Am I A Pedophile?

   Anyone who experiences sexual attraction to persons under the age of 14 by definition and by law is a pedophile. read art. 149 next in the Penal Code. You have pedophile tendencies, but you are not a criminal yet. It is not forbidden to have certain tendencies, but to experience pedophile tendencies. We live in the 21st century, in which we have very great sexual freedoms - in fact, even things like zoophilia, incest are not explicitly allowed, but there is no punishment for them. However, two sexual inclinations are absolutely forbidden - violence without the consent of the partner and sexual intercourse with persons under the age of 14. Pedophilia has been, is and will be. There have been pedophiles since antiquity and you will not disappear. My advice is not to be ashamed, but to seek professional help. If you do not experience your inclination, you are not harming anyone. He fights and redirects his sexual interests to girls and women over the age of 16, although by law over the age of 14 it would be OK. Do not experience your inclinations and there is no problem. Children are protected! Do not try to seduce people's children and do not consume pedophile porn, but actively fight with the help of a psychologist.

   It is not pedophilia, but hebephilia. It is very common even in some societies for example Japan is absolutely normal. I'm 32 and women over 25 rarely attract me, and most often between 15 and 20. Sometimes 12. But I slept with under 18 only when I was little. But I watch mostly teen porn. Just over 25 can't step on the little finger of teens. They are so tender and fresh.

   The body may be for sex, but this is a child. He is not a person yet, he does not think fully, he needs protection and control ... do not deal with children. Sex and the body are only one side of man. And the other is a child. Go for professional help. And he found a woman who had grown up. Because this means that you yourself have not grown and developed to some extent. There is a kind of infantilism in pedophiles themselves.

   In principle, you are a pedophile, more precisely with pedophile tendencies. As long as you don't have sex with children, you don't watch or distribute child porn outside the law. It's a good idea to get help from a psychologist, but I doubt you'll be scared. It's one thing to like an innocent child, it's another to have sex with him. As they correctly wrote above, a child may have a physique suitable for sex, but he is vulnerable, not socially mature and you as an adult are responsible for it. And I don't talk about sex with 0- and older children.

   I don't know if you know, but we are 2017, a year in which 12-14 year olds have long been neither innocent nor fine. I'm 20 and I look 15, and imagine a "girl" as you call them. It is not normal, it is a psychological defect that needs to be fixed as soon as possible. And I've read perverted stories of how a mother and son do with ... with or father and daughter, but it's beyond any norms of normalcy, like your condition. If you fantasize, but you don't really look at such girls, I don't think it's fatal, because everyone fantasizes about different things without even wanting it in reality.

   Personally, I have never liked girls because they are underdeveloped and look dumb, but I understand what you are saying. Women should be gentle in principle, but nowadays they have mutated most of them and they hate men, even more ugly, absolute horses (in my opinion). That's why you look at smaller ones because they haven't mutated yet. They have larger feet than a man, wide backs and arms. Wide snouts and no breasts or hips. Where is this world going? What happened to the women.

   You are not a pedophile. In some nations, girls aged 12-13 give birth, which means that there was someone to have sex with them. In some people, at the age of 8, they marry and at the age of 9-10 they consume marriage. This is normal. You are NOT a pedophile. By law, if you have sex with a girl under the age of 14, you are a pedophile, whether she agrees or not. However, I don't think you will get there. Your problem, most likely (judging by the way you write), is that you are depressed and filming. I'm talking from experience - I'm 29, without a girlfriend, and I've been through all sorts of movies - at one time I spent 2 years thinking I was gay. Then I thought I was a pedophile. Then I thought I was a gay pedophile. Then I thought that even though I'm not a gay pedophile, I actually am, but I don't admit it to myself. And so on. And in reality I am heterosexual with a normal age orientation and the boyfriends I had were at the right age (up to 3-4 years younger than me). I have had all sorts of obsessions of this nature. In the periods of my life when I had a boyfriend, I did not have such movies and depressions. So these things happen from depression and filming. Get a boyfriend and depression will disappear (this also applies to me, of course).

   I can't believe what kind of people are commenting here. Are you okay ??????? How can you encourage it to be normal. At 12 -14 years old they are still children, how can you even think that ???? I turn away from people like you, seriously ...

