Hi, I'll try to write my story as soon as possible. It all started two years ago when I started dating my current boyfriend. In general, our relationship started strangely, because he had a girlfriend too and I had a friend that I didn't already love and things had ended long before that.... anyway... I'm crazy about my boyfriend, I love it, in general, I've never felt such love. And that's what makes me think all kinds of nonsense that don't really have soil, and I know it, but I can't realize it. I'm very jealous of him, for everything, sometimes with malice, I start arguing with him like, "why did you look at this one" or, "why do you still keep this one in friends after we've been fighting over her " or why you still keep your ex's mother in Facebook friends" things that are probably wrong, but it's getting me off balance... I've put my whole life in it, I love him so much, I can't imagine anything more with anyone ever. It fills everything in my life, it always makes me smile, but this desolate jealousy is going to drive me crazy. Separately I have complexes a lot, I do not know why, since I was a little girl. And I always feel like I'm not good enough for him, that he's going to find a better one, and you know, today it's very hard to keep your relationship and your family, and I'm one of those people who thinks a lot about the future, and those thoughts get in the way, I keep thinking about the worst thing that prevents me from enjoying my relationship because I'm constantly fighting with him about what I think of and things went by... I need a lot of advice, and I ask you to give me some - about my jealousy, about what to do so I don't push him away, how to stop thinking nonsense about his ex for example ( because they've been together for 3 years and I feel like the first love is not forgotten and I'm afraid of having no hidden feelings for her ) and general advice related to love, even if it's something like how to step away from a little because I'm sick of love.
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hairysteve9 answered · June 03, 2020
You're pure Haho...
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raztomas answered · June 03, 2020
Relax, I was like that. I even made a fake profile of his ex and texted him from him. After the second year, it's over, at least that's what happened to me.
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emily_noelle answered · June 03, 2020
You answer your own questions: you don't feel good enough about it. I mean, lack of self-esteem. I advise you to visit a psychologist, a specialist will best guide you and tell you who is the source of your insecurities, complexes, etc. and develop a way to overcome these traits of your character. Do it mostly for yourself.
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hayley_d answered · June 03, 2020
A man with jealousy doesn't behave. instead of putting "everything" into your relationship and betting on it like you're an emotional drowning... focus on your character and talk to a psychologist (but make sure he's good). You see some of the reasons for it, or you only expose those you think people should read here. But to be jealous that someone has relationships or contacts with people from the past is immature. Start loving yourself more. Jealousy and a sense of ownership (emotional and physical to your partner) is not love.... it's some unhealthy ego (at least that's how I see it from a man's point of view). It's not that men don't look at other women... he can't help but watch if he's not looking, he's not a man.... it's important where he comes home (and if he's going to hide for one of them. if he's a dude in place he's got a brain and he won't). But again, I emphasize with such pettiness, you can only push a person away from yourself. I'm not saying now (make threesomes, etc.) become a "wide-eyed relationship"... just take measures for yourself... Give yourself first (spiritual health) and then to the other love
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yourpussyloverboy answered · June 03, 2020
My advice to you is to work on your low self-esteem and complexes, because that's where all the problems come from. Get on some sport, say more, get a nice manicure. And know that if your friend chose you, then others don't care! He wants you, and from those ugly scenes you're making for him, it doesn't make any sense to push him away!
G.25 years
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lunaxx8 answered · June 03, 2020
I'm the ator of the post. Thank you some of you to others will just say that it is not right with this rude tone to write , the hacks are the ones who say it. I really need help and advice not from a hat-tipping - we can all judge - but it's not right. I'd be happy if anyone said if they were in a similar situation how they did it.
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nicknamertom answered · June 04, 2020
And as you do, you think about how and what he did to the previous ones, that's what drives you crazy, and there's no such pain that eats you up and destroys you from the inside. There's no fix...