Big Problem With A Small Man

   Author, it's not from circumcision, but he had another problem he doesn't want to tell you about - hormones, Mumps? who knows. 10 cm, otherwise it is OK size / not a micropenis /, but as you describe it, it has not reached a normal erection, which is the bigger problem in my opinion. Pity. I don't know what advice to give you, but my first friend had an erection problem and about the same size. We broke up because maybe that's why there were so many complexes. He was proud that his girlfriends were always virgins (they probably had no basis for comparison) and he killed his complexes by humiliating women except his mother. In short, small size is one problem, complexes and malice are the bigger problem. He felt real malice towards other men, but also towards women, towards me, towards the whole world.

   Height and size are not interrelated. Circumcision can lead to less stimulation for a man and have problems with erections and ejaculation, but when he finished in 10 minutes I don't know what the problem is, most likely he was just worried and this led to an early ejaculation. Otherwise, there is a lot of material on the net on how to last longer during sex and how to have stronger erections. But its size is from a gene, it is not its fault and there is nothing it can do to change it. If you think it's so important to break up with him, go ahead - your life is yours. Otherwise, I have read about men with relatively small limbs (10-13 cm) who manage to bring women to several orgasms (with his penis, not just his tongue) during sex. I would advise you to break up with him if you never manage to accept this shortcoming of his. Don't stay with him if you constantly have thoughts about how you want to do it with someone who is bigger than him. No one deserves this. The same goes for women who have small breasts. Personally, I would never leave a girl just because of her breast size. And please write what decision you made and how things developed. :)

   I am 14 cm tall and I thought he was small. I feel better now. On the topic: Of course, circumcision is harmful, especially if the boy is small (years old, not centimeters). A part of the penis is cut that does not heal later, do you think this is normal, author? It's like you cut their clitoris. To get an idea - in many parts of Africa, little girls are circumcised, not just boys. Islam obliges them to do so. Check in Internet. Imagine what it's like for this to happen to you - your boy feels the same way.

   Really very sad story! This man might die alone if you don't like the genitals, I don't see how you're going to drive! You like him again but if sex is important to you ... then you will not be ok with this person. Otherwise, you know the pride of a man is this organ, but you said you were disgusted by this sight! Why bother? Be friends and break up with him ... after a while you can enlarge his life and medicine is advanced, if you don't do it he will die alone. It's not your fault you don't like the genitals ... I think leave it. BUT in a very delicate way I do not know invent something his wife. But don't let him know that ... the cause is his genitals. You sound very disgusted, don't bother, just the person is not for you. Please write again what happened. - Don't worry ..

   There is nothing you can do, whatever he has ever had. And he may not tell you the truth. Eventually, the size would have become larger if he had erect completely. He may have been worried about your assessment, and if he didn't have sex soon, he might have finished quickly. Think about the options and decide if you want to try to the end.

   Love happens in the head, not between the legs! All chemical processes leading to orgasm occur in the brain. It is a misconception, in my opinion, that a small penis is not capable of satisfying a woman. He and Napoleon had about 8-10 cm of penis, but he performed quite well. Personally, I also do not shine with a huge length or thickness of my pencil, but I have a good vision, a dose of charm and approach - that's how a woman reaches orgasm, and not just with a penis! They didn't complain about me, although I actually have a small one. I think it's appropriate to talk to your friend and teach him how to approach according to what exactly excites and predisposes you. Be patient - she will learn and then you will be a truly happy lady. I also want to add that this guy seems to really like you and wants something to happen between you, otherwise why will it be so open to you? You think there are no complexes and isn't he ashamed? Give him a chance! PS A woman stops thinking about the penis of the man next to her only when he begins to fully satisfy her every time. I'm squeezing your thumbs to stop the torment around this topic .... Good luck to both of you! M26

   Should we mention again that size matters?

   There is no way to do it in this situation. Even if you continue, after he calms down that you have accepted him like that, he will start looking for other opportunities to satisfy his complex ... such people, unfortunately, once they are bound by a sure one, they run for more satisfaction. his. Ask in forums, a little psychology, if you want and you will see for yourself that the most whores are men with small dicks and not because they can, namely because they CANNOT, they are complex and so "scratch" nothing that usually a woman does not repeats with them, the number, do not look at the quality.

