted to men, and you still have him in your head... It's really a kind of social programming, and believe me, and if you were straight, you still had to get it out of your head because it's nothing more than an illusion.
I don't think it's because you saw your dicks when you were little... a lot of people have seen them, including me, but I haven't become gay. You're just so obvious. Otherwise, if you're interested, you might want to look for people who have changed their sexual orientation by taking LSD. In the 1960s and 1970s, there were many such cases in the US (they were prescribed it to treat alcoholism, and wealthy Hollywood gays took it, and at one point some gay men found that their wives' boobs became interesting and began to attract them to women, and so, it's a curious story). After all, sexuality is in various neural networks in the brain, and lsd is there, looking for "LSD homosexuality" if you're interested.
Otherwise, as number 2 says, the romantic idea of a family, a woman, 2-3 children and a dog is just a romantic idea that many men will not touch regardless of whether they are gay/straight/etc. It's just that nowadays half the marriages end in divorce, cheating is quite common, etc. You can take a woman for cover in public if you're worried about your orientation, but you need to know it's not going to be a normal family.
if you fell in love with a girl, it's possible that you're bisexual, you're with some complexes (a small penis, a thin penis or something), and that friend of yours was with a bigger, nicer member. To like his, but to think you can't excite a girl and not imagine having sex with a girl. I've been through all this.
Through falling in love as a student in women, aroused in public by girls, to kissing them, and then the excitement when I'm single from a penis, as if I'm the girl who sucks it up and punches him, and I've never acted like a gay man.
shortly after I finished I tried sex, not with the girls I was in love with and liked, but with a rather ugly companion. Well, you brought me nothing but misfortune. I didn't want to have sex with a woman.
Then I started getting haired, wearing thongs and writing with men. Every time I got excited by other people's members because I didn't like mine. My complexes have brought bisexuality, and a lack of women. I was writing to myself how I was going to try the back. 8 years after that I can tell you that I tried a man's (2 years ago last 3 times in total), and on another the first time before 6-7. Not once was it what I imagined it was, but the feeling of being in love with a girl, being confident in your abilities and penis, dominating is at times stronger, real and nice, than slapping a man's dick. of the 4 times I've done it, maybe I liked it once, but never as I imagined it
I already have a 3rd serious relationship with a girl for this period, sex is excellent. I have self-esteem, and to be honest, my penis gets a lot stronger, healthier, fatter and nicer, and I'm more confident.
Well, you choose who you want to be if you can be bisexual. I've accepted it. When I have a drought with a girl, I get to my complexes and i start getting turned on by other people's dicks. Somewhere out there, I have registrations and I write with men, but I don't roll myself up, I just waste my time. Next thing I know, oh, I'm not going to hit my head on a hot chick. Well, I do, and I see that my penis is even beautiful. Complexes can lead you to bad consequences
Hello :)
I'm a boy in my 20s, i'm also gay.
First, I want to make a comment on changing sexual orientation. If it were so easy, 60 years later it would have been an effective cure for homosexuality - alas is not, even on the contrary, homosexual marriage is legalized in rows of advanced countries. From the things I've read, usually such experiments end in neuroses and mental illnesses, and it never comes down to the desired outcome: being something other than who you are. There are also successful cases in people who are not quite gay. Just in case, I don't recommend this experiment with myself.
As far as I know from what you wrote, you've never experienced any real excitement from a woman before. Did you get to orgasm thinking or looking at a man? I don't think there's anything to wonder about :)
As for women, I think it's the romantic notion of the ideal life society has imposed, a life that society approves of. Yes, this is the life that is normal for society and everything there is great, but is this your life?
If there was no homophobia that supposedly annoys you, the idea of life wouldn't be different?
Good luck, I very much hope you can find your way to your true, not the one that society wants to see you.
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