Hello, my friend and I have been together for almost a year, but I can say that we have been friends for a long time. My problem is that since I got pregnant and gained weight in (I'm 3 months and gained 9 kg) we have sex less often. We do it 2-3 times a week, but I want it more often, I don't know if it's because of the pregnancy. If it matters, he's 9 years older than me, I'm 21 and he's 30. I have the feeling that since I got fat he hasn't wanted me like that before we did it more often. And overall it doesn't satisfy me it ends too quickly. Can you give me any advice, is it possible to imagine that the person does not want me like that
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The normal weight that a woman needs to gain during pregnancy is about 12.5 kg, and can vary between 10 and 20 kg. However, most of it has been uploaded in the last 20 weeks. It's a little too much for you to begin with, so be careful. Exercise more and eat healthy - small portions 5-6 times a day. I am also pregnant, already at 9 months, and fortunately I have gained only 7-8 kg, "thanks" to an unplanned weight loss in the first months. My husband and I have no problems in intimate terms, we have sex as often as before I got pregnant. Some men have a psychological barrier to having sex with a pregnant woman and putting it where their baby is. But if you do it often, there is hardly a problem. Diversify more and things will fall into place.
Your hormones are raging, and that's probably what you think, and now it's normal to do it less often, more modestly, more carefully. I don't think those kg. they have something in common, and many women want more during pregnancy, but hormones. It probably ends faster because you do it less often, but even if it didn't give him pleasure, it wouldn't be like that. I will not reassure you, but after giving birth you will have a belly and a lot more kg, but this is temporary, of course you will quickly get in shape no matter how unattractive you feel and you can still share with your partner I think it will make you feel better. Do not strain unnecessarily, enjoy the growing belly and a light pregnancy.