I am delighted, here is a young lady-educated, cultural, without ill ambitions and pretensions, with a rich vocabulary and a smooth thought! Amazingly, I lived to finally read text from a osemnadesetgodišno girl, not to be mad, embarrassed, angry, or to cry with outrage!
Well done, my child! You have no cause for anguish, when the time comes, your boy will appear, and it will be sooner than you think. Enjoy your youth!
I just want to say it's the opposite. Me and all my friends smell like someone was with a lot of men and we're running away. No one likes the girls they've developed. Who wants a lot of used goods? Through my eyes and not only, you are a non-open and buried treasure. Besides, it's much more important for the boy to have experience than the girl. In 25 years, it's normal for a girl to be a virgin. Don't listen to the Libera. Don't go to bed with the first guy. He must love you
Those where they have done it a lot and with different have a big problem and it is that they can not have a long-term relationship.
Hey, talking all kinds of topics doesn't shorten the distance. Flirting and creating sexual tension shorten the distance and attract to intimacy.
How different everything is nowadays, when virgin girls think there's something wrong with them, or they're "cursed", as I read on a topic a while ago, identical to yours. You're not ugly, stupid or cursed. You will also meet the boy, your first, and then probably others. And sex will do no worries.
I don't understand why you leave others on your back or make you feel guilty. It's not a bad thing, it's better to be 18 and have already had 3-4 partners in bed. There will be a man for you who loves you, desires you and even appreciates the fact that you are a virgin and he will be your first. Don't worry and good luck:)
Don't film and dramatize. The legal age of sex in most white states is 18 years. The brain continues to "grow" even after 20... Just because moral degradation is "normal" doesn't mean that a rational man should do it, and think he's insane...
"Understand me correctly, I have a feeling that boys and men with whom I run subconsciously" smell "my virginity and avoid me."
And what do you prefer, to smell that you're going to let them use you for sex? A man who really appreciates you and has serious intentions, that won't bother him. Think a little... And enough with the "men". It is a sign that you have not learned to communicate and think about people as individuals...
Look, I can do a lot of criticism because I gained some pathetic life experience, and I've realized things, but I don't see the point. I've been not exactly in your place, but I understand your thoughts because, though briefly, they have passed through my head.
I lost that desolate virginity at the age of 18, you know, and I was the last one with a "diagnosis" in the circle of friends. No one was making fun of me, but everybody got so much, I imagined sex like fireworks, Christmas presents, chocolate brownies and champagne in one. I thought it was a big deal. Naturally, Virgin/MS can not imagine the feeling quite realistic, if it will be self-satisfied. Besides all the stories of stormy sex, I was the first person to hear the talk page with fear and worries that you made a mistake, allowing another person to sleep with you. Well, I heard it from everyone, to one. Most began to lead a sexual life between the ages of 14 and 16 years. Someone told me right now, and others after I started having sex life myself. The thing is, I was 18 years old and I had no worries that I couldn't take responsibility for my actions. I had read, I knew how sex influenced the human body, I knew what was happening in theory and I knew how not to get pregnant. The latter is very important because it turned out that I have 2 girlfriends with abortion and not one that has not had an example (their cause was not a broken condom). I was and I'm still with the same guy I had sex with for the first time. I don't know how to explain it to you, but it hasn't touched me a trembling, unhurried, insecure young man who only wants his pleasure and one more piece. A few years older than me, may not have been quite mature, but it was very conscious and I felt calm and confident. I wasn't feeling sorry the next morning, I didn't feel bad, I didn't feel any pain, and for a second, I never felt like some guy took away something I'd never get back. These things happened to most of my girlfriends who wiped out, it happened to those who had a relationship and loved the person next to them. The sex is just sexual, anyone with a member can give it to you. If your goal is to cure this "disease" called virginity, you can always get drunk and jump on someone, they probably won't let you down. But in the morning, you're going to feel bad about having sex only once, you still have no experience, and you just made some guy. Experience is not the body of an enviable number, with this you can accumulate a few diseases, low self-esteem, bad public opinion, and still such shenanigans. I'm not telling you to wait for the Prince on a white horse because I can't find any logic. I'm telling you to feel good about your virgin zipper, because you're, like, 18 years old, so much more mature and ready than you were 15 years old. Because you're going to have sex, you'll realize that it's something true and somehow it's not a special job, and then you feel good because you're no longer small and a huge part of the fears and worries just won't be there.
