There are passengers for every train...
The question is, what do you need Tinder for? There are some girls and friends looking for each other, but when I look around for hook up really look and look, however cynical it sounds. Intellectual radiance is important to me, too, but I prefer a man to be nice. Isn't this about sex, isn't it? I don't say muscular, as I don't like muscular, but at least tall and representative. I don't care about money at all, and if I see someone taking a picture with the car, I never go right. But that's me, and I can't guarantee other women what they're looking for.
Chances, for what, author? Besides, if you think that only vision and money matter, you yourself have a problem, not just the women who judge you on them.
Take it easy, work on your personal development - spiritually and materially, like yourself, but even then - don't expect anyone to like you because you have - this or that... Now you're at the other extreme- you expect them not to like you because of the things you don't have.
There's a lot of pressure in your speech. You don't win anything with that thinking.
There's a lot of themes about Tinder already. I personally have been using it for half a year and am a normal-looking man going to the gym (no supplements) with a nice salary (which I can't perform at Tinder) and so far I've only gone on one date without development.
Tinder is for women looking for a free gigolo.
I recommend you get a job, make a dollar and try prostitutes.
Instead of wasting your time with sites like Tinder, get yourself some extroverted friend to drag you back and forth at events, parties, etc., you've just learned to look at people as personalities rather than a piece of meat.
In fact, learn to see yourself as a person, not a sum of numbers. If you don't respect yourself and appreciate it, don't expect anyone else to do it for you.
It's all down to a psychological setup - when I stopped being a negative person, to see how many positive people started to stick to me.
Oh, and stop reading incel forums, except to make your health worse, you won't get anything else.
Don't bother me. There's a lot of ugly and trumpeted, with pictures of a certain plan. And everyone thinks they're princesses and they're a businessman and they're all. He goes to the gym, bar. There you have a chance to meet a beautiful woman. Tinder's for the luss well. M 30
There's no room in the world for good people, dump that tinder for God's sake.
I want to tell you that Tinder isn't strict and obligatory just for sightings. On the contrary, my friend and I met there and have been together for a year.
As for your question, I don't think you should give up or that there's no hope, because in the end most women don't stay with the playboys, but with the man who makes them happy. It's about the value of a woman, it's about the money, the look and the gifts, it's the attitude towards her and the emotion she gets.
Good luck and don't give up :)
Guys, think straight. What's the chance of a normal man or a normal woman getting into a tinder? I don't think decent people are going to lean on tinder. They're grabbing them in real life, they don't need tinder-minders. The elites rob him in real life, and for tinder, it remains the sediment of society. I apologize if I offended the exceptions.
There are passengers for every train, but the question is also your criteria for a woman what they are.
Everyone's stretching according to their rug.
P.
I guess I'm a low-level guy who had Tinder. I think you put a description, I personally only lay down guys with a description. Those with nude photos to the waist are clear what they're looking for. Be yourself and write a description. I think they could have a more serious relationship out of there.
You'il get 1-2 chamomile every 100 you give. And you don't know anything from these two chamomile. They might not even answer. You decide for yourself if it's worth it.
I agree with 5. To add, your problem is lack of self-esteem, not in gyms, kilos and jaws. Tinder can't solve this problem.
**young man, student, 1. 75m, penniless (apart from the scholarship money, which is not much), without a sculpted body and without a strong, pointed, square lower jaw, is there any chance or not to bother at all? **
If you're up for a young desperate woman with no sculpted body, penniless (demec to support her) - then there's a chance there's a ;)
Dude, you've answered your own answer, I don't know what you're doing here. Are you confident, or are they lying to you... All that's online is for women to show their true nature that they're only interested in physics. I'm telling you this as someone who spent a lot of time online, supposedly with the idea that he could connect and communicate with more people. Because women lie, our opinion as men goes with the illusion that a woman is not as superficial as a man, and for her there were more important things like mind and character... There is no such thing, in fact, they are far less important than a man. So if you have chances, they're more in reals, after all, something by the way and like it in you. But these things can't happen online, where they look at you like a horse for sale.