   From 1 to 8 - a very important aspect of your conversation. I didn't want to go into personal details, but that's why my partner and I broke up - it turned out that he cheated on me with my best friend. He even cheated ... the wrong word, because he couldn't get an erection during that time. Then they even got married, but ... surprise ... they had no children and after 5-6 years they separated. I really loved this man, as the Author describes him, but in the end I just felt great relief when I managed to get rid of him, and when he got married he was even more relieved because I knew he wouldn't look for me like that. Well, I was wrong - many times he tried to contact me, even though he was already married, so at one time every day I blocked him from fake Facebook profiles, with which he tried to contact me. I'm not saying now,

   It reminds me of one of my stories in the past. In general, I have a big member that I was proud of. I had sex with different girls, but I didn't have much experience. Then I met a great girl I fell in love with and that's where my nightmare began, which lasted about a year. It so happened that when it came to sex, I was so worried that my job shrank beyond recognition, after long attempts to get an erection, I finally finished. I had never felt so ridiculous, this case stuck in my mind and every time it got worse, but the girl did not give up on me and now we have been together for 9 years. I am very glad that he did not give up on me, now we have a full sex life and I do not remember this case.

   The size is 8-10% of the height, but there are also deviations.

   I give the point of view of a man with a small penis, who has also gone through erectile dysfunction. First, number 8 is not entitled to summarize. My penis is small, I have a complex of it of course, but it is not a pain to die. I know I have something to give a woman and make her happy. And sexually satisfied, despite my modest size. If I love one, I'm just with her. As far as I understand, the man has three problems: size, erection and premature ejaculation. The second two have nothing to do with size, so we'll look at them separately. Regarding the size - 10 cm is a small penis, but it is not unheard of. From a medical point of view it is close to the lower limit of normal, not a micropenis. That is, he can normally perform a sexual function and satisfy a woman if he is healthy. And the problem with size is cosmetic - as if a woman has small breasts. I don't know what you're used to, you can only have experience with some super gifted. Either way, the size is what it is, there is nothing to do. And I've talked to doctors, enlargement surgeries are full of nonsense. Now for the erection and premature ejaculation. It can happen to any man. At best, this is a one-time affair due to worry and rewinding. The bad can be a permanent problem. In both cases, things are fixable. What he can do while he is healing is make every effort with his tongue and hands. I had a chance to intercept, but I turned such a French on the chick that she sent me text messages about how good I was. And came back for more. Teach him where and how to touch you, how to lick you. Be honest with him, lead him. Show him that the dick is not the most important thing and you are ready to support him. Try with players from sex shops. Hug, touch. At best, this will calm him down and his erection will be normal. At worst - this is a permanent problem. It is very likely that it was caused by porn (I went this way). In this case, seek medical help and NO PORN for the boy. It is written above in case you decide to stay with him. So, if your problem is in its size and you are convinced that it cannot satisfy you, even with a full erection, you better leave it and think of another reason not to complicate it. Better than poisoning the relationship with sexual dissatisfaction. If you are mostly worried about a weak erection and rapid ejaculation, you have to decide - do you like him enough to fight with him and support him on the way to his recovery. If you go through this together, it can strengthen your relationship a lot and then enjoy a wonderful relationship - both out of bed, so in him. Nowadays, it is very difficult to find quality people to fit in with.

   During my student years, I met a guy at the disco. We went to them. Dude tall, well built, elegant, gentlemanly ... I really liked Abe. When we got to the act ... Well ... a miniature job. I don't know if he was 10 cm tall. Well ... He compensated with his hands and tongue, but I really didn't feel anything when he penetrated me. And I, in general, am quite narrow ... F26

   Author, I don't believe your story. You described everything very illogically. It was a little pepper ... 10 cm. If she had said it was a small pepper, I would have accepted it, but I don't like to call it a little pepper. The boy told you he was circumcised because of an infection, but that doesn't mean they cut him short. Well, all Jews and Muslims traditionally circumcise them precisely so that they do not get infections. When they wandered in the deserts where they lived in the distant past, there was not enough water to maintain sexual hygiene, so circumcision has become a religious rite. And they only trim the skin that covers the head of the penis. You wonder how he was going to score it because it was soft, and you say you played a little with it. How did you play with him, did you blow his whistle or did you masturbate! It was only after 10 minutes that it emptied. I don't know how a soft penis will ejaculate. That is why I tell you that there is no logic in your story. Let those men who have commented say whether they have cummed (ejaculated) with a soft penis. Stupid story.

   It is very unpleasant! I came across one, horror! His was small, but not soft. He had hardened it and we even tried, but it didn't work at all. Even the condom falls several times. He felt what was happening and his eyes watered. I wanted to help him finish, but I was sick of giving me a blowjob. Just a sight, some dude with a nice cock, and a dick sticking out. I offered him anal sex to finish. That's what we did.

