Anal Sex

The topic of sex definitely excites a lot of people, including me. I intend to share my impressions in particular for the first time. My friend and I have tried two or three times before (always at his request, I admit I was quite skeptical), but unsuccessfully, you know... "Oh, stop, it hurts... " and he would leave me in peace. Last time was successful, I'd say it wasn't as scary as I thought it was. For starters, we started normal, oral love, then vaginal sex, pause for a cigarette, and I decided quite spontaneously that I wanted to try "from behind", said - done anyway, and anyway I was quite aroused, but he decided that a little more play would not be bad, and it was a sensible decision on his part, lubricant, condom, finger play - one finger, second finger, as he relaxed, and we went to the actual part, just started to penetrate and it hurt me, but it was not so bad actually, it was not as nasty as before, when it hurt me more I asked him to stop for a while, "take a breath" so to speak, relax a kind and then continue again. It was basically, it was my first time there, it's been nearly a year since, but I remember it as if it was yesterday, with the weather it gets better, we practice once a week, for a change. As for advice, I'd say: sex is not for everyone, do not force yourself if you do not want it, and not everyone tolerates it. Necessarily use a condom, there is not a particularly clean place (bacteria ball) and you can catch any disease. If you think you're going to be at least a little more comfortable, you can get an enema. Use lubricant, there is a need since the rectum does not produce its own secretion, unlike the vagina. Before you go to sex, you would be more comfortable if you were previously and relaxed as much as possible, a massage, a nice warm shower would always contribute to relaxing a little, and why not a drink (not to get drunk) but just a few glitches a kind of courage as they say.