Hello dear people. 19-year-old girl I am. I have a relationship with a boy of 3 and a half years. In the beginning it was all a fairy tale, until he took off his mask and started to stop me from going out, to see friends, he started to be jealous of me to the point of illness. He only calls me on the phone on video to see where I am and if he has anyone with me. We fight quite often, about half a year ago it happened to touch me .. Of course, as soon as I stayed, we have good moments .. My problem is that this is not the first time I really happen to meet someone else who is superior to my boyfriend in his relationship with me. Every time we start as friends and everything is great, they put me in a situation where I can't contact them in any way by phone, etc. (Just to note, that my boyfriend is the first person with whom I had an intimate relationship and I did not cheat on him). Soon, along with my work, I once again met someone who was still a friendship, but very quickly he liked me and wanted us to be something more. A very smart person and shook my psyche for 5 minutes, telling me I am happy in my relationship and all sorts of things that no one directly questioned me in this way. It doesn't matter anymore, I once again refused to give up my relationship and again my relationship with another amazing person is broken .. At the moment I am very dumb and I feel terrible, but I didn't think about it before .. I I thought to myself what would happen to another person who would take me for a fool and ruin his relationship with me, but no .. I really feel terrible and I miss this person's good relationship with me. It's my fault of course .. I just wanted to share the feelings I feel and the regret for my own actions. I am angry that this person either wants me next to him or does not want me at all, but on the other hand it is my fault. I'm used to my boyfriend and that's .. over time we have seen so much from each other and now we can not do without each other, although his behavior often crosses all boundaries .. Please at least give your opinion, give me a mind what to do .. I do not want to be in a bad relationship with anyone because I have failed enough relationships. Thank you for your time. over time we have seen so much from each other and now we can not do without each other, although his behavior often crosses all boundaries .. Please at least express your opinion, give me a reason what to do .. I do not want to be in a bad relationship with no one because I've failed enough relationships. Thank you for your time. over time we have seen so much from each other and now we can not do without each other, although his behavior often crosses all boundaries .. Please at least express your opinion, give me a reason what to do .. I do not want to be in a bad relationship with no one because I've failed enough relationships. Thank you for your time.
1 xxmaddiex answered
Well, in the beginning it's always a fairy tale. You are naive for lack of experience. Your friend is too jealous, and this is a disease. That's reason enough to leave him, let alone hit you. In the future it will only harass you, I am convinced that the violence will not be the first and last time.