   I'm glad there are people like No. 12, but you're the exception. Most men with a small penis do not even know how to satisfy the woman in any other way, and 99% of the time the woman has to do frontal positions in order for them to at least reach orgasm through some kind of stimulation. "Now for the erection and premature ejaculation. It can happen to any man. "I've been with my husband for 15 years and we have sex almost every day, but he has never been spotted. It happens to him that he is very tired and he can't finish easily, but he keeps an erection and always achieves an erection at max, and if he can't finish after 20 minutes I stimulate him orally and ready, but I am always satisfied as a woman. There is nothing to turn and suck. Erection and retention are most important, then comes the actual size and I'm not talking about huge sizes, but normal size. And yes, 10 cm. from a medical point of view they are normal, but nothing feels even in an erection, and if there are any problems just forget. And yes, such men are very often vicious and complex. There are also women who are so because of a small bust, but the bust during sex does not play such an important role, and such women can at least have normal sex or inflate. In case of problems with the penis, a suffering begins. As I have already written, I tolerated such a man for 3 years and abandoned him because he "cheated" on me and treated everyone disgustingly. I'm sorry, but there are limits and believe me, even if you love someone very much, after a while just love evaporates in such a relationship. From a purely female perspective, yes - an etoistic perspective, I can advise any woman just purely for herself and choose a man without such problems. There are a lot of men outside and we women are the ones which we choose. There is nothing better than regular and good sex with a man without problems.

   Horror, I had the same situation ... And with a man I thought I was in love with and had known for years ... Just when I got to bed ... At first I didn't feel anything through my clothes ... then when I took it off my pants just cried, I will never forget it ... Small and thin, 10 cm in erection. It and an erection ... Besides everything else, he didn't even try to satisfy me with his fingers or his mouth !!! We did it 2 times in a row, and it ended in no more than 5 minutes both times, I rested hellishly humiliated by the unsatisfactory sex !! Whatever people say, sex is important, size too !! Unsatisfactory sex shows that your partner doesn't really care much about you. Needless to say, I left it after that. Look for someone else better, we all have the right to happiness !!

   horror is to have a small dick better to be homosexual such men how to satisfy a woman with such a pen let alone soft find someone with a big piece otherwise you will cheat on him all your life

   N 12, I'm 8, tell me how long was your longest relationship? And I do not generalize, it is summarized by studies, psychologists, and personal experiences of many women who have been with a man with a small penis. Apart from the fact that, if possible, they jump with which they can, as a rule, they are also examined for women with large breasts, this is a sign of "masculinity" for them. They do not treat their complex, even in many cases they refuse to visit a urologist if necessary, do not accept the problem and do not treat or improve it as much as possible. Some time ago I participated in a survey on dating sites. 80% had small penises, but big aspirations, (the study was international) most refused to show it at first or send pictures of their penis, but promised the "coolest" sex I've ever had. Then, when I managed to convince them, that I like only small and blabbering nonsense to caress their ego, already in a rage they flooded me with photos and blew it like a flag on camera. Almost all of them were married !!! And everyone was talking about "wild sex". Those of medium or large size definitely communicated more easily, were interested in things outside of sex, asked me about hobbies, careers. They invited me to the cinema, theater, they didn't have such complexes and they really wanted to get to know the person, not to look for a hole in which to scratch their complex. I say it rudely, maybe, but this is the truth. I would not be in a relationship with a man with a small penis precisely because of the complexes, and not because of "impossibility". Only because of these fears of his, he will lie, he will "sting" whenever and wherever he can, he will be nervous and scared that I will look for someone more talented ... so-called. Maybe it would happen if the man from the very beginning says, shows and proves that he has accepted his problem, that he has perfected techniques for satisfying the other half and VERY important goals in life, hobbies, self-esteem. Otherwise, it will kill him right there to "prove" through numbers, not quality! I prefer to be slightly compliant with a large penis and be careful with that, instead of all the other problems that a complex with a small one will hit me with! Many women deny this, but the truth is that everyone thinks so! I see no reason to keep lying that it doesn't matter ... there is more!

