I am a 15 year old girl. Last summer I met a boy (I'll call him X) at a pool ... Anyway. We later became boyfriends. We wrote to each other at the beginning every day, because the pool was not in Sofia, X returned to Sofia 1 week before me. It was the beginning of September and I also returned to Sofia. He said he wanted to see me ... Then he said he was busy, that his mother had punished him, etc. In the end, I got tired of these excuses because I knew they were a lie. After all, it was summer, there's no way he didn't have even 20 free minutes to see me. I broke up with him ... Then he asked for a second chance and I foolishly gave it to him (please don't judge me for this, I just want advice). I got along with him because I think everyone deserves a second chance. The story repeated itself ... He arranged meetings again, he didn't come, he postponed them at the last moment ... I had to leave him again because there was no development here .. The problem was my strong feelings .. After about 20 days he started asking me if I still had feelings .. We fixed our relationship. We saw each other twice ... My question at the moment, do you think it's normal ... Two people who live in two neighboring neighborhoods to see each other 3 times in 8 months .. On the one hand, it sounds silly to be with such a person and on the other hand I really have feelings. It may be affection, obsession, but I really care about this boy. Something I really can't figure out: Suddenly he stops writing. I can accept that he is busy to see me, but I don't understand that he is constantly online and super rarely remembers to write. He wants us to have sex. Talk about it all the time ... But it's good how it could happen to a person I've known for 8 months, and I have seen 3 times. Even if I was addicted to doing it, how can it be that we don't go out? And the worst, most insidious thing is that when I decide to leave him, he starts: I love you. You're everything to me. I don't want to lose you. a girl I really love If you leave me I'll kill myself I'm made for you Well .. What can I do ... I don't understand if he's sincere or just says it so I don't dump him .. If I stay with him the story repeats itself , if I break up with him, I feel guilty that he dumps a person who said similar words to me .. And now we are in the situation that only I write to him, he answers sometimes, other times he leaves me blue and when I try to stop everything, he starts with the same lines ... And I ask you what to do.? ... Does that make sense or not? Please no insults, criticism, etc .... I just need your help ....
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These words are his clichés. I think he's lying to you. Are you sure he lives where he told you he lived? If the place of residence is true, then I don't see what his problem is to see each other, and of course money is a problem ... So if he really loves you, he won't play you like a monkey and make you a fool. You have to ask him why he does that. But you could have known / worse - to wait for him at the meeting place and not to come and turn off his phones or not to pick up even more humiliated and ridiculed, you will feel. He's still napping. Now are the best years for you to flirt and tremble if this and that like you, because it's for you to lose them with this confused boy. Talk about it