Hello! I've been wondering what's going on with my relationship for a while now ! I love him so much and I think he loves me too, but it still happens that we fight over some nonsense and in the end it leads to a very strong scandal ... EXAMPLE FROM YESTERDAY: We work all day in another city and leave at 7 in the morning and we go home at 23-24 hours and of course it follows that I do not walk home. Bearing in mind that we live with my parents, it becomes clear who takes care of everything in us - my mother, because she is currently unemployed. Last night we went home - the table was set, everything was fixed and so on. So far so good, but it all started when we returned to our room, and he was horrified to find that my mother had taken his clothes from the chair to wash them, and inside his case was an important note. And his clothes were indeed to be washed, because they are working (I don't want to justify my mother, but it was). He started shouting at me and insulting me a lot (with insulting words, with which he called me WHEN DROPING, and now when we fight). FOUND THE NOTE IN THE DRY ROOM ON THE SHELF! He even ordered me to forbid my mother, who was at home, not to enter our room while we were gone ... We lived in them and in us, but I never allowed myself to make remarks to his domineering sister, that, for example, he enters the room without knocking, takes my clothes and jewelry, enters and moves my things from the places where I put them, etc. ... WHAT THE MOST IRRITATING IS THAT after all he gets up and goes out and then when he comes back as if nothing happened ... He starts hugging me and caressing me without even saying "I was wrong "I'm glad your mother sent me the clothes." - HE IS NOT THANKFUL AND ENOUGH ... Yes. I know what you will say - find a place to stay ... The problem is that we are both still studying and we take minimal money, which is enough only for gas and some smaller things ... We can't think about accommodation now .. I wonder if we should go to his city to live with his parents and show him what a nasty feeling it is to have to choose between your own parents and relatives and your friend with whom you want to live for the rest of your life. . And what do you think? I wonder if we should go to his city to live with his parents and show him what a nasty feeling it is to have to choose between your own parents and relatives and your friend with whom you want to live for the rest of your life. And what do you think? I wonder if we should go to his city to live with his parents and show him what a nasty feeling it is to have to choose between your own parents and relatives and your friend with whom you want to live for the rest of your life. And what do you think?
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I think you should find at least a little free time and talk about your relationship ...! Explain to him how things are and if he is a decent and exemplary person he will understand you, but if he disappears and threatens you that you will leave him, on the other hand you will at least understand if he cares about you and if so he will do something ...!