   Dude, I don't know if you're a pedophile by law or not, but there's definitely something wrong with you ... 12-14 year old girls were very "fresh" ... Are you just looking for them to look at and fuck them? Something like an emotional connection, a partnership, aren't you looking for in your contacts with women? And what will you talk about, what will you share with such a student? For her latest nonsense at school? Who rolled the bag for whom and how did they fuck the teacher, and who kicked her out? You're wrong, honestly. To me, a girl under 18 seems like an absolute boy, and under 16 not to mention ... I can't find a topic to talk to at all. Not to mention some sexual experience with such children, or a full experience of sex / orgasm. You give it away very superficially ... maybe you kill some complexes or psycho-traumas, you are looking for underdeveloped partners so that they do not immediately see how bad you really are ... What "freshness" are you really talking about? A well-maintained woman up to 35, that even up to 40-45 she is extra, before she starts to smell and sbabichkyosva .. What are you talking about anyway? Will the 12-year-old girl enchant you with intellect, with life experience, with social status, with professional development ... think about these issues ...

   This is especially disgusting for me! I understand that you are attracted to 18-19 year olds because they are fine and young, but to be attracted to 14 year olds is perverted! You have problems in your personal life, you watch a lot of porn and you have perverted your consciousness. Even if you watch gay porn, you are very likely to become gay. This porn changes the psyche a lot. If you really want to get better, it won't happen by sitting inside you, watching porn and masturbating in front of the monitor. Start developing personally, work on your ego, sexual desires should not take over in your life and control you.

   I also sometimes have thoughts of having sex with mothers and minors, I also have thoughts of committing suicide, killing someone, stealing. The point is not the thoughts and desires to control you, but you to control them.

   Experts are still debating whether hebephilia (attraction to 11-14 year olds) is a pathology or not. There is enough material on the net, mostly in English. At least you can read Wikipedia. Pedophilia is an attraction to under 11s, so it's not pedophilia. Otherwise, pedophilia is a pathology everywhere, but hebephilia is debatable. If she is 14 years old, the author has the right to sleep with her with her consent. However, I do not recommend it, because then, if it is thrown away, it is not necessary by law to prove violence, but it is enough to prove that there was sexual intercourse or even fornication, which is relatively easy to prove even with witnesses. I recommend him to sleep with at least 16 years old, because then violence must be proven. And it is impossible to convict him of pedophilia. And that with the psychologist I don't know what will help him, as psychologists themselves are not yet aware of whether this is a pathology at all. Even if it is, there is no way to change it, it is just an attraction. Can a psychologist make someone who is 50 years old fall in love with a 30-year-old? This is nonsense. I don't know what you're accusing him of, since it's an attraction and no one chooses what they're attracted to. It's like blaming a gay man for being attracted to men. Well, the author didn't say to himself "come on, I'll be attracted to teens now, damn it". Either it pulls you or it doesn't. For some it may be immoral, but no one chooses what to attract to blame. I guess he feels guilty enough. However, he did not say that he intended to sleep with one. There is a huge difference between attraction and sex. So when it comes to, for example, there are women who fantasize about being raped, but that doesn't mean they really want to rape them. Human sexuality is quite complex, uncontrollable and mysterious. Even Freud did not understand the whole point, and you go to attack him, as if he himself decided to be a hebephile. Author, don't let commenters blame you, nor do you feel abnormal. As long as you obey the law, everything is fine. Nowhere in the law does it say that you cannot be attracted to minors. He writes, just not to watch, make and distribute porn with minors, as well as not to sleep and fornicate with under 14 years of age (for recommendation and 14-16, I explained above). Everything else is allowed and therefore moral. None of the commenters here are above the law. and you go to attack him, as if he himself had decided to be a hebephile. Author, don't let commenters blame you, nor do you feel abnormal. As long as you obey the law, everything is fine. Nowhere in the law does it say that you cannot be attracted to minors. He writes, just not to watch, make and distribute porn with minors, as well as not to sleep and commit fornication with under 14 years of age (for recommendation and 14-16, I explained above). Everything else is allowed and therefore moral. None of the commenters here are above the law. and you go to attack him, as if he himself had decided to be a hebephile. Author, don't let commenters blame you, nor do you feel abnormal. As long as you obey the law, everything is fine. Nowhere in the law does it say that you cannot be attracted to minors. He writes, just not to watch, make and distribute porn with minors, as well as not to sleep and fornicate with under 14 years of age (for recommendation and 14-16, I explained above). Everything else is allowed and therefore moral. None of the commenters here are above the law. as well as not to sleep and fornicate with under 14 years (for recommendation and 14-16, I explained above). Everything else is allowed and therefore moral. None of the commenters here are above the law. as well as not to sleep and fornicate with under 14 years (for recommendation and 14-16, I explained above). Everything else is allowed and therefore moral. None of the commenters here are above the law.

