Hello. I can't stand my mother and father arguing every day. My brother annoys me all the time, and so on. I had the opportunity to go to my grandmother, but I love my family in spite of everything ... I will go and live with her at the beginning of the summer. After all, staying with my grandparents, don't I betray my father and mother? What to do with the feeling in the throat that they can kill each other? Whenever I'm elsewhere I get the most offended (I hate that) and only for a short time. Fortunately, my father hardly drinks, but something can always happen. Not that I will change anything, I will not be home forever ... But am I betraying my family like that? That's my question ... I don't betray the people I love so much, do I? Forget this whole thing about their personal changes ... It's true that we will keep in touch with the phone, but I feel like a traitor. In short: - I'm not like that, am I?
1 stud_lucas answered
I understand that they are your parents and you love them, but you should not fall victim to their quarrels. I grew up in such an environment and I was really afraid to go home because I didn't know what I was going to find. It also affects your psyche, your character and can lead to many future problems. Maybe when you move out, they will realize for themselves how wrong they are.