You attract this guy, it's nobody's fault. Because obviously you haven't looked around the world around you, there's a lot of different, PRETTY. How are you going to see them?
from a man's point of view, we wonder how so many women fall for the type you described, looking so flat and corny on the side... you just have to learn to recognize them - it's not that hard.
What do you want us to tell you?
People all sorts of things.
Choose your lovers more carefully, and you won't have such experiences.
I love how women are fully aware of this "game", but nevertheless you prefer someone who plays it in front of a more modest boy. It's more like asking yourself "why do I like them?" I recently had a conversation with a girl I like and went through exactly the same thing as you. When asked what she liked, she replied "well, he played his cards right." Well, ladies, as long as you know who plays any cards, not what the real nature of the person is, so it will be, and there will be such themes.
Evala at 4. You said it very correctly. Women know they're lying, but they prefer exactly the kind of men they know they're lying about, not sincere ones. It's not very hard to see who's lying and who's not. I just don't understand why, after they lie to them, then they're frustrated and say that all men were like that. Well, it's normal for a whore to do whore tricks. Who's to blame for that? Is it so much you can't feel the forgery in his words and his actions and his flat radiance? Are you naïve, blind, or do you just want to be lied to on a (sub)conscious level?
I'm very happy with the men pushing their pants with "it's your fault" and that's because the responsibility of even putting the cistern in the toilet can't take over. And to correct a little-talking about the Bulgarians, this mathematician is the most claw! Hae hee
I've had a much weirder conversation.
There was one I really liked... she was hot, sexy, beautiful... and I was crazy about her, and I asked her out for at least six months. He never accepted a single invitation. So many times I asked her what I needed to change for the job to happen- shut up. So I gave up at one point.
It's been six or seven years, we're meeting and I'm going to ask me again why she didn't like me then.
Well, she couldn't tell me a reason - and she didn't know ;) Well, if she doesn't know how to know how to like her?
Women :))
I agree with 2,4 and 5. Women should stop thinking with your vaginas, then you may like someone decent. In English, there's a "Fool me once - shame on you, fool me twice - shame on me." Demek, it's not your fault that women are fooling yourself so easily. It finally turns out that you want to be lied to.
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You're going to excuse me, but I didn't fuck her, and then I didn't call. What responsibility are we even talking about here? And yes, it's her fault it's getting to this point? So when you want sex, you have sex, and if you want to eliminate whores like that, you pick them. At least he could have waited a month before he let go, and he'd be staring at himself. But she wants to be trampled on the second day, and to get stars off her as they beat her up, and to be serious. Well, if you think about it, it's close to the mind, but all men must be guilty and in the common. It's easier to feel all the men and feel sorry for yourself than to see that the latter wants a little push.
Number 8 said it beautifully. If women think with their vaginas, it's normal to attract men thinking with their balls.
I'm a little direct, but say I'm lying.
From my personal experience so far, It is those who say the most wonderful things, make beautiful compliments, take down stars and overwhelm you with attention, then turn out to be the most unreliable, turn out to be just women's women who have seen you as another target to conquer, not as a woman they want to get to know.Relax, you're not the first to fall into this trap.
In this case, as a man, I'il support you. The majority of men today are pussies, and we are the fruit of weak characterless fathers. They raised these weak boys, and spoiled princesses. Of course, not all are, but the majority. I can't know what you wrote about who you are and judge you. In my opinion, over 90% is poor for more than sex, regardless of men or women, so it is perfectly normal to encounter it. That's where you figure it out and you start to know it, it's up to you. Don't act like a victim, that's all I can tell you, because you're no longer a child and there's no one to play in front of... Whatever choice you make, you'il be as itchy, as you are.
Also, most decent men today have already become frustrated and not looking for women, especially "every day of God"... It's just that modern times aren't good for serious relationships. A more rational choice is to get used to living alone. It's the only way to take responsibility for your own life, otherwise you find yourself dependent on someone else's whims. That's why it was marriage at the time, a contract to develop a common activity, today no one can think of it anymore. Every man is selfish, everyone does what he does... Feminism destroyed marriage, so if you're looking for the main culprit, it's you women, you wanted that free love. Now, let's talk about morality and real men, these are rare subjective qualities, not biological...
