Hello! Do you think that all men and women are the same or just use the same communication techniques Don't you think that to some extent, everyone is the same, it seems to me so much that it is so that I even thought that there was some conspiracy against me, between two of my friends who do not know each other, but they keep it sooo similar that it's scary, I thought about the other men who hovered around me, the ones I accepted, but they, all of them, are similar to each other. I want to emphasize that I have no preferences for type, neither visual nor emotional ... I communicate with everyone who behaves politely. Either all the men around me are the same, or I attract this type of men .... How are you, how do you feel about your relationships, communication with men and / or women. Do you think that everyone is more or less the same and if YES, what do you think is the reason? Do you think you attract the same type of people and what is the reason for this? :)
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Social networks are to blame. There the flow of information is diverse, but it is also very uniform. It has happened to me to go out with girls around the age of 20 who have the same jokes and mohabeds .. A man of 24
In general - yes, people react in a similar way, you are not the object of a conspiracy :-) As I wrote in another topic, when you learn to press their buttons you see that they react in the same way. You say or do "A" and Pena, Milka, Gergana, etc. respond or react in the expected "B" way. When you understand what is the right way and what you have to say or do, you can use the same thing 1000 times and almost every time with the same predictable result :-))) The bad thing is that in the beginning you do not know the "right" way and you approach with the wrong one and therefore you get the predictable negative result from everyone. Now that you learn to push the buttons, you see that people are very much like automatons. You press button "A" and you play song "B", you press "C" and you play "D" :-)
Според теб в какво се проявява еднаквостта им? Явно гледаш на мъжете като на мъже, а не като на хора със свои собствени житейски истории, интереси и стремежи. Виждаш човек от мъжки пол и го етикираш, а това е неправилно и не води до нищо. Всички мъже имат определен набор от органи, които жените нямат например. В това са еднакви. Но всички мъже помежду си са различни в разбиранията си, интересите си, работата си, емоциите си и тн. Аз дето съм програмист вече 12 години и работя почти изцяло само с мъже виждам, че дори най-върлите зубъри, които много хора биха определили за еднакви, всъщност са много различни помежду си.
Based on 2, you can't draw conclusions and summaries for 4,000,000,000. Bring them to at least 5-6, if not 10, and then you will have some kind of true idea. Remember something else - you probably attract this type of men with your nature. This further limits your circle. It's up to you how prone you are to experiment and how many "inappropriate" people you tend to fall for :)
I do not believe it. All around me are strange birds, no one looks like the other. There are common features, but they appear in certain moods, which is fine. As moods, feelings, learned phrases, there may be similarities, but in characters, essence and understanding - almost none. And so it is in my relationships. There are common things like phrases, certain activities and, for example, that everyone has watched the same type of videos, but nothing more.
They are not the same. Somehow it happened to you, you obviously attract such men with your energy. I don't know how to explain it to myself, but don't despair ... my partners in the way of thinking, acting, living, thinking physically and as you want to say it - so far everyone is individual, they are different and in sex they approach differently in the language , dumps, conversation topics. That's what happened to you, good luck!
Well, we're human after all. You will find a lot of similarities. The difference does not come from what your eyes see, hear your ears or touch your hands, but ... from the THRILLING. From the thrill of seeing a person, when you are close to him or even just when you think of him. Here is the difference, everything else is similar, even at times the same. :)
so I wondered if it wasn't the reason in me, if I wasn't encouraging men to behave this way, because I see them behaving differently with others, they're not so ... themselves in front of them. Number 5 - for me it's different, I believe it's from the environment I'm in, also from my own interests, but really, I'm open to communicate with everyone, it's true that when I communicate with someone who has a radically different environment and interests of mine, then it is quite different from my acquaintances, but this is only at the level of superficial communication, if things deepen, as number 7 said - we are all human, but still like and express things the same way (at least when they are with me). Number 6 - Thanks :) Number 7 - I agree, the essential thing is the feeling we have for someone, but I think more