   From 12 to 17: I didn't understand why you dumped your boyfriend - because of the small penis or because of the infidelity? And if a woman cheats on me or treats me badly, I'll dump her if Aphrodite is in bed. Because 99% of men don't know - there is one thing called communication. And the delivery of pleasure is mutual. You guide the man how to satisfy you, he guides you. I have not been with two women who like exactly the same thing. As for how you feel at 10 cm, it's up to your physiology, it depends on how wide you are. So far, my friends have not had any complaints, but I like pocket boyfriends a meter and a half. For them, everything will be OK in terms of size. I'm glad you have a good sex life with your husband. I did not say that everyone has erection problems, but they are widespread. I think it's because of porn. This is a terrible scourge, and I wish I had known what I know now. And more men to know it. Regarding the attitude that you choose women - this is the case until the age of 30. And by a lot of choice ... I know women who already dream of someone taking them. And I know men like that, by the way. Author, if you have met a person who treats you well, loves and likes you, at least try to improve sex before you lose it. Such people are very rare. I had the good fortune to come across a beautiful woman while struggling with erectile dysfunction. He supported me, he loved me, I overcame it and we had a great full relationship. We broke up for completely different reasons afterwards. Good luck girl and not looking for perfection. Look for your man. that women choose - so it is until the 30th year. And by a lot of choice ... I know women who already dream of someone taking them. And I know men like that, by the way. Author, if you have met a person who treats you well, loves and likes you, at least try to improve sex before you lose it. Such people are very rare. I had the good fortune to come across a beautiful woman while struggling with erectile dysfunction. He supported me, he loved me, I overcame it and we had a great full relationship. We broke up for completely different reasons afterwards. Good luck girl and not looking for perfection. Look for your man. that women choose - so it is until the 30th year. And from a lot of choice ... I know women who already dream of someone taking them. And I know men like that, by the way. Author, if you have met a person who treats you well, loves and likes you, at least try to improve sex before you lose it. Such people are very rare. I had the good fortune to come across a beautiful woman while struggling with erectile dysfunction. He supported me, he loved me, I overcame it and we had a great full relationship. We broke up for completely different reasons afterwards. Good luck girl and not looking for perfection. Look for your man. at least try to improve your sex before you lose it. Such people are very rare. I had the good fortune to come across a beautiful woman while struggling with erectile dysfunction. He supported me, he loved me, I overcame it and we had a great full relationship. We broke up for completely different reasons afterwards. Good luck girl and not looking for perfection. Look for your man. at least try to improve your sex before you lose it. Such people are very rare. I had the good fortune to come across a beautiful woman while struggling with erectile dysfunction. He supported me, he loved me, I overcame it and we had a great full relationship. We broke up for completely different reasons afterwards. Good luck girl and not looking for perfection. Look for your man.

   Well, mine is 13 cm in a fully erect state, and now what? Should I explode? In my opinion, the essence of things is how you use the tool, not so much what its size is ... So far I don't have a partner who has complained about anything. I have two children, a wife and a mistress. Don't stare at these things! 10 cm is more or less the norm (not 6, for example, so you can worry). See, if it's very thin, like a finger, that's a problem. If you really love the person - help him, get used to him, learn to have fun with him. Maybe he needs psychological support. 10 minutes is not a small amount. Statistically, one sexual intercourse lasts 5-7 minutes. Of course, there are techniques for prolongation (my favorite duration is about 40 minutes), but these are extras and learn over time. At one time I had a girlfriend with very small tits. "Flat as a board", which is called. In the beginning, because I wasn't used to it, it was a "big" "problem" for me. After a few months, however, I got used to them, I stopped being impressed by how small they really are, and I started to find them extremely cute - always tight, they only click when you stroke them ... And she was a great person, I was in love with her soul. . We broke up under circumstances beyond our control. Now she has 3 / three / children. It soon happened that we knocked again and saw each other, and remembered the good old days. I asked her, by the way, and she admitted that she never even thought it was small. and I started to find them extremely nice - always tight, they only click when you stroke them ... And she was a great person, I was in love with her soul. We broke up under circumstances beyond our control. Now she has 3 / three / children. It soon happened that we knocked again and saw each other, and remembered the good old days. I asked her, by the way, and she admitted that she never even thought it was small. and I started to find them extremely nice - always tight, they only click when you stroke them ... And she was a great person, I was in love with her soul. We broke up under circumstances beyond our control. Now she has 3 / three / children. It soon happened that we knocked again and saw each other, and remembered the good old days. I asked her, by the way, and she admitted that she never even thought it was small.

   H.13. What an interesting statement you make. And you sound like the author confused. You say that you are generally quite narrow, and you did not feel anything when he penetrated you. He didn't even have 10 cm when he had an erection. If you don't feel anything from a penis less than 10 cm, when it penetrates you, I don't believe you are as narrow as you describe yourself. And what do you feel when a gifted man with 16-18 cm penetrates you. You say you're tight, then you should roar in pain. Adjust it a bit.

   It is sad, but not the "problem" that excites the author, but the time spent discussing something that cannot be changed. We live in a time of unwanted ostentation, of certain criteria, in a time when thought and love are not preferable ...

   As I read what you have written, you have almost parted with it in your mind, even though it has not yet been realized. You thought he had a short dick, that he finished quickly, that he was complex, and so on. Nachi, the man is not as bad as you describe him. How he ended in 10 minutes when there was no act, I just did not understand, but he may have been so excited that he only ended if you played with his member with his hand, for example. I've had such endings without wanting to, it's not who knows what. Especially if he hasn't had sex in a long time. I think you can give him a chance. At least a few more times. Let him try to lick you and be a little more active and masculine in sex. It's best to lick you until it's over, then fuck you, then it's best for both of you, personally in my opinion (and my member is not the biggest).