The topic is quite emotional and is about the eternal opposition of the sexes and the difference in their thinking.
I'm a man, and I really honestly can't understand why women put so much drama into having sex. They turn sex into something super special that they like to give to a man, and only if he plays his cards well, as 4 rightly said. Women hold sex as a valuable asset and are very disappointed when someone takes it from them with deception. In this order of thought - when you have something of value, or which you perceive as valuable (like your golden priceless vagina, for example), no matter how much you keep it and give it hard... you'il always find someone to take it from you and trick you. That's the game of life.
I'm trying to imply that this is the problem in the way you perceive having sex. You give it too much meaning, and that's why you're disappointed, instead of seeing it as a pleasant, voluntary experience that two elderly people have given themselves.
As a man and I know very well from my bitter life experience with women that if I do not say and do the right things (even if they are not sincere), if I do not press the right buttons, I will spend my whole life delivering my body needs alone in the shower or in front of the screen. I've learned the hard way that women definitely don't appreciate sincere and open conversations about sex... and, in general, They appreciate the illusion and emotion a man is able to deliver to them to respond with sexual desire to him.
It's not my fault that you women are like that by nature, and it's not my fault that I have the needs of my body. It's just that we men adapt to objective reality.
You women have diametrically opposed to male views on sex and relationships in general, and this is also completely normal. It's just that each sex needs to understand and accept each other's differences and accept them. Otherwise there will be (and there are) very disappointed.
Up to 13
so, man, however, I, as a man, agree that women should keep their pussy, because for them sex is not just entertainment, but it is bound with emotions, and it is very binding for them at all, and I think that is exactly how it should be. Then wait for such a woman to look at the child and family, since she's used to fuck like an animal.
The problem isn't that they keep their pussy, it's that they give it to the wrong men. And then all men are like that. Well, if you can't tell the good guys, that's what they are, yes. Give her two compliments, and now it's over- he's the man.
Old people don't accidentally use the term "lying to a woman." Notice, lie. Not to win, not to attract, but to lie. A woman doesn't accept reality and likes to live under illusion. She likes to believe in romance, in turbulent love, and prefers the man who gave her this illusion. And the fact that I'm going to curse my destiny is not important. The important thing for the moment is to satisfy your emotional need for illusion. A woman does not appreciate sincerity, values the illusory and temporary dream.
If that guy was right texting that she just wanted to her, she wouldn't smell sex. If someone tells her candidly that she likes it as a woman and eventually they may have a serious relationship, but in the end she doesn't guarantee anything and has no way of knowing how their relationship will develop, she will find him arrogant. But if he says "you're the best in the world, no one else, I don't want to," he immediately opens his legs. And we all know that there's no way he could have been so in love without having a relationship, much less forever in love. But go explain this to a woman.
I'm quite different from what you described as a type of man, but you know what you women always notice, and guys like me ignore, and that's why you're always ducking!
13, how do you not understand the belle! We don't have a value squeal or our gold wagons! We expect MORE of sex! We want family and children!
And when the majority "take" only sex with YEARS, you lose our PRECIOUS CHILD YEARS , which is our value!
And when you are left alone and childless, this is the most disgusting and unfortunately unfazed criminal squain!
16, absolute nonsense you talk Most women do not think like you, for them family and children are a burden. My first friend, who we were both virgins and were together for two years, and now I was making plans to live together and have children when I told her about these plans, she thought I was crazy and broke up with me with the words "I want to try other men too." She's 29 now and she's single, but we dated recently and she told me she was already with 40 men, but now she decided not to let go so easily because she couldn't find a permanent boyfriend.
If women wanted family and children, they'd find decent men with serious attitudes, not some scumbag who cheated on them. It's just that women don't have long-term thinking, and you're too emotional and you're easy to fool at the cool brother-in-the-world. Then you complain about the men. You're doing it.