I have a colleague with a Tinder profile that somehow fits your description, only he's a little taller, and his money comes from working as a sales consultant. Not many, do not worry, can not rent a limousine for a meeting and buy a bouquet of 101 roses. I mean, he's an average student, a man. It looks perfectly normal, it's not ugly, it's not too handsome, it doesn't have muscles, it's smart enough to have different conversations with him, but he won't explore black holes. I mean, he's a perfectly ordinary man, and that's really great. Because he and I are friends and we talk a lot, and I know he's been dating three Tinder girls in the last two weeks. It seems like a good achievement, you only matched one of the girls and they're going out again soon. There are chances for you and for everyone. After all, focus more on real communication, the chance to find out that you've met a decent woman in a café is greater than realizing it online.
Well, look, I'm also a young man in my 30s, I'm not super good looking, I'm not bad, I'm pretty rich, I have 5-6,000 leva per month, but I don't flaunt my money, I get a few chamomile a month. But I don't blow or anything like that-I train a lot, I have a lot of free time compared to people who work all day from 9 to 18 hours. I'm looking for a woman for a serious relationship and a marriage-- but I want her to be beautiful, and to be alike, and to be on my level. Such women I do not meet in tinder unfortunately and I give quite a little chamomile
My advice to you is:
1. Invest in your future, finish education and do not rush to get into serious love investments in the "VNL style" league style. Before you rely on someone else, learn to rely on yourself.
Yes, in America it really is: 80% of men fight for 20% of women. Remember always that a woman is raised by a child with the idea that she is the fair sex, and for her she can, for you, can not: it is easier for them to find a partner.
3. Invest in yourself. Start exercising, read Starting Strength, educate yourself about basic dietary advice, build a healthy body.
Don't do it for the petticoats, do it for yourself. If you keep up, you'il age like wine, and a physically healthy body is a healthy life. Abstain from the gym bats with hands plonders and don't heed their advice - the risk is not worth it. Don't touch on chemistry and forge character and discipline.
4. Do not personally accept women's refusals and inattention. Let this not be a determining factor in life. Love your friends and family. The petticoat can always find a new one, so never think you have something or you're half-human.
I'm about to try Tinder myself but I'm extremely skeptical. You could say I'm in the "cut-out" category, but not an inflated, bearded batsman with tattooed hands. I have faith in myself, but I feel like these days women are satisting more shallow and shallow. I'm looking forward to finding the one to show me that I'm wrong.
Tinder is a money machine! If you press the virtual button, you roll up the bill - I don't have 100 leva to waste them on the wind -you want contact with someone, pay, otherwise you have no chance! Otherwise, you're just looking at pictures and that's it! All apps are on the same principle and don't fit to look for a boyfriend from there! Who will say what, it is best not to use these applications, because it is wrong to fill the throats of some who shake their feet all day and fall on their hands, but on our backs! And love doesn't trade! It's a crime!
Personally, I have been using Tinder for two months and have had successful meetings with 4 girls for now, I am a student in Sofia for the first year and before I have not had many girlfriends and I was a virgin. I had my first sex with a girl I met on the app. I'd say your appearance comes first, then it's the way you talk to women. You're uploading a few chopped-up shots from the gym and you're going to have at least three or four matches a week ;)
How 19- respect, me! It's the right way of man's thinking! The moment you start doing things not for yourself, but for some pie in the cafes, you've lost yourself and the chicks. And they have radar, they can feel when a man chases things and when he does things just to appeal to them. My next words will be understood by car fans - it's ok to be either diesel or a Mercedes AMG. The stupid thing is when you see diesel with AMG optics :)
A quick google on /r/chadfish and you will find out enough about women in tinder and not only
The way you've described yourself, you accept that your height and appearance are the only qualities you have. Given that you describe yourself as if you don't think you're handsome, it's just sad. Focus on something else. Have interests, be fresh, young in spirit, with ideas, open, interesting, smart, deep... I'm sick of boring men (even if they're sexy men), people who don't read books, don't watch movies, and basically look for a girl to replace their right hand. I'm not sick of it. They're 100 times more sympathetic to me if they turn out to be cool as humans...
