Hi! I also decided to write on this site, because with my emotions things happen that I can not share with anyone else. I'm in an unhappy nearly 15-year marriage. About two years ago, I fell in love very strongly with a married man who lives in my entrance. I've seen his wife, but we don't know each other. In the beginning, he and I were just congratulating each other and it seemed that we were very happy to see each other. In that period, I just got obsessed with him, constantly thinking about where he was, what he was doing... Over time, he started talking to me more. I was so happy, and I was so jealous of his wife that I decided to back off. I started to be cold and distant, even though I was tearing myself apart inside. I kept thinking about him, it's been months. He recently asked me if I was mad at him and I denied it, but I just couldn't tell the truth and reveal myself to him, after all, we both have families and children. From a neighbor who lives on the floor above them, I found out that she hears them talking in a high tone often, but other times she's seen them behaving very much in love with each other. More recently, he stepped away from me, probably as a result of my behavior, and now I'm very sick. I can't stop reminding myself of the time we greeted each other, we looked at each other. I want him so badly that I would break up my family and get back together with him, but I don't know if he would, and I wouldn't in any way have an extramarital affair with anyone, not even him. I'm very afraid to risk confessing to his feelings because if nothing happens between us, we'il continue to live in the same way. But now I live day after day in constant agony. I don't know what to do. I'm so close to him, and it's not mine.
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loverfetishxxx19 answered · June 18, 2020
Now think very well- do you want to ruin two marriages for such nonsense? Lately, too many people have been confusing ordinary courtesy with love. So what if he said hello? A well-mannered man is simple. Talking doesn't seem so serious to me either: brief conversations between neighbors, nothing more.
What do you expect when you've backed away? yes, he's going to step back, too. yes, you're going to be sick. But if you did it yourself, didn't you think about the consequences?
What your neighbor told you shouldn't give you hope. In every family there are quarrels, raising the tone, etc. As long as it doesn't happen all the time, it's perfectly normal to have moments like this.
And admitting to him your feelings is not going to happen. The guy has a wife and kids, and you have the neighbor. He can talk like that to everyone in the entrance, but that doesn't mean anything.
I think distanced yourself from him and spend time with your own family is the best thing you can do. Remember why you love your husband and children. Go out somewhere, cook something together at home. And for the neighbor, remember with a smile and a slight laugh after years when you and your husband sit with the children, and maybe with the grandchildren :)
Good luck, baby!
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ladyystardust answered · June 18, 2020
15 years of unhappy marriage and you're standing with your disgusting husband. Now you're in love with a neighbor and you're ready to leave your husband without even neighbor. I can never understand you women...
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womanebony answered · June 18, 2020
Yes, women very often sit next to these men who do not tolerate
This should make men realize that their self-confidence is how successful they are among women should be quite low because it has nothing to do with reality
Both sexes are even in stupidity
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masterb82porn answered · June 18, 2020
I'm a macho and a dilemma - I like him, but I'm cutting him off, and now I'm in pain because he doesn't shave me anymore?
Why don't you stretch out and see if you're in love or if it just itches ;)
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hardcock333 answered · June 18, 2020
If you jump into this ad, you're in danger of dying of laughter.
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kodolerbolert answered · June 18, 2020
You just don't love your husband, and now you're imagining that you love a neighbor who just greets you.
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voyeurcaliente answered · June 19, 2020
Number four, if I can't have it, I'd better stay away so it's going to pass. But unfortunately, I can't stop seeing him, and what I get from him is not enough for me.
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mrpbodyak71 answered · June 19, 2020
I didn't just understand why you cut him off. Did you get hurt by the man? It's absurd to explain yourself to him in love or to be jealous of his wife, but what prevents you from having a normal good neighbor's relationship. These things with attraction and chemistry are usually mutual, or at least they're interfering with the person on a date. I've had a case like this with a neighbor with whom we had great chemistry and an unstoppable yearning to be together. We didn't let anything happen between us, but to this day we are family friends, we organize breaks and trips together, and you know, this love has grown into a wonderful friendship.
