Recently, two young men in their 35s, who are fundamental opposites in character and lifestyle, have entered my close circle of friends. The first: He works in the financial sphere, as far as I know he is a regional boss. His income is about 7 bonas a month. But this is not obvious at all. He lives in a hereditary panel in Nadezhda, no car, goes to work on the subway. There is no wife, no girlfriend. He doesn't go on vacation, he doesn't buy practically anything. Just 12 hours a day. And he complains that the women didn't look at him, that his lower back hurt, that fatigue and stress at work weighed on him. And that he would prefer a simple job for 1000 leva, but to live happily, which was not the case at all now and he did not need the money because he did not know how to spend it. The second: The boy is not stupid, but sometimes he behaves like that. Works as a supplier, hardly makes more than 1000-1500 levs. But he is mired in credit. They bought a new home with their girlfriend and took out a loan for 30 years. Complete madness, because the installment is practically only interest and they pay almost nothing. All new phone, TV, all in restaurants. In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle? In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle? In addition to housing, there is also consumer credit. She cheats on her boyfriend constantly, constantly women, drunkenness and whining that the money was not enough, that with these salaries nowhere, etc. How do you explain such extremes and how do you find a balance between the two? Can a person caught in the trap of one extreme get out of it and get closer to the middle?
1 sexxxiestass answered
I run away from such people! Perhaps the former would have a chance to recover if he found a job with less stress and began to spend time on social contacts and personal development. But they are both 35 and probably ossified a long time ago. I wouldn't waste my time trying to re-educate big men. Otherwise, where is the golden mean? In my opinion, when a person puts his money in the right place and does not try to take the cheapest, nor to spread outside his rug.