   7 - Dude, stop looking for a girlfriend from the national wrestling team.

   You have such an inclination, but maybe you just like lighter physique. Small, thin women with small tight breasts and small buttocks. Do you have to be 13 to like her or will you also like a 25-year-old who is 1.58 tall and weighs 44kg, for example? You haven't crossed any boundaries yet, but don't play with fire and don't scare children, don't do anything by force. At least he switched to a small 18-year-old.

   BY THE AUTHOR: Thank you all for the comments so far! After reading them, I even felt ashamed and a little embarrassed by my confession. I liked the comments of №2 the most, but also everyone else. Who wants to comment. You will be very useful to me and in this way you will help me! Once again thank you!

   Yes, definitely. Take matters into your own hands, otherwise we will read you in the crime chronicles. 11-12-13-14 year olds ARE CHILDREN.

   You see, this is not about what is normal, it is about what is immoral. No, in the sense of "how can you like children !!", but in the sense that they are vulnerable. Let's not forget that if you like a 12-year-old girl who looks like an aunt, it's one thing, but there are also abuses of babies. And very often, in order to cover up these abuses, murders follow, and they are committed in the most cruel way for the victim. Or the bullying continues for years, including fighting, starvation and drugs. There are also abducted children who have been held captive in a basement for years. Pedophiles are not only people who like small children, but also people with large mental, physical, moral deficits, who do not assess the child as a vulnerable human being, but only as a sex fetish. Not only that, but they can't control their urge. Those who think that it's okay-if this is your daughter or sister, will you still have the same position? There are children who voluntarily go to bed with fathers and uncles, and in large numbers, but this does not mean that it is right for a mature individual to take advantage. That's why we are human

   He disappointed me with his liking at 2. Of all the comments, you liked what exonerated your inclinations. If you want to be equal to the Japanese, for example, they have rooms for masturbating over comics in supermarkets. Should pedophilia be present in poor fallen societies or in so-called white rubbish, should we do like them? I know about cannibalistic societies, how about we eat you on stew? It is said that human flesh was very tasty. Author, it is not a matter of being ashamed, but of not crossing the line for moral reasons. As you were told above, you can find young partners with emaciated and underdeveloped bodies and still be satisfied with sex. Or do you want a child to dominate him because the opposite is true in your life?

   Author, you are not a pedophile. I had once heard from someone that Vazov had fallen in love with a 14-year-old schoolgirl. Well, he didn't have sex with her, but she was attracted to him, and that attraction was sexual. What then about today's sexually unbridled generation. Whether it's legal or not, girls do it when they want to, often out of curiosity. I also like young girls, but not under 14. I am a little older than you, but when I was not yet 30 I had sex with a girl exactly 14 and a half and it was really beautiful, sweet, fresh and innocent. You can't compare the freshness of the young man with a 30-year-old woman betrayed by who knows how many men and all in heavy make-up, which suffocates you just by looking at her. I would still do it with a 14-year-old as long as they roll me, but this is unlikely to happen anymore. As long as you roll these sweets, but don't go under 14 years old.

   N. 4 you say that 12-14 year olds did not think fully, but many women and 18 do not think fully, and why should we not have sex! There are women in their 30s who still do not think fully. I'm confused, I don't know what to think.

   N. 12 I'm sure you're a woman. That's why sex at 14 is disgusting to you and you find it perverted. And can you tell us how old they opened you or are you still a virgin. You sound like a great moralist to me, but is that so!

   Well, yes, you're a pedophile. The fact that in some stupid laws it was written that from 0 to 13 years the child was a child, and from the first second, when he turned 14, somehow SUDDENLY, MAGICALLY turned into an adult, is complete nonsense. The child cannot grow up suddenly on a body weight like an adult, neither in mind, nor in height, nor in reasoning, nor in skills to work, to drive, to make money, to pay his bills only, to take care of himself. only, nothing. His body is still small, underdeveloped, vulnerable, fragile and NOT suitable for sex !!! Do you have any idea if you rape a 10-11 year old girl and make her pregnant, what will happen? !! Her body will not be physically able to carry this baby, because the necessary muscles for this, the necessary organs, etc. have not been formed. There will be some internal bleeding, rupture or something else. Can you live with that? In short, the documents do NOT change the child's physical or mental data, but only legalize them legally, giving pedophiles a way to take advantage of this loophole in the law and unleash the sexual anger caused by their inability to seduce women their age. on little, innocent girls. Good luck, and try to control yourself.