And I made it 20, and before that I was crazy, and I thought I'd never find a boyfriend. And when I told my boyfriend that I was a virgin, he didn't get scared, and he even told me that he showed up as a lifeguard to do it for the first time, finally. Now I realize there was no rush. And before that, a friend of mine offered to hook me up with some guy for one night. I was wondering, but I'm glad I didn't. And men are probably not afraid of you being a virgin, but of being too smart for them.
It's not a problem if you're looking for a real man. If you're looking for a man, then it is. Do you want a guy or a male--the second is a shame for evolution, but somebody's going to have to fight them.
Hi! The main reason for this feeling is the opinions of your friends and mindset that you seem to be losing moments. There's nothing real about it. Don't let them influence you like that. I am a worrying and a closed person and the others have asked me to feel bad in different ways, but I was always thinking that if someone really loved me, I would want one. My first time was 22, and I'm not sorry. And you don't doubt that you're going to charm someone like that!
You're a great woman, and you're going to get yourself started. To these "girlfriends" I would hit them one behind the neck if they dare to make fun of it. What you've got is wealth and value, don't even think about running into the brains of the cocks who passed them 100 people and don't remember who the last one was.
Dear Girl, you're all right and you have nothing to worry about--that's when it gets lucky (and the Desire)-then.
I personally find nothing wrong either in the early or in the late start-the important thing is to know what you are doing and be with the right person.
You just don't get that guy. Which doesn't mean he won't show up, or you should go to bed with the first to make a wish like that.
I have a similar problem, but on the reverse side of the barricade-and actually I have a lot of girlfriends, but... Up there "Let's just Stay friends"... I can't find my human, and that's it.
I would invite you for a walk-you create a very pleasant impression with the way you write (demonstrating a number of qualities that I cherish in a woman). Alas, the site is anonymous and can not be done. But I'm sure I'm not the only one you can impress. So, boldly and without hesitation about untenable work.
Success!
I think you have a problem if it weighs on you and tortures you. I have the opposite problem. I recently had sex on the second date with a man, and he insisted on finding out what my count was. At first I said it didn't matter and I diverted the question. But he insisted. I thought I could afford to not reduce the number and I said at 20-30. It's not true either, because I've certainly been with 40 so far. After that, we've never seen each other again, and he's ignoring me. The men want you to be inexperienced, and when they meet such a whining, it's bad in bed. Be careful not to get there in time for someone to cut you off because you're not good in bed. It's not that it requires who knows what skills, but if you haven't slept with anyone, you're wearing another broadcast. You do not radiate liberation and simplicity, which attracts the man very much. The mistake is somewhat in you for not having tried it, because you're probably waiting for the prince. But if this goes on for a very long time, it will become a complex for you. You better not be with the Prince the first time, than to be a burden and a bad influence on your psyche. The first time it hurts. Maybe you think this is going to be the ultimate love experience, but it's usually not like that. Therefore, I believe that it is not most important that the first time is necessarily with the most loved one. And for the report, I lost my virginity at 19.
You're filming. I know a virgin and over 30.
Hi, I'm 20 years old, I'm a boy. I would do anything in the world to find a virgin girlfriend and be her first and last sexual partner. I'm not a virgin, if that's what you think. I'm just looking for something real. I write poetry, practice martial arts, play chess (I am a champion of Bulgaria until 18 years).
I live in Sofia. If you are from Sofia, you may meet, ways there are always, even through the "anonymous site". I'm waiting for an answer, author.
You just have the qualities of a "girl for a Relationship", not a "girl for one night." And the movers know you're not going to go to bed with them on the first night, and it's easier where they're going to "open parachute".
