Am I Ugly?

How do we know, man? Can we guess or map? You're the stupid subject and the memes.

To a beautiful girl, no one's going to say she's ugly, and being blonde and blue doesn't mean anything.

People are jealous. You must be very pretty, and that's what he said. You don't have to care what other people think. If you think you're beautiful and smart, you're like that, and the others say whatever state you don't give. Be with a head high

1, come on, it's about a 14-year-old girl. Look, beauty is a very subjective thing, and yet I'm sure you're not ugly. When you get a little bit older and get more confidence in yourself, you'il see how you don't care what he and that guy said. I am far from being an unearthly beauty, but I like the way I look, take care of myself, exercise, eat healthy and have a nice figure, respectively I have the self-esteem of going without makeup, often and in the evenings I go out in jeans and sneakers, when I am not in the mood for dresses and heels without giving me a about how they got drunk and got stuck and what they would say for example. My self-esteem is so much so that even when I've seen a woman much prettier than me, I've said to myself "and yet if I could choose, I'd still look the way I look - like myself." Someone can say it's self-indulgent and arrogant, and again - I don't give a what anyone's going to say. For me, it just means that a person is at peace and in harmony with himself and his body and would not change it for anything else. One day you'il see you're going to get confidence and self-esteem. And that's going to annoy some people, because you're not going to be subject to their petty nagging and commentary. But this kind of people don't deserve a second of your attention, so it won't bother you much. Head up, girl, and good luck!

2, how can a beautiful girl say it's ugly? Beautiful girls are the most plush for their appearance. And it matters, of course, that it's a blond and blue-eyed girl. The poet's dream. You're beautiful and don't pay attention to stupid talk, girl.

People tell the good ugly, precisely to crush their self-esteem and downsit. Just don't put it on your heart, not everyone's going to like you.

You're not ugly, it's just that the person in question is mean, envious and clearly with a low culture of behavior. But in this case, it's because you have to overcome your dependence on random people's opinions and realize that your own self-esteem shouldn't depend on the mementos of others. I mean, you're being taught a lesson you need to learn. You just had to say- about ugly, some pretty, and for me, you're the best and you're the best to laugh! Don't put it on your heart at all, or get depressed by this kind of nonsense. I've been called ugly, it looks like... and a bunch of more nonsense, but I have enough friends and a few guys a day write to me how gentle and beautiful I am. I've had excellent success, too. At first, I was also hurt by such words, until on a wonderful day I realized that they were doing it out of envy, and if they stopped, I would start to wonder what was wrong and look at my appearance. I mean, the haters are gauge of how successful you are. If you don't have haters at all, there's something wrong. Unfortunately, this is our distorted reality and understanding. You'd rather worry if you don't have haters than the other way around.

Beauty is a subjective thing. True, there are some standards, and usually people who do not have the right facial features usually do not fit into the column "beautiful", but also this is relative. There are people with non-standard traits who are very attractive and others with correct ones who are clueless. Usually those who use "ugly" as an insult do it out of envy. When I was 15, there was a group of girls at school who were yelling at me that I was ugly. And I was a hundred times more attractive than them, I don't brag, but that was the truth. And in person and in a body and naturally, the boys paid attention to me. They insulted me out of envy. I will not forget how once during recess I went to the toilet, the door was opened. I pushed her a little bit, and just in time to hear three of them discuss how they envy my hair and butt. You can imagine their jaws hanging when they saw me and found out I heard them. Don't pay attention to such statements. The important thing is that you like yourself. And if there is something you do not like (we all have complexes, relax), know up to 17-18 years the face changes.

The first two comments are under all criticism. So, there are no ugly people for me, everyone is unique in their own right. Find the things you like about yourself and emphasize them more. And as for such rumors, go to the man from whom he came and speaks in a normal tone. He's going to freak out like that, and nothing's going to say anything behind your back! At the end of the day, you're going to meet all sorts of people and opinions, but you don't have to care about them unless they're from really close people who wish you well. :) ~d.

There's going to be at least one jerk for every man who says he's ugly. Usually these are people who are out of order because it's not normal to walk and talk about people like that. When you see someone ugly, do you go tell everyone or him personally that he's ugly? No, right? I know a guy who says Angelina Jolie is ugly. It's crazy. Don't fall for him. You probably look pretty, if you were ugly, you'd know. Ugly people know they're ugly. And the fact that your hair is blonde and your eyes are blue, there's no connection. My advice is to talk to an adult on the subject before you really remember that di ugly. It could be the school psychologist if you're ashamed of others.