   Author, let me just tell you that walnut-sized testicles are normal .... 1017

   As many of the authors have written before me say, erection problems can be due to anxiety. It may be due to very serious problems with blood supply, etc. But it may be due to hormonal disorders and in this case there is a great chance that it will be fixed. In fact, there is one hormone called Testosterone. You need to do a test, a simple blood sample. Low testosterone levels have a direct effect on erection, overall performance and even self-esteem. If doctors find low testosterone levels, they will prescribe injections (given every few weeks) or a cream that is applied daily. Small testicles can also be a consequence of low testosterone levels and may even suggest problems with sperm production. This also needs to be explored. I write all this based on my own experience. Good luck!

   10 cm is really small. How much are enough? 13, 14, 15?

   От 17 до 12 - Първо, моят първи приятел не само имаше малък пенис, но и проблеми с ерекцията. Не съм го „зарязала“, а скъсах с него. В интерес на истината бих скъсала с него дори да нямаше проблеми със секса и да не ми беше изневерявал. Просто си показа гадния характер след известно време. Бях влюбена в него по някакъв много странен начин, нещо, граничещо с манията и изтърпях много неща, докато не си направих равносметка, че от тази връзка само негативи извличам - лош и никакъв секс, унижения, лошо прекарване на времето като цяло с него, отгоре на всичко вече много доказателства имах за изневярата му, но той отричаше. Общо взето дори да имаше 25 см. пенис бих го зарязала, но дали щеше да има такъв гаден комплексарски характер ако имаше нормален и функциониращ пенис, е тук въпросът. Самият пенис извън леглото не играе роля си мисли човек, но това май не е точно така. Срещала съм и крайно комплексирани жени заради малки гърди или лоша фигура. И при двата пола го има като се стига до злоба и крайности като човек не се харесва. Партньорът нищо не може да направи Интересното е, че не ми беше ясно, че липсата на нормален секс ми се отразява и на мен много зле и физически, и психически. Чак след като се запознах с днешния ми съпруг и изпитах какво е да имаш нормален секс, си дадох сметка, че съм имала своите нужди през цялото това време. Интересно е това, което каза 20. Аз съм жена с много големи гърди и може би съм била възприемана от този компелксар като вид трофей. Всеки прави грешки, особено в младостта си, но ако остана някога сама и трябва пак да си търся мъж, никога не бих направила компромис вече и не бих се лишила от качествен секс. Съжалявам, но един живот живеем.

   I lost my virginity at 18 to my uncle, who was five years older than me and had a 21-inch erection. For some women, this may seem great, I had the opposite reaction. Every time I saw him naked and protruding, I would break out in a cold sweat. It took two months of pushing and caressing, supposedly predisposing me. Yes but no! And when it finally deflores me, I can't describe what a hell of a pain I felt. I bled for two days, as if I were menstruating. My second friend had a small penis. 10 centimeters is a lot for him. At one point I didn't know if he was coming in or rubbing at the entrance. I never enjoyed having sex with one or the other. I didn't dare talk to either of them openly, to admit to them that something was lame. My platonic relationship was okay, especially since my experience is limited to two men, who fail to help you finish. So at one point in my eighteenth year, I thought I was one of those frigid women who didn't feel anything. I also tried masturbation, but she also proved this cardinal conclusion to me. From everything said so far, I resigned myself. Until I came across my husband. His penis is not screaming big, nor too small. I think he is one of the medium-sized ones, but he was the only one who gave me great pleasure in sex. Quite dizzying. So much so that I've been with him for fifteen years and have no incentive to cheat or try anything side. It wasn't until the birth of my son that the doctor, who was checking my revelation, jokingly suggested that I was one of those wonderful women who had a very small and tight vagina. He said: '' Every man, even a small one, will feel like in heaven! ' which explained why I was bleeding so much during my first sexual intercourse. So to the question of the little member. My advice is to leave him. If this is important to you and you find the sight disgusting, it is better to save the continuation of this farce. As I did, I do not regret my choice for a moment. Success! :)

   n 34, you came across an incorrect doctor or maybe he wanted to cheer you up and make a joke at such a moment. However, as a woman giving birth, you know that the vagina is not just a pocket, but is covered by many muscles and the mucous membrane itself has internal folds that allow it to expand for a child, let alone a large member. You just didn't come across a man with good technique or you didn't have enough lubrication, which he should have thought of as more experienced how to overcome. Indeed, a member alone is not enough. I support you otherwise, that the average member is the best. You can change the poses as much as you want, but the man still can't choose his size. Still, for a large man, I think it's easier to give a woman pleasure after a while, because the vagina will fit his size, but the man with a member of 10 cm and less I do not see how he will be able to do "work". For me personally, after 13 cm we can already talk about an average, normal size, and between 10-13 cm the member is small no matter how much we rotate it, below 10 cm we are already talking about a micropenis.

