Hello, I decided to share my problem here and if by chance someone went through the same to give me advice. I am a 22 year old girl and I have had a boyfriend for a year. Everything is more than wonderful, we even live together. I am a bit shy and a bit closed-minded, but not too much. I have friends with whom I feel great and I go out, but when he introduced me to his friends I just didn't get along with them. They are not bad people, but I just can't find a common theme with them and for most of the time I just keep quiet with them. They often tell me to say something, don't be silent, but I just can't find common ground with them. Every time we have to go out with them and I start to worry, I get to the point where I start to feel sick before going out with them and even vomit. I can't explain it to myself, but it's very nasty and I just want to deal with this problem. Everything is obviously on a mental basis and I have to do something to cope. Please, if anyone can help me with advice, let him do it. I will be glad to read your opinions. Thank you in advance !!!
1 klaythompson answered
Well, it seems to be on a mental basis. Try to tell a common story. If men talk about fish, cars, etc. male interests, it's normal you can't get involved. I think it will be easier for you if you communicate with their friends. It won't look like you're just silent. And gradually you will get used to it.