In Tinder and Alain Delon, you'il see it in a miracle. Good luck with tinder, there are very few men. All such applications I have researched, I have written with all sorts of people, fake profiles I have done and analyzed coolly.. There are four women! 1 - only out of curiosity and make them compoliments, 2 - looking for someone successful with good finances, 3 - ones that only chat and nothing more and 4 - desperate with poor broadcasting. Tinder is for sex all over the world, only in Bulgaria there are tough discussions and bargaining for standards and career development. You could say that if you're muscular and with a nice face, they're going to want you for sex in this app, and deeper things like what you do, you learn and who you live with, because it matters a lot for an hour." And that's what a woman we met asking me, we didn't have sex, but she said to me "I'm only looking for sex for the men here" and think what a pathetic parody. I'm almost 100 pounds tall and look like 80 pounds, a level 6 shape , but a cuckoo's tinder. A friend of mine has taken one of them and they've been going for a year, and I haven't seen him so much, except that he doesn't clap it, he doesn't let him see his friends. Radicality in chases them, but cool. Don't bother with this. Go to Sunny Beach in Amigo bar, there are some pretty foreigners there and they'il tie you up. I've never had sex with a Bulgarian woman, if you know what I mean. To some extent, I'm sad and pathetic, but I may have been lucky.
I'il answer you honestly, but please don't take it too far.
Money doesn't matter to decent girls (like me). But according to the description you gave yourself about the look, you don't have much chance. External beauty is at least 50% important, the remaining 50 are for the inside. If you're handsome in the face, though, it's different. Keep it at max. If you have a beard and if it suits you, keep it 1-2 mm long. It's terribly appealing. Just make sure it's not longer, because then the effect will be reversed... Take care of your skin, your teeth, too.
You made an impression that you're not mean. This is always noticeable and prices high. You actually sound like a good boy, and I'm sure others will appreciate it.
As for Tinder himself, one very important piece of advice: avoid banal questions. Ask your own, and when you're asked something, avoid yes, no, and don't know. Write a few sentences so the conversation can go. If, however, you don't get the same effort in response, don't bother anymore. People are massively stupid and can't tie a meaningful sentence. So, don't waste your time with them.
I'm sorry, if I offended you with anything, it's not on purpose. I was as honest as I was.
Good luck, malыsh.
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I met my wife on Badoo ( similar to Tinder). We've been together for four years now and we have a baby. :)
Someone somewhere said, "If you think you can, then you can, and if you think you can't, you're certainly right."
In that spirit, if you're perceived as a boring middle piece of meat, whose most defining characteristic is modest finances, then you're just like that and nothing more.
However, if you decide that you have a sense of humor, that you live on the edge, that everything is interesting to you, and that every woman is a vast universe and an occasion to unlock your research impulses, you'il probably be an idea more attractive. And without changing anything. Just your thinking.
Everything in this life is a matter of approach.
I've cut beautiful - educated, rich men, because their approach was: "Would you go out for coffee with me?" and "Let's have sex on Wednesdays."
I've dated ornately edge students-hippies because they've approached me with a thirst and desire to get to know me, with comments about my freckles, with suggestions for wine on the roof of the dorm and a kiss on a bench that continues with midnight outdoor sex in the park...
I'm not saying to be interesting, but to have fun with you in the first place. That's why you're looking for a boyfriend. Hand, I believe, you have one. Even two. And you can alternate them successfully.
He's doing his math. We all want to be interesting, but we must first be interesting to ourselves.
Evela, number 28, this should be formulated as a theme and put in "Editor's Choice"!
Just so you know ,"how are you" or "hello" is a banal beginning of a conversation. Now think about whether you're going to be successful and worth your time. Brutally complex thinking and stupid women in Tinder and the like. You have to fall into some kind of stereotype to be successful. They have so much self-esteem and a confused idea of reality that they've been thinking since the first sentence "he wants sex." The question is what they're doing there. It's not particularly smart to use an inadequate app for a particular purpose. People there are looking for sex. Some Romanians are more adequate than Bulgarian women. I already have a feeling that many men will start to start a family with strangers. After my friends, I already have two of them.
Ala-bala orange...