I stumbled upon a woman-she was a virgin on 33. He was a little crazy of thoughts and depression, but he's got a job, a very nice body, a pleasant conversation--wondering why. You're not going to drive until 33, but I think the problem is that you're leaving the impression that you are looking for a serious romantic friend. The problem that most modern men already realize that romantic love is a trap for women to take away their money, their freedom, and their health.
To the "lady" with 40 pieces-the experience is not a piece. You have to have a flair, a fantasy and no inhibitions. And with a hundred to go to bed-if you are a tree, you will remain a tree.
I'm the author:)
First, I want to thank all of you for expressing your opinion. I was definitely very helpful to read and see another, lateral perspective, albeit anonymous:)
And thank you for the kind words I have spoken of:)
I want to make some additions. I'm not waiting for the Prince on the White Horse because I know princes don't. Maybe there was a time, but they're already busy:D I don't think I'm a romantic kind of thing and say that at 18 I'm looking for a serious friend, I think it's going to sound funny. How much to be serious and mature at 18.
Perhaps, as I have read in some comments, I do not radiate liberation and I am not able to create sexual tension, may one day learn:)
Maybe my peers are looking for where they're going to open their parachute quickly, and I'm definitely not going to be that. And if the mature pay attention to me, it's hardly going to happen because I'm going to be a little bit.
And I'm falling into a vicious circle.
Thanks again to all who took part. I didn't expect the subject to have a single comment.
Relax, girl, the problem is not you, but the other many people who are only wondering what kind of abominations to fill their schedule of the day. I'm also your set, and I'm sick of this diagnosis. But that's why I don't care. Because for me, you and I have outgrown the teenage routine, and we know there's time for everything, but not now. A few years ago, too seriously I took the discrepancy with the opinion of people close to me. Condemns I'm not like them 'Sing Heart'. I was always in my mind and I was angry at my differences. When you asked me ' ' Why are you so, why don't you change and become like us? ' ' I often funk that I'm just like this, and with my mentality, my imprisonment and my boring uniformity, I support other individuals like me. So already on the threshold of 19, denied the normal practices of sin, I do not give a damn about the opinion of my peers on this subject, I appreciate and listen to their point of view, but there. You don't have to be like them, you don't have to let them give you dirty thoughts in your head. You're the one and only one in the mind. Be yourself. You don't have to find happiness in the generally accepted things. I'm sure You'il ever meet a real friend or friend who doesn't blame you for not being like the others. :) Good day!
A month ago, one male (as not written above in the comments) rejected me for just after I told him that. You wrote to my friend. Then I knew you were stuck with her. The good news is, it can be drained out of a nice construction.
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"Perhaps, as I have read in some comments, I do not radiate liberation and I am not able to create sexual tension, may one day learn:)
Maybe my peers are looking for where they're going to open their parachute quickly, and I'm definitely not going to be that. And if the mature pay attention to me, it's hardly going to happen because I'm going to be a little bit. "
Hi, I'm number three. I tell you things as opposed to a lot of comments. They're just talking about sedatives that don't help you. Look, to attract a man, you have to show him with small but clear means that you like him and you want him. When you talk to him, look him in the eye, smile a little, touch him lightly, create physical intimacy, laugh, show that you're enjoying his company, make him feel special, shorten the distance between you, show that you have a pleasant closeness to him. Let him feel attracted to him and enjoy his company. There are women who have this sexual charge, this charisma, this ability to flirt, to create a pleasant feeling of self. There are others that are like a piece of ice or wood, it can be a beauty 1 on 100 or 1 in 1000, it can be very intelligent, but it is tight, sits, judged, does not issue emotions, with all its behavior creates a feeling that screams: Do not enter my personal space! There are also women like you who can talk about all sorts of other things but do not shorten the distance, do not approach the man. The first case women are the women I enjoy socializing with, they make my life more pleasant, make me feel good in their company, they are women I cherish. The second type, the jumps are women from whom I look to distance myself to the maximum, they cause me a feeling of discomfort. They are women who if you have something to do with them you will suffer, they very difficult to predispose, easily offended and disappointed and at all incorporation of time, attention and thought to them for me personally is a terrible idea. The third guy you can talk to, you're joking, but you know that she doesn't have that sexual charge, that womanhood that can predispose you to something more. If your wish is to be accepted well, you must act like the first guy.