"And when we are alone and childless for you, this is the most disgusting and unfortunately unfazed criminal squagable by law! "
Why don't you make your intentions clear on the first date? "I'm looking for a man I want to have a child with in a two-year-old." Tell her that, and that's it. Most people will think you're crazy and run away, but they're not the material of fathers who'il stay with you if you're going to have three kids.
16 - it's like thinking only with your child's organs, 13 thinking only with your lower head. I can't see a difference. As long as you act like animals, you'il only get sex.
What happens if you don't breed? The world will end?
A real relationship, and human relationships in general, should be much more than sex, children and your precious childbearing years.
I'm 13
By 14, I totally agree with you. You said it better than I did.
By 16, I totally agree with you. You embody the female point of view that I touched in my writings, but I didn't want to extend myself to explaining.
It is clear that women have different sexual behaviors due to the limited amount of years in which they can conceive and give birth. It is normal for all the men who woo them to seek to choose the one with the best genes and the ability to ensure survival for her and the future offspring. Often the choice is on a subconscious level and many women do not realize that they do, but it is a fact. With their sexual behavior, women make genetic population selection, and only the best men will pass on their genes. That's why women in society value virginity and it's not "light" and "easy." It's been like this for millions of years, and it's going to be like this forever.
On the other hand, we men, due to the fact that we can never be sure if a child is ours (the DNA test is only a few years old), combined with the fact that we can make children until death, we have the behavior that is the subject of the dispute in this topic. We have sex with as many women as possible in fertile age, so it's young and pretty so we can pass on our genes somewhere. Men are valued and it is attractive to be experienced with women.
Just as men are annoyed that women don't "let go" to them easily, so women are annoyed that men only want "sex." Society has imposed certain norms of what is OK and what is not, but in general this gender behavior has no prospect of changing because it is part of who we are.
And to end the outpouring, the author has become the "victim" of a wonderfully genetically oriented man. He betrayed his genes and drove off. How he did it is a matter of moral interpretation. Many sincere and honorable men can't get there and write themes here with the headline "I told her I love her and I want to spend my life with her, and she told me that with me there is no thrill and she wants us to be just friends. What did I do wrong!!! "
So much for being honest with women...
Number 16, you're talking nonsense. What crime, what law?
Did anyone accidentally put a gun to your head to make you go out with men who were just looking for sex? No, right? Don't act like fools and embarrass all women. Are you 15 years old to fall for men's lies? Everyone is responsible for their actions.
The path to love and happiness is not rosy.
Hahahahahaha!!! There is, yes. And where are the women who think with their heads? Just look at the topic on the site - "what men like women" and you will understand exactly what it is about. Mercantile is already in tribute. Only muffins, there is not one decent woman with whom to have a normal conversation, you are all elementary creatures, guided solely by their needs and interests. Just you. you too, author, you slept with some liar and a hitman, you got what you wanted (namely- Ego) and now you're whining and crying. Everybody gets what they deserve. I'm sick of muffins.
That's the kind of thing you're attracting to.
Learn to close your legs for this one and to be furious and look not for the muscovite macho.
Look at the more ordinary guys who are boring and uninteresting, there's a good chance there's just one of them to create a stable family.
Whoever finds out who runs the Bad Boys is her problem.
P.
Until you learn to distinguish the whores and the numbers from the decent men, it will be the case in the future.
The hookers and the bad guys are very much gamed and play him just like some nice guy or a bartender who can secure their future.
First teach the man against you what kind of man he is, then give him your precious vagina!
This is my advice, dear ladies and especially Sofia.
P.
Hey, 16, stop her with the feminist videos on the Tube.
You had sex for one night felony. :D
If a man screws you up in one night, he could be a jerk, if three of you get screwed in a week, maybe they're not a commodity. But if you lose 10 or 15 years with 10 or 15 men, it's not men's. :D
You should know it. Or maybe it's some immature little boy who's gone for a girlfriend and attention.
When you go to bed with someone on the first date, always have in mind that it might be the last.
