Everyone with their dreams! Are you guilty, no you are not. I'm the opposite of you, I've always dreamed of having a license and my own car. And I achieved it a little over a year ago. I tore my ass off work, paid for my book, and then bought a car with my own money, not from Dad and Mom. I support her completely on my own. I come from a relatively poor family and I learned early on when I need money to make money on my own. And to be super proud of what I have achieved, because I can boast that I have realized one of my dreams. And yes, on Facebook you will find more pictures of my car (although it is the most common Honda, not a Golf or BMW) than mine, and if you meet me on the street you will probably hate me because I am 23 years old and only brag about my car - the only entirely material thing I own. Behind a seemingly ordinary car hides a dream, desire, a lot of work and perseverance. However, not everyone has such interests, for example, if you don't like cars, there must be other things that attract you more, work on them and try to achieve them. Then you will feel the thrill. And you're right, I hate people who crack with cars bought for them by their parents, but I don't take it to heart.
achievements in his life are measured by the car.
BenVe 316, Angel Ice, my brother.
And in the smaller settlements it is even worse, because there the time has stopped and there is a development tending to zero.
Well, that's why they tell you so. He Ganyo knows nothing else.
That's why it has the expression "he drives a car," because in most cases it's not his, but his father's.
I have a book and a car. I have a nice tidy home. It was my dream. But I have no friends, no family, no social environment. Mentally and physically I can barely move. I would prefer to lose my book and car forever, just to be in good mental health, to have a family that appreciates me, and a decent job. This is the most important thing in a person's life. The material is nothing. I hope I have calmed you down.
I don't think you have to look for guilt or responsibility. Just understand that her people will look for anything, just to tell you that you are "worse" than them. And they will be happy to have been above someone. He has gathered everything negative in himself and even the most ardent peasant simpleton will find something to be disgusted with and say to himself - "Well, I'm not at least like that ... unlike other people".
People feed their egos. They often do it at someone else's expense and don't care that they hurt someone's feelings, they are even ready to argue that it is not a problem, but if their ego is affected you can witness outright brutalism.
So - do not be angry. Yeah, they're like that.
The worst thing is to feel guilty. Do not!
To have or not to have a booklet should be your choice, not pressure from the environment and culture.
I am a man, once I was torn to pieces and 4 times to drive. I probably even took the course for more than 6 months, because I obviously didn't do anything.
After a while I bought a carriage with which I crashed twice.
Everyone who drove with me told me in the best of intentions that I was just not good at driving. The last accident was severe and the car went for scrap.
After all, I've been living in a big western city for a long time, where you don't need a car. We all ride the subway, train or bike, because it is cheaper.
Whoever scolds him, scolds. Who wants to make money with this and become a professional driver, let it happen. But I don't understand that with the pictures of the cars either. Especially this fashion with the old BMWs.
I don't see the point in buying a car for 50K bucks, and still living in some old panel with your parents, full of grief.
I completely understand you. I have a license and occasionally drive my father's car, but I'm generally not into car. At the same time, every second person in the city has bought a twenty-year-old BMW and is either filming it or playing it while listening to the radio ...
You step very uncertainly. And I haven't had a car in years, I won't have one. I like to watch my bank account grow, not stare at how much my fuel costs. And those who have the car as a goal, let them take care.
To №1
I, for people like you, do not say anything, well done to you, you worked hard to get it, and this is your passion. However, I have seen people's attitudes change because of a car. You have a car, but you are certainly not trying to take it down, to humiliate it, to insult someone, are you?
Can't you take a picture next to a bar jeep and show it as yours, if that's your grief?
Nobody makes you be an active driver. In the small town it is ok by bike. But it's good to have a book, it's a part of life and it's a convenience, not a parade with a 25-year-old BMW with a cost of 15 percent.
I'm like you too, author! I'm 36 now, but I'll hardly ever need a car! There are trains, city buses and trolleys, and I can't imagine if I travel to Sofia or a nearby city, to break from riding for hours! What if I fall asleep - the compartment on the train is there - I'm buying a ticket and I don't care about anything else, I can go out in the hallway, take pictures outside, play music, talk to people while the car can't provide you these so precious moments - you become a robot that has to constantly monitor the signs, who is behind, especially in bad weather to be very careful with the speed - well, I can't do all this, so I don't have a book! In a word, I prefer someone else to drive me, I'm paying! This is my maxim and I follow it, and who does not want - his job! I'm not on the principle - if the neighbor has a car, come on, like him - I do not look in someone else's bowl!
become my wife, I will set aside money to pay for your courses, then you will have a car. I'm 22, I don't drink or smoke, I don't take drugs, I don't gamble. And no, you're not guilty, don't blame yourself.
To number 10, humiliating people is not inherent in me at all! And I'm not one to take my car just because I have to. I travel with her every day for work, and on weekends I go to other cities. Now this year I plan to apply for a university degree in another city, far away from mine and the car will be just a convenience for me to be able to walk and go home whenever I want. However, I understand that people who do not need a car, are not attracted to them and that's it. We live in a modern world, enjoy a bus, train or even a taxi if you want to go somewhere without sitting behind the wheel and work. For me, driving is not a burden, on the contrary, I sit behind the wheel and break away from the problems and everyday life, I drive carefully, I am not one of those who look to immediately learn how to make their first drift with the first car or serve at intersections as soon as the first snow falls. I do not intend to offend anyone and I do not humiliate people who do not have a car and do not want to. I'm the only one of my friends with a car, so;) That's why they use me as a taxi, but that's another topic.
I think you have some complexes? What if you don't have it is entirely your decision when you want you will have when you don't want no. What does the city matter? My cousin took his course and drove without a problem, he took it from the first time, now he is an active driver there, we live in a small town, I am from a small town, I had a great desire to get a license and I did it, but that's it my choice.
I think you should have a book. In our century, the car is a convenience, a time saver, a way to make a living even. It is not a fucker, but a simple need.
I'm also a girl and to be honest, it's not worth having a book so much. I drove 2 years ago and since then I haven't waited behind the wheel. Ours don't have a car and I just don't have anything to drive. They asked me if I wanted to buy a car, but I couldn't get them to buy me something like that. Separately, the driving course can bring you a lot of stress if you are not good at driving. In the small town it is, those who are usually "drivers" with Dad's cars are full of crap. This type of intellectually retarded individuals are also large complexes and have nothing else to boast about, they often make fun of you for not having a car.
You better not take a booklet, but invest this money in something more useful such as education, a course or whatever is on your heart
The distances are small. It's good for me to walk.
If you are in the United States without a car, there is no way to live.
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