I am 20 years old and I have a 2-year relationship with a boy who loves me, has serious intentions towards me, take care of me ... I love him too! Of course, like any other couple, we have problems. He likes to sit at home, I like to go out ... We are both jealous, but he overdoes his checks ... We also have problems with sex. He still wants me, but I miss the thrill. I'm just starting to see him as a friend, and I don't want to break up. Now I met another ... with whom I am very pleased. He has great manners, he is extremely nice. In many ways it is the best choice for me. But I don't want to part with my boyfriend at this stage .. I don't want to cheat on him either .. but I think the only way to find out what I want is to try what's wrong with the other one ... Maybe this way I'll come back the thrill ... or I'll lose it altogether .... I don't know what to do. ... :(
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Hello! I also have a 2 year relationship with a boy and we had a period when the thrill was gone, we had problems with sex, etc. I want you to know that if you love each other, it is a 'momentary state'. There are such boring moments in every relationship, but they pass. Infidelity will not help you, you two are the ones who have to get your thrill back - with small gestures, gifts, new places, go on vacation just the two of you, shop at the sex shop and whatever else you can think of. It helped me! It will really be a pity if you ruin your relationship because of some passion. You'll regret. And it is very vile to deceive a man when he loves you. Put yourself in his place, it sucks, doesn't it? But if you think that this relationship is over and you want to be with the other, be honest with him and tell him! You decide.