What if this kind of guy meets a serious woman and he gives hope and talks about how he wants something serious and then blows it away? Then what's going on? He wants something serious, and I want to know what I'm for. F***and the man.
In general, someone different do not know to have. Among such false men, how do you know who's speaking truth and who's not?
Yes, I reached out to men with the truth, and it's very deep!
And for the low-intelligent, one may lose you all childbearing years by "procrastinating" the family indefinitely!
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Like women, men...
A man finds the partner for himself relative to his own heart.
Me
I'm a young woman. I read the subject, I read and the comments. And I'm thinking, when did all this malice come about? From women to men and even more than men to women. And i've heard men talk live in this way, and uglier. When did you guys get so sick? I did not see a meaningful comment. One didn't say to her "There are such people. Head up and forward. ". One woman didn't say "There's another type of man. I know them. ". I do, for example, do know them. Beautiful men with good genes among which there are some married and there are also monogamous. Yes they also have their flaws within themselves, there are no ideal people. En masse, however, men try to outsmart women, and women insult all men for some other disappointment. These days, everyone's broken their heart at least once, but it doesn't justify that both sexes behave like this.
31 I do what I say is good, and I seek no excuses.
Up to 16
- I told you already- make your intentions clear from the beginning, and it won't be a problem. Believe it or is, there are also free women who are not irradiated by the patriarch, that you must necessarily have to have children.
Number 31 you talk about malice towards women, then you talk about beautiful men with good genes. Are they the only people who exist? The answer is "In your eyes, yes!".
It's perfectly normal for men to hate women. What's valuable is a woman of today? She's going to tell me she loves me like she said to 10 people before me? Or is she going to give me her "golden vagina" like she gave her 20 before me? Or will it be forever true to me, given that half of marriages end in divorce and women start 80% of divorces?
On the other hand- demands thousands. I don't want to list them, you know. And some cheat sons take off an app on the phone and go knocking.
What is there to be loved in beings like you? It's not a rhetorical question, I want an answer.
31, and what did yours make sense of other than commenting on the comments?
31, by your "logic," which supposedly aims to make the sexes better if you're not handsome with top dog genes.
32, smart ass, I have no problem!
I've come to know what kind of problem the author is, and you're pretending to be misunderstood...
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33, I'm tired of some complexes that constantly insult women. Women are what you choose, and once you have chosen another one that is challenging, because the challenging is "sexy", a huge self-esteem and for which her life revolves around hairdressers, manicures, pedicures, malls and soaking in cafes and discos, what do you expect? A princess? You don't pay attention to the more modest girls because they're boring. Men are no less masochistic than women, endure cheating and indulging in expensive and often absolutely unnecessary whims (such as an expensive coat, expensive holiday, dinner in an expensive restaurant) in the name of "love", because the princess can not without them, and her friends should envy her, and then complain that "all women are whores". But, in the end, better so, because the more modest girls are not on your level.
Black Sabbath
I feel like there's only some inseli and some that haven't been insemies yet, but they're leaning that way. What hatred!
There are nasty men, there are naïve women. There are nasty women, and imagine naïve men! There are all kinds of things.
Everyone wants the best they can get their hands on. There are very few people who quite consciously understand that they can't have the best. You can't judge a woman for meeting a man who, in her eyes, is perfect and indulged in it. He just can't. Yes, she's naïve, she's been stupid, and she's only thought about her ego. But it's understandable and we need to show sympathy.
Not all men are alpha male-hammer-runners. There are also decent and interesting. They've got other couscous. That's life. Top-head, you can't let an individual change your judgment about all men. And this pain will pass and you will still love and be loved!
31 to 32. The comments touched on the question of appearance. I explain that there are decent beautiful men. There are ugly good ones, too. But I've seen ugly shit. Including men and women. People all sorts of things. I don't know why you get caught up in a whole comment about a word and still look for the ugly, the deprabed, no matter if you're under the comment numbers, are you women?