   Number 35, then I was a girl and of course size matters to me. But even now, after so many years, seeing a big penis in the porn we both watch makes me shiver. It's just super uncomfortable for me to imagine this thing between my legs, and I may already be psychologically at odds with my husband and for that and the advice I give is wrong. Maybe the experience I have is wrong and wrong. But I really came across both options, and in the end I was satisfied with the average job. As funny as it sounds now. I wish the author success in resolving her dilemma!

   Hello, the fact that he is small does not affect if you are inexperienced. I was like that with my first boyfriend, we were very much in love and we had a relationship for a year. One day the moment came when we became more intimate and it didn't impress me because it was my first and I didn't know what to feel and if we were doing it right. I did not feel orgasm, I did not feel any pleasure. I make a comparison with my current boyfriend with whom I have been for 4 years, with him I felt the real pleasure of sex. I'm not saying that it is very large, but it is a normal average size to say and it is especially important how the man will predispose you and whether he uses his penis properly. If you like him so much, you can basically stay with him and try, but I think that will bother you and you will not feel good in this relationship. In love, sex is very important, at least I think so.

   Let me tell you, as we set out to share. My second sexual partner had a small member. He was not interested in my pleasure. He was a terrible egoist in bed. I didn't mind its modest size because I was obsessed with it. I took the initiative for my pleasure, that is, to be on top or with a hand. What made me dump him was that he most brazenly decided to take my sister down. I told him we had an argument with her one day and he decided to act. A complete idiot ... I can't explain how he decided that my sister wouldn't tell me or show me the text messages from him. After a month or so after our separation, he caught up with a "friend" of mine. I came to the conclusion that he, like my sister, had stars while he was with me. And there may have been others. I think it meets the above descriptions of the complex. I have another case. Again a man of very modest size. And again completely selfish. He was 25 at the time and had learned nothing about sex. Nor did he touch me with his hand, let alone oral. For him, the act itself went as follows - we take off our clothes, give him a few minutes of oral sex and start poking. I was with him for a while. I tried to guide him, then told him in plain language that a woman was seldom aroused by the sight alone, but to no avail. I was already sad that things weren't working out. I read on the forums that the men with small penises allegedly compensated with equipment, and I did not come across one ... And because it is anonymous, I can say that I slept with 10 men. Two of them were small and they were the most selfish in bed. I also had two that were very large. They didn't even think to start before they gave me oral. The other 6 were of medium size and were again many times more attentive and devoted to the act itself, compared to those two with small ones. This is my experience, unfortunately. And I myself am not one of the perfect women to want men to be perfect. I would never give up on someone I care about because they are small. As long as there is a desire and a way will be found to compensate for the size, but without desire there is no way ... G25

   from 35 to 37 Mercy that shared. I didn't mean to go into details, but he described to you exactly the "sex" I had with my first boyfriend - first oral for him to get an erection anyway, then penetration, which in 90% of cases was not successful because the erection was lost. We were busy with him all the time, with his pleasure. Interestingly, after the act he felt very proud. In 3 years of relationship maybe 2 times with his hands he did something. He was the first with me and I had no idea how he should feel and what I should feel during sex. I have no experience with men, because I came across a man in the second. In fact, it was the first time I had real sex, and even in the beginning I was in a lot of pain and bleeding, so it's only possible that I lost my "virginity" then. I'm not ashamed to admit it, that for at least the first few weeks sex was the most important thing in the relationship for me. It was like finding some treasure. I do not claim that my husband is God in sex, but he has a normal penis, always achieves an erection, and pays attention to my pleasure. Maybe there are better ones in bed outside, but I don't care. I actually need a little. Elementary attitude in bed and out.

   As I read the last few comments, I think, "Bass, how can such idiots have boyfriends and I'm alone." His desolate shame ruined my life.

   From number 34. This topic took me back in time and I remembered a lot of details that somehow became depersonalized over time. It is said that the first man in a woman's life is never forgotten and is completely true. For me, the defloration itself was painful, and maybe that's why I depersonalized the rest. In fact, he was very careful and sensitive. For two months, this pressure had almost driven him mad. Aha to put it in me and I shrink and get sick, and he stops. Now that I have been sexually active and have a husband whose inexperience is inexhaustible, I can imagine what this abstinence was like in his soul. Somehow I suspected inwardly that he loved me very much and was ready for anything for me, and I never talked to him about that, that he did not satisfy me sexually. It's funny from the sides, understand that. Most women die to be flattered by a big cock, and I am disgusted and hurt. I didn't want to hurt him at all. Same story with this second one with its eight inches, if not smaller. How do you tell him that you don't feel it and that you can't tell if you're doing it or if he's rubbing outside? At one point, I preferred to accept that I was not being frigid and insensitive than to find fault with them. And now, when I think about it, I feel nostalgic. That's what I'm writing about. Eh, memories, memories ...

