Authoritarian Parent At Home - How To Cope?

   There is only one salvation from powerful mothers - accommodation. Make some more money, you will soon be able to work and move out. Such people ruin their children. My friend's mother is the same hysterical. I see how difficult it is for him to make decisions, he is always looking for approval and he is terrified of making a mistake. Separately, there are problems with self-esteem. They are never satisfied, you always have to go through their minds and live as they see fit. In this way, they create helpless and stressed beings who find the blows of life unprepared. One has to break one's head to learn. Unfortunately, as long as it lasts you, there is not much you can do.

   At 18 luggage and look for a man your mother. He kills his complexes on you instead of finding both companies. Tell them in plain text without going into her tone. Do knitting and watch TV series.

   You will hold back while living with your mother and spending her money! And after a year, already an adult, you pick up your hammers and let's see then what you will break them.

   Thus, your powerful mother is purely and simply a normal mother worried about your future. And if you were the mother of a young girl in this unbridled world, you would be on thorns so that your child would not make mistakes when he is not in front of your eyes. The key decision on the question is how smart and brave you are to stand up for yourself. It is obvious that you are developing well in education, it is important to continue your education. As for your mother and grandmother, there is a solution, they grumble because they have fears that you have not shown / told them that you can overcome such dangers. Most likely they are afraid of getting pregnant at 17, of getting married too young, of not getting a bad name, of not becoming a drug addict, of getting drunk dancing naked on the tables of men and the like. The solution is to get your mother used to a walk in the park, just the two of you, you sit on a bench and talk, you ask her why she is behaving like that, you tell her that you understand her fears and that you are old enough to make such a mistake not to make such mistakes, that you are not a fool who would get pregnant at 17 or let men make fun of her. It is important that this conversation takes place outside in a neutral place away from her ally your grandmother, also in a place where there are people so that she is ashamed to shout or jump into battle. You predispose her to talk about her fears and tell her to believe in herself that she raised you well and you can't do anything stupid. It is important that this conversation takes place outside in a neutral place away from her ally your grandmother, also in a place where there are people so that she is ashamed to shout or jump into battle. You predispose her to talk about her fears and tell her to believe in herself that she raised you well and you can't do anything stupid. It is important that this conversation takes place outside in a neutral place away from her ally your grandmother, also in a place where there are people so that she is ashamed to shout or jump into battle. You predispose her to talk about her fears and tell her to believe in herself that she raised you well and you can't do anything stupid.

   Hey, when they start using such words as 'hammers', 'improve' ... Number 3, let's start some therapy for the nerves, and ... Author, I suspect that your mother doesn't have a husband ... and your grandmother too. And besides, they probably haven't done anything significant with themselves, with their lives, they just gave birth ... There's really no other way but to endure them for another year or as long as you have until 18, but you're looking for a job now . Don't rely 100 percent on your boyfriend to take care of you, because after a while if you separate you will have to go home with your tail wagged - then the egos of the two older ladies will jump to the sky and crush you even more.

   I start therapy if you pay number 5. Otherwise I don't see what I said wrong. This is a syndrome that all teenagers suffer from - you see, the old ones don't understand anything and everything has to happen to them. And in reality (most likely) she has not earned a single lev in her life and wants to live by her own rules in her mother's house. There is little left for the author's 'freedom and freedom'. Then comes the hard part.