What is there to be loved in beings like us? Well, that answer says a lot! If you're not capable of love, if you don't see a reason to love, I can't teach you something that's been learning for years. For example, I can give many reasons to love a man. I can give a lot of reasons to love a woman. I'm not going to write a 2-foot comment. I'm going to put it this way because she's a man or because she's a woman you choose, who or who believes in you and is with you. It's a skill to make a choice and stand behind it, to defend it, first in front of yourself as your own choice and then the specific person as your partner. To a large extent, black sabbath's response is also applicable to your comment. Often the women described in your comment overlap with the women described in her comment.
To #34: One didn't say to her "There are such people. Head up and forward. ". One woman didn't say "There's another type of man. I know them. ". I do, for example, do know them.
En masse, however, men try to outsmart women, and women insult all men for some other disappointment.
With the writing, I tell the author that life goes on after disappointment. That there's another kind of man. And in the latter, I deal with the mistakes of both sexes among the comments, to think that as the person in the world is not sinless, so are you. It was a man against a woman or a woman against a man.
If I haven't written it clearly enough: For better or worse, things like this happen. Anger, however, is the worst adviser.
If you don't know it, I can't help you anymore.
To #35: There are passengers for every train. I'm not some higher power, and I don't determine who's going to fall in love with whom. I've seen tough men with cara grey women and ugly men with ugly women, I've seen beautiful men with ugly women and beautiful women with ugly men. I don't know if you're a man or a woman, beautiful or not, but whatever person hides behind this trick, I assure you all sorts of routines between the sexes that even of the same sex, there is in this world.
It seems only No38 managed to understand my comment or sees things in the same way simply.
33 to 37:
Men don't choose women on a modest/arrogant basis, women do, and that's where the whole problem comes from.
Men choose on a beautiful/ugly basis. If by "scroaming a woman" you mean "ugly woman", then you're still wrong, because the ugly ones have more candidates because they're easier prey.
But it's not an important number, it's the genetic material, as 31 put it.
You're very angry that now you have to itch the steam you've shredded yourself.
You want to be "independent", you want the whole choice to be yours, you only want the most, and in return what - a broken p**ka.
The balls that walk your asses in the hope that you'll smile at them.
Of course men who are walking will treat you like crap. So who would respect a woman willing to go to bed with him when he's finger-shaking?
And the rest of you who aren't "alfies" don't think they were made in d*h.
Everyone sees what's going on. And everyone asks one question - Why do I have to be serious and responsible and the other one can and run?
He didn't really promise you you'd be together. Just because he liked you physically, complimented you and wanted to make you want to be a relationship. Do you make a difference between the two? And if he intended to have a relationship, he may have been disappointed afterwards. Nobody lied to you about anything. If you don't want sex without a relationship, make it clear in advance and don't in the third minute. We don't read minds.
Dear "ladies" (do the quotes notice?), whores are looking for whores. What the hell? You're not like that, they're looking for easy women. When you're "easy" what you're doing to be surprised. Even if this guy's not a whore, he'il think that by the time she spins, she's with the next one. They love whores very much, but almost no one wants them at home (or a serious relationship)!
To the author, and not only.
Those men who complained about not having a boyfriend aren't the ones who and run. That's it first. The second is that it is not bad to go to bed very soon from acquaintance, it does not make the woman a whore, nor the male whore, that he insisted on sex. And if he's not a, when he likes you, he wants to have sex, he wants to.
Third, you must have the qualities to recognize the person, whether of those who will blow. And fourthly, it's nice to know from the beginning what's really supposed to happen between the two. You must have a sense of these things.
And those who enjoy it and do it for the sex themselves, they do not feel and lied, because besides, they had no other desire.
38, the fact that it is filled with inseli indicates that there is a fundamental problem in society. You can't blame them for their suffering, and we must show sympathy.
Ladies, never go to bed with the man on a first date. nor on the second. Wait a few months, get to know the man, don't let them pass their trick to sleep with you and then call you whores because they're doing the trick, they're lying, and then the woman's guilty. All she's guilty of is being naïve and believing a man. Don't trust a man - it takes years for trust, so even that's not a guarantee... A man who wants to be with you will wait as long as he needs to. When a man suggests going to his house to watch a movie and you refuse, he won't call you again if it's just about sex. Make men look for you themselves, be assertive, fight for you. Don't agree to a meeting right away. After all, women have to choose who they're with. That way you'il see who's a good guy.