Number 13, you know, not always more numbers mean more skill, or vice versa! And number 19 told you. Let's not curb so your thinking.. As the author has influenced..
To the author, I can judge you by your way of thinking. And I'm telling you, your diagnosis is in your head!
Because you were a peaceful girl, but you're not provocative. Free your thinking. What is this nonsense, be yourself. What you are trying to change yourself, the one who likes you, will like you, regardless of an affair or a serious relationship.
You sound like a 15-year-old little baby with Chalga ' upbringing, which is not a rule of sex, and his peers have been doing it for years..
P. P.: I don't have any bad feelings, I wish people like you would think more. Success.
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Hi, I'm a girl at 17 and I'm doing 18. I just want to tell you that I've recently had a friend before, and I was just like you in every way. Now I'm going to tell you how to surround yourself with attention, it's very simple. You shouldn't just talk to the boys, be more playful. Create in people an impression, not that you have had sex, but somehow be disinherited. Let it look like you're in it. A lot of people think I've had sex, and I'm not. And they pay attention to me. So good luck, just step out of bounds and be all you want to be, but you're ashamed. Upload more challenging photos somewhere in the social networks/in any case in underwear or nude/, it is about with interesting stands, bends, maybe some short blouse. Put on your lipstick, not heavy makeup, if you want to. You take care of yourself, the boys have fun and they notice the feminine girls, the ladies, the beautiful, the ones who take care of themselves. Basically you might want to be different but the different things don't appreciate them. If you have to be a Srednostatičesko girl, you're going to get noticed. Get dressed in bright colors pink, white, emphasize the lace, just be sexy. I'm not telling you to be half-naked well just have some little details. Look and act like you've scratched your sets. Good luck and I hope you understand me correctly.
Author, hi. I totally understand because I'm in the same situation. I'm 20, a student. A man would say I've had sex already and a lot. But it's not. I feel like I haven't lived my school years as it should, because I've always been a good learner sixes and I just liked learning. I had my company, etc. but I couldn't find a girlfriend. I've never had a girlfriend and a first kiss. I can make conversation with the girls, but I get the feeling that someone cursed me never a girl would like me. : D So, I came to the big city, I became a student, I found a nice company, but I haven't had sex yet. Of course, in front of the company, I say otherwise, because I'm afraid They'il think I'm a loser. I invited girls on dates, but so far, everyone has refused, I don't know why. Otherwise, I'm pretty-blue eyes, blond, tall, intelligent, but I don't know why I'm not going with the girls. In the end, I want to tell you that you're not the only one with a similar problem. I know exactly how you feel
P. P. If you want, we can meet in some way, although it's going to be pretty hard from here. Greetings! :)
Male 31-till now I have been with 5-6 Girls 2 of them were virgins... is to tell you, there's no better than to know it's yours and only you had sex. Otherwise, there's nothing wrong with you.
You've never been too old.
A day will come you will be proud and thankful that your teen years have not been corrupted by stress:
Am I pregnant or not?
I went to bed with him, and he's got another one. Did I infected something?
Do they think they're going to come home any minute to catch us?
Leave your body and time to show when it should happen to you
I'm amazed at you, really!!! Yes, I read the above comments, that maybe you haven't met the guy yet and... To support this thesis. Look, I'm not good at advice, but I'm going to tell you not to rush, I mean, you don't care, don't even try to go to bed with someone just so you're not a virgin. I hope you're telling me what I'm trying to tell you. Because if the man next to you appreciates and loves your virginity, he'il be the least of his worries, in fact, he won't be, since everyone would prefer to know that he was the first and maybe the last of his girlfriend, his wife, etc.
I hope I've been of some use to you.
Well, take a text. Very seriously. I'm the same age, and I know vaguely in your description, except I'm the opposite sex.
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