Hello. Like most people who write here, I have a problem. I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we were home today. We haven't had sex. We just played a little - no objects, I would even say no fingers, it just touched me. And two or three of the touches were where they shouldn't be. I was slightly moistened and felt one of his fingers on my vagina. But only this nothing else. I don't think it was enough to open me up. But something bothered me. After he left I went to the toilet and noticed some blood on the toilet. paper. She was very small and pale, I would say. It's not time for my menstrual cycle, but I don't want to think I'm no longer a virgin. January came to me twice, but now it's only been a week and it just doesn't make sense. There is no more blood now ... I'm scared! Please don't blame me for what I did. I didn't want anything to happen. And I know and my boyfriend knows I don't want to and I don't have time yet. Give me advice on what to do. If I go to a gynecologist, will they tell me if I'm still a virgin? Tell me, is what I think possible? Help !!!!
1 zul.hasan answered
Don't worry, it didn't happen. First - even during the first sexual intercourse, defloration may not take place immediately, but what about light touches? I think you can look in the mirror first. It is obvious - in a virgin girl the opening is very small / to bleed during menstruation /, it is obvious if there are tears. As for this slight spotting - it happens when ovulation occurs, and as far as I know it can be provoked by very strong arousal. So if there is no more blood, wait and if it reappears or the cycle continues to be very irregular, I think you should go to the doctor. If there is bleeding during ovulation, you should have your period after about 14-15 days. But that wasn't the case with such a young girl either.