Oh, sweet girl! There are many reasons why teenagers would say something like this, and as much as they have to do with the truth, so many of them don't. A boy would say it out of "fear" of "giving up" that he actually likes her... stupid, right? But we from small we pull the hair and irritate the girls we like - we're just like that. Girls say so many things on a superficial level that are just in some conversation without really thinking them, just in the style of what's being talked about - the mask of being like others, being cool and who knows what. We don't know. Maybe whoever told him not to find you attractive. That's okay. Some will like you, some don't - that's life. The goal isn't for everyone to like you... this is the greatest delusion of this generation. You don't have to like everybody. It's enough to like yourself, which I read, and to have at least one person who likes and chooses you over others. It's enough for someone to like you and be beautiful for your special person. I'm sure some guy likes you, probably secretly, but even if you're not- you're 14...There's going to be a lot of them, you'il see. I don't know if anyone liked me at 14 if they liked me :D that's ok. At 16, I found myself with my love. A lot of people don't like the way I look, but my special person liked me, and that was enough for me. Think like that, and it'il be easier for you to get over things like that and not take them so far. Some people say it because they see it hurts you, and at that age you feel "cool" and "strong" when you're nasty. It'il pass. There's nothing wrong with you :)

Well, I was told in the wolf tech! I had angered some people and it was insults, it was a seda binge. I'm cute and I know it for sure, but these insults do little or no more affect self-esteem. It's very likely to annoy them with something about you and therefore to speak these false insults. Keep your head up!

If you don't have any defection, and you look pretty, you're not ugly. Your whole psyche rests on your appearance.

don't pay attention to any people. what matters is how you feel

From the author. I'll try to respond to most comments. 2. You're kind of right. 3. The person who told me this has only seen me once. 5. Thank you very much. I really started looking at life from a different angle. 6. I do not think so, but everyone has a right to an opinion. :D 7. And it's there. 8. I started to think about this person who has only seen me once and it is not for 5 minutes and according to it is really very complex as soon as he has started discussing me. 10. It's good that these girls haven't affected your self-esteem. 11. I can't go to this man because I don't even know his name and I don't even remember his face :D 13. I thought I was pretty. I hope people see me as one. 14. Thank you. I really felt a lot better. I even started not giving him any credit. 15. They were trying to crush you. 16. You are absolutely right and aware of the problem. If I don't feel beautiful, I'm not human and I'm not good for anything. God forbid I get a pimple and the world is collapsing. I dare not look at myself. I'il try not to. 18. It is true. The bad news is, I've only just realized it from completely unknown people. Thank you very much to everyone who joined in. I really feel so much better, I don't even care anymore. Have a good day!!! By the way, my eyes are not blue, but pure green.

So, I'il answer you briefly: you're not ugly! I don't need a picture, I don't need a private meeting with you! That was the answer. Do you know how I know? 1. those who are kept ugly shall become subject to constant harassment. There's no way anyone like that could have been called ugly for the last time in the fifth grade and by the seventh he'd been under the radar. Those who, according to British scientists, have less brains than us (news of these days) do not miss the moment! To the least, they're targeting you and ruining your life. 2. the other clue is that you are seriously considering the possibility of being ugly. Like madness and ugliness, one rule follows: you can tell. The same relationship again: crazy people never ask if they're crazy. They consider themselves normal. So if you're some self-forgotten ugly, you would never and for no reason consider the possibility of being ugly. For such a person such an opportunity does not exist! They're beautiful, and that's it! So live peacefully and feel within your right to pay back the compliment of ugliness when you receive it! Those who give it away are not used to getting back to them, and by the time they know what's going on, their little neurons will catch fire, which will lead to an emergency in the "Mama's Nanny/Prick" TPP, leaving them speechless or maximizing they will say some chat about winning time. It gives you time to raise your head up and pass them like they're a butt on the street. Don't fall to their level, just defend yourself once and let them watch like a calf on a railway! They are the ones who enjoy humiliating others all the time.

There are no ugly people, but different perceptions