28 - you're not the average woman in these apps
I give you an example (Badoo):
I write longer sentences, slightly provocative, aimed at raising the mood of the lady...
... she answers "yes", "no", "yes", "no", "ok"... and yes, no, and again.
I ask, "well, now how much you are writing at the moment - 5-10 people; silence follows. Maybe 10 or 20 people? - I can't tell you exactly... - Roughly, on average, how much do you write? - What about 200!!!
Aha! Now I've become clear about the one-syllacan answers!
And immediately the chick started to make excuses without raising a question and implying something:
- "Oh, I'm a good, scholarly girl!" ... and other ones, only where he did not mean - "I'm not a k*rv".
Okay, I didn't say anything, but turn around and go through the whole town to find someone that looks like?
Then the conversation ended when he said, "off, you're straining me, you're preventing me from doing my job"
I say I kept the conversation well.
I'm waiting for someone to draw a conclusion from this case because I've already given up thinking when it comes to women's actions...
Number 30, I'd say it's those men who think like you are inadequate, not women.
It is clear that when elderly people are looking for acquaintance, sex will be had. However, no one will you boring, lazy and desperate sex. Everyone, whether male or female, wants to enjoy it, intriguing, cheerful, gentle... hygienically, too.
If you start with an annoying or illiterate line from the beginning, that you're going to have to pay attention to it, no one's going to tie you up.
This does not mean that in principle the Bulgarians do not tie them. That means he won't tie you up.
You can tell for miles when a man is good at bed and when he's a jerk.
Usually, men who write as if weaning numbers are from the uneasy, who wean themselves off the numbers and in sex - lie like trees or last five minutes and get tired. With them and live conversations are mega boring. And no one will let you get stuck or married, relax.
And those who slobber them to write "Hello" and replace it with "zre", slobbering them and brushing their teeth, washing their socks, bathing. They're lazy and kiss, lick and otherwise satisfy women. Well, they don't deserve sex and attention like that.
At all, no woman is looking for calculating rusks who think they are open, but are actually devoid of any imagination. We can smell you for miles, that you don't care how you live and how you knock, that you can eat the same thing for a month without getting sick of you, and that you're looking for some mama to run your ass... It's a pathetic job.
And the funny thing is, you don't need any looks, no money, no education. Just energy and desire. But lazy jerks always find excuses, don't they?
up to 33 out of 31
ALL RIGHT, YOU'RE A GOOD CHICK.
If we have to judge you by the scribes, what are you up for, we're going to have to draw such conclusions that the editors won't publish the diagnosis...
Otherwise, you sound very open - both in the mouth and between your legs
33.
He made me laugh, I always eat the same food because I work out. (bro diet), chicken, broccoli/spinach, brown rice :D In sex, however, very rarely, a woman does not get orgasms from me, unless she can get vaginal, but then I always bring her to clitoris.
My point was that a man could eat boring food because he was in mode and have cool sex :D Maybe my size is... almost 20cm and quite wide, it's hard for them not to end up with hychi.
But I think there's one thing you're lying about, that it didn't matter visually what you look like. If a woman is a TOP, for example, 7 out of 10 (sori for grades), a woman will almost never go to bed with a man under 7 unless she is a gold digger.
In fact, the fact that visually the man didn't matter what he looked like, I think one of the biggest myths imposed by women. Just when a woman is a TOP and has a lot of choice, she wants a man to be top and have a distinctive role, and to be like Cristiano Ronaldo(for example). I just don't know why this lie is repeated all the time.
Otherwise, I think with a little fashion and a bit of a backing wonder in it. For this, I try not to pass 12% fat, train 3-4 times a week and brush my teeth 3 min, 2 times haha. Of course, nice clothes and perfume. All this in tinder, there's no way to know. There can one show an interesting lifestyle.
Otherwise, I have a question for women. Because I've travelled a lot, I've got about 1,000 mats some of them quite beautiful, some of them are models - but max 10% have answered me and I don't understand why we're at all squashing if we're not going to write.
