Hello! I will quickly share my story in the shortest and clearest possible way. 2 years ago we broke up with anyone I still can't overcome. He broke up with me. I was small, I didn't know what I wanted, I was a child and I was right. Initially, after we broke up, we went out for a few more months, but as a friend. He called me often. At one point we stopped meeting. He found a girlfriend. However, he called me from time to time. There was always something to talk about. We ran into each other once and he offered to take me to us. He asked me what was going on, if there was anything interesting, and I told him it was the same. The next day he called me to ask me the same thing again and I told him to tell me if he wanted to ask me something specific and he asked me who this boy in the photo on Facebook was. I explained to him that I had found a friend. He asked me how I was doing with him and I explained, and he almost told me that he did these things for me. He called me several times a month and suddenly after a while he started calling me less. I decided to call him on his birthday too, but his phone was turned off. He never called me. He wrote to me several times on Facebook for a few months and that was it. For these 2 years since we haven't been together we have kept in touch from time to time. He didn't mention to me that he has a girlfriend, but on Facebook everything is clear. I decided to write to him in December for Christmas and I understood that he would go abroad to study there and I asked him what about your girlfriend and he replied that he would take her with him. He only texted me a few days ago to ask me if he wanted to see me before he left. Can anyone explain to me how hard it is for us to see each other 2 years apart before he leaves? I haven't forgotten him ... I think I love him ... He has a girlfriend and he obviously loves her ... I don't know what to do. I will be happy if you give me opinions on what you think as outsiders. And if we see each other, do you think it makes sense to talk to him about not forgetting him or better to leave things like that. Thanks!
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Let him go. There is no point in telling him anything for the simple reason that he will not stay. It will go away and it will not change anything. You won't make him think. He has already planned his future. And he perceives you as a child. Don't say you love him, etc. Because you're just fooling yourself. Believe me, I was too. You don't love him, he just turned your head with attention and nonsense. That's what most do. He played with you and almost had you as a reserve. It's stupid. Don't believe him. Don't trust any boy. Take it as advice from me. You will probably say to yourself "what is this one here that makes me understand" and you will probably try to justify your "beloved" again. Don't worry, it will pass. Very soon you will begin to remember fragments and you will see for yourself how he manipulated you. You will cool down to it yourself. I know you can handle it. Simply because time helps and erases feelings. Over the years, you will forget what humanity, feelings, emotions and kindness are. Well, of course, it depends on many things. It is relative so do not be afraid. You can stay a good man. :) Come on success. If the meeting is over, tell me what happened. :)