Hello, my story started 10 years ago. Then I met my wife and we lived together with my parents. After 2 years I separated because at home I could not stand the scandals between my parents who were separating at that time. My wife went to another man, but by coincidence, after 3 months we met again, we went to live with my grandmother and to avoid our scandals. Not long after she became pregnant, a wonderful son was born to us, things went well for about 3 years. We bought a house, moved, I started repairing it. I had to buy a lot of things and I got a lot of loans. Over time, I worked on the house at work wondering how to repay loans and provide everything needed for the family. So we gradually became estranged, we almost stopped having sex. The mood in the house became heavy. She didn't give me what I wanted and you did it. And so, until three months ago, when she changed, I noticed that she was texting other men and then she started dating them. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful.
1 xavierhenry answered
It sounds stupid, but you decide. You are not married and technically do not owe you fidelity by law, but you are together on a family basis and flirting with other men for many people are mutually exclusive in this situation. You can stomp your foot and say that you will not tolerate cheating on you while you are together, which I think most people choose. You may resign yourself, but this is very conditional and honestly I don't see it leading to anything that involves both of you but your child. I don't think he's doing the right thing on his own, as well as you and your son. I don't think it's about your family, and I definitely think it's infidelity. I would not agree and I do not think that this with the proposal and the ring is a good solution at all, much less as a solution to the problem, it will even aggravate it with legal problems and breached obligations. I can't tell you what to do with the big picture of the problem, because I don't feel what you are and I'm not in the situation you are in, but about her infidelities, I definitely don't agree with her and I don't think you should either. to be. USA