Hello, I am a girl of almost 18. I enjoy reading stories, so I decided to share mine. So I've been dating a boy for almost 9 months now. At first I didn't see him as a possible boyfriend, but over time I realized that I liked him and fell in love with him. He is my first serious friend. I've liked other guys before, but nothing serious. Our relationship with this boy is wonderful - we don't fight, we both trust each other, we share, etc. He definitely has more experience in relationships than I do. But there's one I don't know if the problem is the right word to call him - even though we've been dating him for so long we haven't had sex. We had, as they say, intimate moments just the two of us, kisses, hugs. Once when we were, as they say, heated up, his relatives had returned and things had stayed where we had come. I know that he cares for me, I'm sure of that, he has told me many times that he loves me, that he can't do without me. I feel confused, maybe I imagine that something is wrong, but we still haven't been out since yesterday, but for a long time. Maybe it's best to sit down and talk to him about this, although I don't know how he will react or how our conversation ended. I don't know, but it just seems like our relationship with him is more friendly than boyfriends. Maybe it's best to break up and just remain friends, because if that's the way I think I don't want to delude myself that our relationship has a future and suffer. What do you think Please advice and thanks in advance. but still we haven't been out since yesterday, but for a long time. Maybe it's best to sit down and talk to him about this, although I don't know how he will react or how our conversation ended. I don't know, but it just seems like our relationship with him is more friendly than boyfriends. Maybe it's best to break up and just remain friends, because if that's the way I think I don't want to delude myself that our relationship has a future and suffer. What do you think? Please advice and thanks in advance. but still we haven't been out since yesterday, but for a long time. Maybe it's best to sit down and talk to him about this, although I don't know how he will react or how our conversation ended. I don't know, but it just seems like our relationship with him is more friendly than boyfriends. Maybe it's best to break up and just remain friends, because if that's the way I think I don't want to delude myself that our relationship has a future and suffer. What do you think? Please advice and thanks in advance. because if that's the way I think I don't want to delude myself that our relationship has a future and suffer. Please advice and thanks in advance. because if that's the way I think I don't want to delude myself that our relationship has a future and suffer. What do you think? Please advice and thanks in advance.
1 Jayne420 answered
It is best to sit down and talk to him openly, to tell him how you feel and what you want. Better is the truth, whatever it is, happy or sad, than standing in the unknown.