Hello everyone! I don't know if I'm complaining or just looking for advice, you judge for yourself. If it matters, I'm a man of 23. It's all about a girl we had a long relationship with, we lived together and broke up on my own initiative, because I just couldn't stand it in the end, but the reason for the separation is hardly important, but I think that it is more important that I can no longer be with her, because in my imagination she is no longer the girl of my life, but rather a person who does not love me, a false and false person and about whose qualities I unfortunately learned a lot late. Anyway .. The point is that we have a common company and we have to see each other nonetheless, and this burdens me a lot and even though she knows all these people around me, it seems very childish and inappropriate to say to someone with whom to go out and with whom not, that's why I didn't do it. However, I want to get rid of her image, her presence, I don't want to know what she looks like, how she is, who else she goes out with, how her daily life goes, when she went to the hairdresser, who wrote to her, who stocked her and the like things, I just want to "bury" her in my thoughts and make her a person who for me is just what is called "dead". Yes de .. but how !? Changing the company is also not an option for me, because I am abroad and the contacts are quite limited, and separately these people are close to me and it is not worth taking such measures, because for me it is childish, and the probability of being left without contacts will be very large. It may seem to you that I have filmed a lot, but I would not deny it, it may be so, but I know that I am in a circle in which I am not well and I want to get out of it. Ideas, tips are welcome!
1 prettylittleliars911 answered
Either you sacrifice your friends or you tolerate the girl. In a similar situation, I chose to stay with my friends. Not everything can always be to your advantage. At 23, you should already know it