Hi, I never thought it could happen to me, but I have a great attraction to my husband's friend. It's crazy. On Saturday we get home and he comes, guess, makeup and I'm fine for him, I was happy he was coming. The strangest thing is, I don't think he likes me either. You can tell his behavior, he's annoyed at my husband, he walked off like that, threw a friendly shoulder at him and said "you're a good friend of mine... Just because we talked about me and my husband and the baby we're planning, he left. I'm the only one who suspects what he left for, and my husband wondered what happened to him. He talked to acquaintances about me. A friend of my husband told me in front of me and my husband, nothing hidden that he talked about me talking about how I had confronted him, one time he told me they knew him - well, you're the only one who can make him, you always listen. How do I stop this attraction? I'm going crazy when I see it and knowing it's forbidden, I'm even sweeter. I've never cheated on him, I know I'm going to abstain, but if I do anything, the other guy's going to be pretty hard to hold back. He has a special attitude to me, I even told him once "and be careful what you talk about, don't get jealous of my husband," his answer was "never." Then why is he being so close to me? His gaze is... It drives me crazy. when he looks at me, it's obvious. I've had experience with men, and I know I have to fight it out that it's not right, but if you drink again on occasion and reunion, I'm afraid we're not going to hold on to both of them. And yes... I know I'm really missing out on marriage, and it's sex, so maybe I'm paying attention to another man. My husband is good and the other guy is good, but he's doing the bad guy unnecessarily, and I like that, he excites... I hope you don't think I'm crazy... But it turns me on to do it with him. I don't think that makes me a whore, it's a normal person. I'm just not an angel like you all do. Question. How do I stop this? I can't stop seeing him because he's a friend of my husband's. Or if it only happens once, maybe we'il be passed by both of us...
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maddogbuckeye69 answered · June 15, 2020
Make sure you don't puff on that bad boy's belly so you don't go into the 'single moms' club and cry on the site tomorrow for other reasons - I'm just giving advice
Don't be stupid and naïve because some mistakes are irreparable.
P.
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switch_kinky_dudee answered · June 15, 2020
'I don't think that makes me a whore, it's a normal person. I'm just not an angel, like you all do. "
Personally, since I turned 25, I have stopped believing in Santa, the Easter Bunny, and that women are angels... Yes, I'm a little slow, or rather hard to kill idealism from myself... My observation is the opposite - en masse, women complain and look at you in the wrong way by explaining to them that you know what they are, and that they're not angels to make out... So yes, normal... your wife...
To your question... of course you can't fix the situation. It's your husband's job to guess (that as you're not a whore, that's how he should be on the lookout for these things) and put you in place and distance you from that friend. Unfortunately, we live in a metrosexual culture where men are told the wrong things about what it's like to be a man, and what it's like to be a woman, and how there was no difference between the two. So modern "relationships" are a total mess, and if he had the brains in the first place, i don't think he'd ever get involved in a serious relationship, even more thoughts about children... Unfortunately, he didn't go through the easter bunny, and if he finds out that while you're talking about kids, you're thinking about how you're looking at his best friend... one tip - will not take it easily.
That's the problem with today's women. They put so much effort into fooling men into what they really are... In most cases, try to deceive themselves of course. And when this man finds out what the female nature really is (and sooner or later it just shines), there's so much aggression in him that these murders and violence aren't at all strange, especially lately. As much as you want, push those fingers down, as much as you want, you're underestimating the men who really know you and telling you, you're only making the situation worse for yourself... It doesn't work, nor do they drink the red pill, because one more piece of advice - we know, nor for those of the blue pill because they have sometimes put their whole lives into a woman. And when she betrays them the trust (which is of course unjustified, but they have given it anyway), but fear of nothing can stop them from pouring their aggression on you. Even from prison, what's left of feminist stats... So the smart...
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onickaqueen answered · June 15, 2020
What do women want?
A:Everything now at all costs - and they don't know what they want...
P.
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bernisse answered · June 15, 2020
The whistle and the didn't count for infidelity... or so they say "friendly" ;)
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ttrool answered · June 15, 2020
Tell your husband, Janham. Or don't you want to keep your marriage? Tell him "that friend of yours is looking at me." You're a victim of the situation, women, at least that's what you can do. It's about deciding whether you want to keep your marriage. He didn't say anything about his friend - whether he was tied up, etc. And you didn't say about sex with your husband- how come you miss him? You don't have sex at all?
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vpriya23 answered · June 15, 2020
him, what's the big deal? Just don't tell your husband and your child's future father that you're a whore.
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asukay_01 answered · June 16, 2020
How old are you? Tell your husband you want to the other guy, and you're done. The question is, who do you want to be with? Doesn't your husband put it on you well enough?
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sofiaandwonderland answered · June 16, 2020
To extinguish the passion with sex is to extinguish a fire with a straw. Don't you cheat on your husband, it sucks! If you don't feel happy with your husband and try the other one, but don't get involved in triangles, think about the feelings of others, it's not nice to play with them. If you think you can't leave your husband, limit all contact with the other guy, stop seeing him so you can get him out of your head. Such things do not go without consequences, not to cry afterwards!
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miss_maerousse answered · June 16, 2020
him and forget about the case.
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sharonsi answered · June 17, 2020
I don't like you being open whores and you don't care about your men and women! You're disgusting from every corner of the eye! If it's me, I'il crush you both and get in the hospitals yourself!
M22
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dreamspussy answered · June 17, 2020
Emmy... I feel sorry for your husband.
In the west, there's the perfect description for the type of woman you're: Slut or rather thot(That Hoe Over There).
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nailisaiz answered · June 18, 2020
If anything limps with your husband, talk to him and come to a decision. of course, if you still love him and you want to make things right, because put yourself in his place, if he's a person who takes care of you and thinks you're a little bad to do it to him, because nowadays it's a little hard to find a person like that, because every second one is with your brains! Don't be primitive, everyone can be tempted, but not everyone has the brains in their head to explain things so that they can understand them and do the right thing for both of them (with your husband)!
First be a man, then a worthy woman. not a whore looking for eyes and thinking about who to bleed.