   It reminds me a bit of one of my stories. In general, I have a large penis - 16 - 17 cm when I am aroused, but in an aroused state it is about 10 cm, sometimes even less. I will also share that in every relationship in the beginning I had erection problems due to anxiety. Usually I just avoid having sex until I feel calm and everything falls into place - then I no longer have any problems. And third - ejaculation is possible even without an erection. I know it sounds weird, but something like this has happened to me once. I was in a terribly bad mood and to feel better my girlfriend decided that sex could help. My erection was almost non-existent, but enough to penetrate. I felt soft, but somehow the act happened. There was ejaculation, but no pleasure - on both sides. To be honest, the only reason I didn't stop was because of some stupid male ego. Since then, if I feel that things are wrong, I just tell myself (and it happens very rarely). Talk to the boy - it could be something like that. I hope I helped with something and everything will be ok!

   10 cm is a normal size if it is soft, woody it should be at least 17-18 cm. God forbid 20 cm. This one is not there at all, so drop it while it's time.

   Full of laughter. Various men with small dicks explain how size does not matter and how women enjoyed 1.50 cm ... Continue with self-deception. When I look at those who defend men with small members, they are men with small members. It seems that more women, because it is anonymous here, tell each other the truth about size. It is also funny the basic logic of most women who think that if someone is 1.90 or is split muscles and his penis is big and thick. Yes, but not in almost all cases, the opposite is true :) Come to think of it, if someone has a normal or large member, will he invest so much energy and time to become embossed and split? :) And yes, the smaller someone is, the more complex he is. But he becomes successful in life quite often comments on the little dick with money and big cars: ) As short women are complex and always strive to achieve something in life and their character is very "cool", so are men with small dicks. And you repeat the mantra "size does not matter, other things are important" Good luck :)

   H 45, I support your comment for which I "knocked" 5 stars, but for short women you are not right :) I am 158 cm and I am very happy with my height, I have many advantages that tall women do not have. It is very easy for me to choose among tall (or short, but I don't like) men, they always get involved to help with something, because it unlocks their sense of protection with us, the smaller ones. Even the element of surprise, if you will, no one expects us to be strong or to be able to defend ourselves as strong, well, we can;) I agree with the other.

   12-13 is not a small amount, for Bulgaria it is to the average size which in our country is 12-16.

   Abe, I wonder at your wit and comments. People, this is nature. Everyone is born with some physical characteristics, for which there is no guilt. One has a small dick, another is shorter, a third is wheeled and cheeky, a fourth has big ears, etc. In women it is the same low and stocky, with large and small breasts, that there are without breasts. even so on. This is not the most terrible thing, it is more terrible to be born empty-headed without a drop of thought in one's head and to remain so. I don't think a woman, when choosing a man, makes him take off his pants first to measure his penis. Think how people fall in love! When a woman wants a man with a big cock to look for one, no one stops her. However, I think that a relationship is based primarily on the qualities that two people have, not how long, short, wide, narrow and deep they are. In general, this discussion shows the intelligence of the commenters and their overall view of the desired partner. M30

   Number 12 to 45 - I don't protect people with small penises because I don't think they need protection. As far as I know, this is not a crime, nor is it something that depends on the person. Have you read somewhere that someone writes that size doesn't matter? There are, of course, but what do you suggest - should we kill ourselves? I have a complex, yes. But I do not know a person without complexes. One of his dick, another of his weight, a third of his financial situation. It seems to you from the comment that you have a whole collection, and one of the richest. It is now a matter of choice whether one will master one's complexes or lead one's life from them. I told you I didn't cheat on my girlfriends who wanted to believe. It's like saying that obese women are mean. Well, I know both evil and wonderful people among them. And there are men who like them. And of course, that size is not the only thing that matters. There are also factors such as technique, attitude, attitude, financial status, appearance, intellect. Human attractiveness consists of many factors. If you find the perfect partner, thank you. I don't know ideal people. I also don't see why a successful person with money must necessarily write a little. We don't all have to be unemployed losers. Some people are just ambitious and good at their job. The problem is not the people with small dicks, but with a little intelligence and a lot of uncontrolled complexes. We don't all have to be unemployed losers. Some people are just ambitious and good at their job. The problem is not the people with small dicks, but with a little intelligence and a lot of uncontrolled complexes. We don't all have to be unemployed losers. Some people are just ambitious and good at their job. The problem is not the people with small dicks, but with a little intelligence and a lot of uncontrolled complexes.

