I know I have countless similar topics, but not quite. I don't think he will ever ask here about this problem, but here it is. I am 27 years old, he is 30 years old. We have been together for about 10 months, intimate for about 6 months. I would say that sex is good, but the last month has been hell for me. I never reached orgasm. It's not impossible, it's just harder for me. First emotional relaxation is required. I already trust him, I'm terribly excited. Sex is amazing ... but when I'm one step away from the end, it's over. I don't know which way it happens anymore. One thing follows: sorry! But the scary thing is that he can't pick it up later. And again, regret follows. Honestly ... I'm tired. Can men explain or direct me what to do with me or him? We do it with a condom, he is circumcised. Just nice people, we get along great, but it eats me up. The tension builds up ... and builds up. I cum on my own later, but it's not the same. I have a feeling it gets scarier then. I really thank those involved.
1 lil_lexi2 answered
Well, for example, to insert some oral caresses before you start having sex or to use condoms for a slower ejaculation inside, I think with something like lidocaine.