A young couple married for 5 months, I M at 26 she at 24. We were expecting a child but we lost it. We went for a long time, we know our numbers as they say, we know each other in detail. Before we got married, we had other outings that we both know about. But she somehow survived it and I didn't. Maybe the baby was the reason we got married or just because I was so used to her that I thought I couldn't do without her. Her last date with someone was shortly before we got together to live together (probably for the same reason I got scared and didn't look after her during sex, I was afraid that she had lost interest in me and that I was losing her). Now lately she is behaving strangely again constantly with the phone and is constantly at home alone because I work very hard I try to have everything and I succeed within the normal range. I work during the day when I'm at work I come home at 21: 00 and I'm tired watching TV and going to bed. The next day I have a second job again, sometimes I take a break because of it and do my marital duty but I don't always want to and I rarely have the mood for that, I know she is a young woman and she wants her own but I just want my job very much. I'm not saying we don't do it, perhaps less often.
She complies with this but in the end talks to me in spite of, constantly! She tries to insult me in some way, I tried to talk to her last night why she treats me like that and we quarreled, I'm not saying that I'm easy, I burn quickly from such things, I shout and break something. I know it's not right and I'm sorry but this feeling of loss reappeared and I love her very much. Our relationship is getting cold and I have to do something. Please really for advice. I accept any criticism! I ask the administrator to share my story because I have no one else to share it with. The next day I have a second job again, sometimes I take a break because of it and do my marital duty but I don't always want to and I rarely have the mood for that, I know she is a young woman and she wants her own but I just want my job very much. I'm not saying we don't do it, perhaps less often. She complies with this but in the end talks to me in spite of, constantly! She tries to insult me in some way, I tried to talk to her last night why she treats me like that and we quarreled, I'm not saying that I'm easy, I burn quickly from such things, I shout and break something. I know it's not right and I'm sorry but this feeling of loss reappeared and I love her very much. Our relationship is getting cold and I have to do something.
Please really for advice. I accept any criticism! I ask the administrator to share my story because I have no one else to share it with. The next day I have a second job again, sometimes I take a break because of it and do my marital duty but I don't always want to and I rarely have the mood for that, I know she is a young woman and she wants her own but I just want my job very much. I'm not saying we don't do it, perhaps less often. She complies with this but in the end talks to me in spite of, constantly! She tries to insult me in some way, I tried to talk to her last night why she treats me like that and we quarreled, I'm not saying that I'm easy, I burn quickly from such things, I shout and break something. I know it's not right and I'm sorry but this feeling of loss reappeared and I love her very much. Our relationship is getting cold and I have to do something. Please really for advice. I accept any criticism! I ask the administrator to share my story because I have no one else to share it with. sometimes I rest because of her and do my marital duty but I don't always want to and I rarely have the mood for that, I know she is a young woman and she wants her own but I just want my job very much. I'm not saying we don't do it, perhaps less often. She complies with this but in the end talks to me in spite of, constantly!
She tries to insult me in some way, I tried to talk to her last night why she treats me like that and we quarreled, I'm not saying that I'm easy, I burn quickly from such things, I shout and break something. I know it's not right and I'm sorry but this feeling of loss reappeared and I love her very much. Our relationship is getting cold and I have to do something. Please really for advice. I accept any criticism! I ask the administrator to share my story because I have no one else to share it with. sometimes I rest because of her and do my marital duty but I don't always want to and I rarely have the mood for that, I know she is a young woman and she wants her own but I just want my job very much. I'm not saying we don't do it, perhaps less often. She complies with this but in the end talks to me in spite of, constantly! She tries to insult me in some way, I tried to talk to her last night why she treats me like that and we quarreled, I'm not saying that I'm easy, I burn quickly from such things, I shout and break something. I know it's not right and I'm sorry but this feeling of loss reappeared and I love her very much. Our relationship is getting cold and I have to do something. Please really for advice. I accept any criticism! I ask the administrator to share my story because I have no one else to share it with.
1 mimichakraborty answered
Doesn't it work? If she works hard, she won't have time to run. Otherwise, a person who cheats on you neither loves you nor respects you. You're holding on to a straw drowning man. Don't blame yourself. She does it because it's rubbish, not because you caused it. If he wants attention, don't work so hard. If it works, you won't need a second job.