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daisyy69drainss answered · June 19, 2020
Why are you in an unhappy marriage?
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couplesexy16 answered · June 20, 2020
Well, confess to him in love, leave your husband and come on. You don't have the guts, do you? Because he's not going to fight back, the married one, and you don't have anywhere to go. It's pathetic. I want to, but... it is not done by request! As a young child, you're banging on your foot and demanding. Too bad, funny. What does your husband think of his pushaforic false marriage and wife?
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lilac420xx answered · June 20, 2020
The only reason you've been sitting in an "unhappy" marriage for me for 15 years is financial dependence. I mean, you have to be sure if the other guy's going to "accept you" or if you're a capo. It's like the monkey with the twig.
This is not fair and dignified. It's too bad you got to this point, but it's your own fault. If you're not happy, you change things, but with your head up, not like a mouse.
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3_some_sexy answered · June 21, 2020
Number 8, it's been great for you, i'm very pleased. With us, the chemistry felt very strongly from the beginning when they moved into our block. It's something that can't go wrong, I'm sure it's mutual. I just thought that by distancing myself, the thrill might go away, but I think it's even more intensified. And it was wrong to me that he wasn't taking a more decisive step towards me. One of the problems that my husband and I have (apart from the lack of sex) is that he is more closed and does not want us to communicate with other people. There are many things I miss in my family life, but unfortunately I do not have my own home, and my children are still small and there is no way to part with my husband. I think if now, while I'm feeling so lonely and unhappy, we're getting close to them, I'm going to be mean every time I see him hugging her, and I know he can't hug me. I don't know, it's a little weird how a love can transition into a friendship. Maybe after a time when the pain of not being able to have it passes yes, but for me it is still very strong.
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babybooxxxo answered · June 21, 2020
Hahah, you're even jealous of how funny you are. You're going to miss sex, and you're going to fall in love with the garbage man soon. Relax, there's pills. Besides, over time, the chemical bonds from the action of hormones in the brain break down. I'm going to be the good wife, because I'm just not going to go. Hey, you're a scary thing, you're some women, god forbid, pu-pu.
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luii_cam answered · June 21, 2020
Hahahahah genuinely laughed when I read that you miss the time you've congratulated each other... But let's get on with it. First of all, you don't know this man how you're so madly in love with him. I'il tell you how you're in love with the idea of him! If you want this filming and fictional feelings to go away and not score countless dramas that you're out of, find some kind of hobby to distract yourself a little.
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vincentvalor17 answered · June 22, 2020
If this man's happiness torments you, you just don't love him. You like the idea of having a man like him, you envy his wife and his family happiness, and that's not love. It's love to rejoice when a man is happy, not to wonder how to ruin his life to be happy you. If you're sure you're experiencing sexual tension, and he's not doing anything, then he just has something to lose, unlike you. Every person can be attracted to another, the question is what choice he makes. But I can withstand the hunger and pick the juicy steak at home and then enjoy it, I'm glad I didn't spoil my meal.
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mw_26 answered · June 22, 2020
Hi, I've been in this situation for a year and something, it's terrible... I decided not to do anything, he didn't do anything either, it's very complicated, just like you, I'm jealous of his wife, and when I think about it, who I am, I'm just some neighbor..
It's probably not going to work.
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bigrichardcock answered · June 22, 2020
Liking, falling in love with married men has always been there. It's part of life. Married men want to go better than bachelors. Because it's that they're married and life calls them from time to time. I know so many men who have had families for 20 years. even if they've been jet-setd all the time.
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muppajon answered · June 22, 2020
Number 18, even though I'm in an unhappy marriage, I never wished to fall in love with anyone else, especially a married man. I've had and I have suitors, but nothing flickers to them. And with this one, there was some magic happening the minute we first met. Back then, I still didn't know how much suffering such platonic love would bring me. I'd probably suffer even more as such. It's not nice to spoil families. But how can I stop thinking about him, like for two years, it just doesn't get out of my head...
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