To the author: Don't regret it, think of it as a lesson and a mistake you won't repeat again. I'm sure you'il find someone who truly loves you :)
"A man who wants to be with you will wait as long as he needs to."
I've been waiting. So while I'm waiting for her, she's going to bed with someone else.
I've made some of the comments. I'm a woman, and I have a girlfriend who always complains that she's being sought by men for sex - and i'il explain it later. And I asked her, what if there aren't any? Not that no one ever offered me sex, but the moment you saw some branches being cut off. I have dignity and I respect myself so I don't let anyone use me and leave me like a rag. I even wonder how she and everyone else feel in these situations? You get one and you do it with it, and that's it. And how do you fall in love with someone who says "come and my spirit* sh" and not continue communicating with someone who tells you they like you and is in love with you!? Menage is not to blame for women giving them what they want. He wants sex, you know that, you go, you give him sex and you wait for love? Well.. How to make things happen. Moreover, this one has slept with not only me with him and again about sex, and it is normal for example to get out. And then he wonders how the guy who started writing to her started with the sexual innside.
48....your thinking is like a woman of the early 20th century.
Why do you always proceed from the presumption that it's like the woman used? He was going to dump her. It's like you don't like having sex and orgasms are stronger. Why don't you think about sex, and if two people like each other and have sex, they just do it. He's having sex with her and she's having sex with him. It's like she let go of mercy to make the man's fun, and she didn't like it. It's like it's bad for a woman to let go, but it's good when a man's a lot of women. Hey, it's brainwashing and social programming.
You want to be equal to men. . . . . . well be like that.
Agree sleep completely with 49 - such cases are everyday. Not to mention that most women don't like a man waiting. And in the movie "Time Divided," the heroine said to that guy: when we were in the woods, you didn't take me when we were in the field or there you were (quote by memory) which didn't take me. Demek, why didn't you come up with the? And now you're going to call me Mom. . . . . . . because he finally married his father.
I'm number 46, a 45-year-old man.
52, I'm a man, but I disagree with you. If a woman starts sleeping with everyone she meets, because you see sex is a pleasure and she doesn't have to commit, where will the end come to her? At 30, she'il get married, go through 100 men, and then wait for this woman to babysit you, be a good wife, etc. and she's used to. Just don't tell me how she's just going to have sex with different men without engaging and then, with a magic wand, she'il become an exemplary mother and wife for life.
I agree with 53. There's no ex-faggot and ex-whore.
I totally agree with number 53. Everyone spits out the norms and the system and the status quo, and so on, thinking that he is harmed in some form, without realising what benefits these things bring him.
Monogamy wasn't just invented because someone didn't have a walk with the women and wanted everyone to be on his hall. There is a reason marriage as an institution is imposed in absolutely every nation, religion and culture. And there's a very good reason why the bride is a virgin to marriage.
It's no secret to anyone that 20 percent of men can 80 percent of women (the numbers are indicative), as in the animal world with alpha males. That's what people knew about it 5,000 years ago. Well, yes, but the question remains " If we leave things alone, what happens next???.
The answers are multiple and none is attractive:
A) "Beta" males gather in a group, ambush the "alpha" and the herd remains leaderless (seen in chimpanzees).
B) No one in society is motivated by progress. After all, the alfies will always, whatever they do, and the bettys will never knock.
Q. Normal families are not built, respectively men grow up without a father (because there are no single fathers) and joint putts who cannot keep the flock. Look at the US, Sweden, etc.
What are we doing now? We're stuck in a demographic crisis, while the barbarians, the primitives make 10 children. Two more generations and more than us. And then what? You think we're going to disappear slowly and peacefully? Think again.
Thousands of years of building civilizations go to hell so that three generations of women can get their way.
Whoever disagrees with me, let me point to an example of a society that has solved debauchery and lasted more than 100 years.
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