   Number 45 to 52 and 53! Does the truth hurt? I wrote something and men with small penises began to defend themselves. They weren't like that, they weren't like that. If you accepted yourself as you are, you would not justify yourself. Keep deluding yourself that the woman does not choose it on the penis :) Now turn things around and imagine in her place - how long will she last with someone with whom she feels nothing? Doesn't know if it's inside or outside? Ok has hands and a tongue, but you can't argue with that alone. Or the woman puts up with it because someone is small in size and offers other things like money and "security" and that's why she's with him despite the lack of either bad sex or cheating or leaving. As I wrote, continue with the mantra "size doesn't matter, it's important", yes, something else is important in the business of communication, etc., but in an intimate relationship, sex is most important. If there is no sex you are just friends or acquaintances who live together. Honestly, I don't know what to do with the macchia size. If you have found one whose size does not matter, which I strongly doubt, stay with her and make her feel good and happy. But I think this will be a girl you are the first and does not know anything about sex and thinks that 10 cm is normal.

   I read a lot of topics and nowhere did I see if there was any solution. I'm 13 cm. I don't know if the average is small, but I would like 2-3 cm more (who doesn't). Has anyone used pills or any enlargement exercises? Do they really work or are they just looking to take your money?

   Mine is 23 cents, but I haven't had sex in 5 years .. so what's the use ..

   Look now, people are different. Let everyone be with the one who is good with him - whether he is small, long, crooked and so on. A matter of DIFFERENT choice. My husband is approx. 14 cm is great for me too, and I have a base for comparison. It's just right for me. I had a boyfriend with a salami stick, but it's naughty. I also had something like a penis, I dropped it, of course. But he found a wife, they have two children and they are nice. Let's not fight over nonsense.

   I have experienced the same problem. 3 years ago I met by chance at a party with a man. My girlfriend took me there and I didn't know anyone. He was well built, inspiring confidence and self-confidence. Invite me to a meeting in 3-4 days. We started seeing each other almost every day. We walked, climbed Vitosha, went out near the city with his car. A week passed, two passed, and he didn't try to offer her sex. We kissed and ... so much. At first I was glad that he wasn't in a hurry, that he wanted us to get to know each other better before we made love, but when a month approached I already thought that I wasn't sexually attracted to him, that he had another, etc. I had a desire. I decided to take the initiative and when I went out I invited him to my room. He had gone up before, so the situation was familiar. I asked him to wait, to change, and I did, by putting on my sexiest home dress - a short robe that hides only the essentials. I walked back and forth and noticed that he was staring thirstily at my beautiful legs and tight ass. They were also my charm, because I can't boast of big and gorgeous breasts. As if casually, I sat down next to him and started kissing him. He hugged me to himself, and I was just waiting for that. I began to bite him lightly on the neck and ran a hand through his chest to his stomach. I felt his hands on my ass, lifted slightly to release the robe that had opened. When he put his hand between my legs, I was already all wet. I reached over and slipped my hand under my jeans. And then I almost died. His cock was erect, but it was a little bigger than a cigarette. He was also thin. As much as a candle. I panicked. I was worried, and the worst part was that he understood. I started to breathe fast again, but I was already doing it by force. My excitement passed. And now that I remember it, I feel sick. As I pretended to moan with passion, I thought fast and knew I had to decide in a minute. I said to myself - I will have sex, whatever happens! I lay on my back, slipping a garment under my ass. He took off his jeans and we were probably both happy that it was dark and we couldn't meet each other's eyes. He tried to insert it without using his hands, but failed. I lifted my legs up and aimed it with my hand. I hardly felt it because I was very wet. He tried to fuck me, but he couldn't even get into this deep penetration position. I grabbed his ass with both hands and pressed him to me. I whispered to him to stand like that and began to move, being careful not to take him out. After a while he started to come out, because it was over. I told him not to worry and I continued to rub my clitoris even harder and in seconds I was done. Our relationship continued. Most often I made him kneel, and I lay on my side. It went between my legs so that one of his thighs was on my stomach and the other behind my back. So there was no danger of it coming out, despite its small size, and it was squeezing my clit. The good thing was that 5 minutes after he finished, he was ready again and sometimes we did it 4-5 times a night. But I still couldn't get used to his penis. I didn't like to swallow it, although I calmly collected it in my mouth. I didn't want to, but I lost my attraction to him and I couldn't get it back. At one point I felt I was doing it out of regret and I dropped it. I'm with another person now. He is not very talented, but I am satisfied. We have the opportunity to do it in many more ways, I regained my vaginal orgasm. So my advice is - if you're not happy (and that's clear) in bed - leave it. Otherwise you will torture yourself and him.