Hello :) I understand you very well. I don't have many friends, although I'm 22, from Sofia. I quite understand how you feel. You know that you can't just hope for the friendships you've made in your city. And to calm down by waiting for your friends, every day and with great impatience, to appear on the net, so that you can communicate and diversify the lonely hours that you gather. You can't be completely dependent on their attention, since they are your friends, they won't forget you, you won't miss anything. But you are in a new city, another place, and it is good to meet new people. Maybe you're a little more closed, or at least that's how you look at your colleagues so they don't let you into their circles of friends. If so, it's because you're in a new place, among different people, it's harder for you to relax and be yourself, as you are in your hometown. You write on your own, you have recently been in Sofia, you have probably not yet conditioned yourself with the local mentality and attitude between people. With patience and time, you will overcome this barrier as well. But you should not close, you need life, people, real communication. Colleagues, they seem distant and blind and do not understand you, but it will be so until you show them what kind of person. Focus on one, even if it's the one you're sitting next to. Find common topics, seeing you have a normal and long conversation, others will turn their attention to you. From there, you talk to others. You make suggestions for cafes and nearby restaurants and so on. The important thing is to be with them somewhere at least once. And from the conversation you have, as long as you don't say much about yourself, but only what is necessary in the moments, and if you are not serious, they will find you an interesting person. And when it doesn't work with them, you try with others, there are a lot of people, and enough time and hours to get someone who will be excited about you, as an interlocutor and a person. You look like a nice person to me, I will be happy to sign up with you :) if you wish, my email is "rainbowheart @ abv. Bg" :) / To the moderators, it is good sometimes to make an exception:) / If not allow e-mail, and you want to pee, leave it to you :)
1 _samantha_sexx answered
Hi, I'm a 20-year-old boy and I don't have any friends either.