And I've never written "Zd, how are you" or any such nonsense. It's always my approach, and it's kind of a little banter for something from the pictures, an example.. If a woman surfs, "You don't look like a guy who can surf :D." Or if it looks bad, "You look bad, but you don't scare me." Actually, with the last line, I'd grabbed a GF for a few months. Most of my lines are like that, but like I said, 10% respond. In fact, in Russia, quite more than 10% respond, here they rarely answer me, which is not two or anything, I just find it stupid.
33, your explanations do not change reality, there is no point in trolling. No man can judge the other in the virtual space. There are people for wonder and fairy who don't get it in Tinder.
Smart Bulgarians can judge boring men in sex, it is enough just to look at their Tinder profile and understand everything about them haaheishaha. Seriously! You're boring in thinking, ladies. Some of us have had a relationship in real life, don't tell us how we have sex, how lame and like we are, okay? Number 6 very nice wrote, another you're looking for. In general, in Tinder is hit on a stone. There's a lot of failure.
Even if you're 30-35 years old, tall and athletic body, sense of humor, nice behavior, etc. If you don't have a profession and money = loser. They look at the profile and they judge, the beauties have to act live. You're not among the walking and pretty men, are you? Very simple, write a programmer or a company boss and you'il hang. But, for one 90% of men, Tinder does not work! Waste of time and money. I've gained a lot of experience on relationships between men and women, believe me. I have helped and given advice on future relationships and behavioral analysis. I've known at least three people that they're going to get screwed and cheat on them. In BG, women do not like serious and valiant men. That's why the decent ones are surrounded
I'm a man, 30 from Sofia.
I've been looking at a lot of comments about how men in tinder have a hard time succeeding. It's no coincidence. There are several factors.
Firstly, not only in BG, fewer women are born in bg, but everywhere in the world than men. That's why the theory that there's going to be a companion for everyone is not going to be able to do that. An average of 3,000 men are born in BG per year than women.
That figure is rising further because of immigration. Interestingly, mostly women leave the country -about 65%. You could say that this percentage is actually even higher. The women found a foreigner and went to him or went to work and eventually formed a family there. They almost never come back. Men mainly go to work. You will never hear a foreigner tell a Bulgarian to come to me to look at you, you will not work, but foreigners often make this offer. Bulgarians have difficulty finding a foreigner as a wife due to a lot of factors, so after years they returned to Bg. That raises the rate quite a bit. If we put women in Bulgaria give birth from foreigners, I think we can safely say that there are no women at all.
Since I was born in Sofia and have lived here all my life, I can only talk about it. I don't know how it is in other cities, but here parents are very helpful to their children. Recently, two other friends and I commented on exactly this: how each of us knows 2-3 of which the parents did not secure him an apartment separately. It sounds funny, I know, but it actually works out that way. Most of it's not just housing. There are en masse cars, securing work, money for courses for acquiring all kinds of diplomas and certificates. To have those where parents can arrange a little less, but they have arranged their lives en masse.
Very often there is talk about the different starts in life, but when it comes to dating people massively forget how many people are like that.
What does a chick, aged 18 or 19, see when she walks in? Every 3 profile he sees is a man with his own place. And that of boys under 23, for example. That's why it doesn't work out. They're looking for someone to settle in and they can find it. There's no way to talk about competition at all.
That's why it's so "hard." On the one hand, girls are relatively fewer and on the other there are people who start with a high start. A lot of women also say that it didn't matter, and she thinks that together the couple should pay their living. However, when I ask them well, and do you have at least one of the 10,000 BGN saved at the moment so that you can talk about a loan at all (there must be at least 30,000 to start paying a home, but anyway) As you can think of such a thing, in many cases even their insurance is at the minimum and no bank will ever lend them.
So despite the nice words for co-paying a home, they don't really aspire to it, but they're looking for someone to have. And in reality, there are such people and they can easily meet them.
In short, if you are looking for a woman in Sofia, whether online or live and you do not have your own home, a car, a job for over 1200, I don't think you will find a serious girlfriend, as no one would take you as an adequate choice, but rather as a temporary one until she finds another one.
Don't pay attention to those women who write here how many relationships they had from Tinder, and I don't know where you are. There are no such connections. Every second man can complain to you that 100 Edna writes to him.
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