   From 12 to Number 24, where did he assume I was a woman .. I am a man and at the age of 25 I think this is perverted, let alone at the age of 34 to think of a 14-year-old. I can't believe that so many people support this psychic .. Apparently there are many like him .. 14-year-olds have sex, but not with 34-year-olds ... I can barely restrain myself from using offensive words, but they won't publish them comments .. If I see such a man on the street looking and stocking a 12-year-old girl, I will honestly cut him ..

   Someone was talking about how sweet 14-year-olds were, and 30-year-olds were overturned, etc. Are all men Michelangelo's David? And I don't like old checkers, bald, with bellies and leaks. Calm down, many of you will become just that and pee your shoes. It's not just women who are old and depreciated.

   Come on, all the great saviors are out! Sex with 12-14 year old girls was a crime. And have you noticed how developed today's 12-14 year old girls are? Most have a well-shaped bust and their bodies are also sculpted. I'm a girl of 21, but I can tell you that at 13 I looked the same as I do now. It is normal for him to be attracted to such girls. And do most girls know how old they were when they lost their virginity? This happens en masse at the age of 12-13-14! And guess who they do it with for the first time - with batkovtsi from 25 years onwards, because if you don't know, girls develop faster than boys and they are not interested in those their age. And shouldn't 12-14 year olds be saints when they run into big Batkovs? !!

   Now I have lived to read this too! And supposedly the Dark Internet is the Mecca of sick brains - pedophiles, cannibals and others. Apparently, this internet has started to look like the Dark One - go there, it is clear that you have a sick brain, you know English, you download TOR and act. You will surely find your peers there!

   H 28, by your logic, 8-year-olds are also developed. We have a CRIMINAL CODE, which very precisely and clearly in Articles 149 et seq. Puts under CRIMINAL liability all sexual acts with persons under 14 years of age - even a kiss and so on. physically. A natural person can be developed at the age of 10, ACCORDING TO YOU - we can give him an ID card, come of age and go to work in the factories.

   From 28 to 30 Nowhere did I write that 8 or 10 year olds are developed in my opinion! I have emphasized very precisely and clearly that we are talking about 12-13-14 year olds! And sex with girls of that age can be a crime under the Penal Code, but if it's not rape and the girls do it voluntarily, I don't see what the problem is. Once they do it of their own free will, no one will know they are that old, and no one will come to arrest him for rape. I personally had sex for the first time at the age of 14 with my friend who was 34 and before you accuse me of being a whore, in my defense I will say that we are still together.

   When I was 10 years old, he and I fell in love with a 9-year-old girl, but apart from hugging, kissing on the cheeks and walking everywhere together, it didn't seem to have occurred to us to do anything else.

   FROM THE AUTHOR: I will add that I have a higher education which I finished at 25. And now at 34 I have enrolled in a second higher education. But I really feel attracted to 12-14 year olds. Think about the comment on number 28, there is something true in it and comment !! What's stopping me from being attracted to little teenage girls and liking them without sexually assaulting them! It has even happened that when I walk down the street I look and turn after them. I have to find a girl who is close to mine because I want to be normal. Apparently I like your story and you are "CRAZY" about 2000 readings and over 30 comments in just two days. This makes me happy. By the way, this is my first writing and sharing a story on this site! Thank you again for the comments! Keep commenting, please !!!

   28/35 You will become a mother one day. Maybe a daughter. I hope you remember when a thirty-four-year-old leaves after your thirteen, fourteen-year-old girl, what you said and did to them. I also wish "your beloved uncle" to be the father of this girl.

   38, I'm not 28, but why should you attack the girl? Is this a tradition on this site - to be criticized by default? That you want different things? One cannot express one's opinion, and immediately various moralists begin to wave a finger. The girl is happy and they have been with the man for so many years, what do you care what she does in her personal life? That you went to hold the seed of her unborn daughter. I really started to like moralists here. Okay, okay, but that's it. And with all your impudence, you change the words that she was talking about 8-year-olds. Come on, stop for a second. If you are happy, what does it matter to you who sleeps with whom after the law is obeyed? If you're not, don't make it to people. To comment and express an opinion is one thing, but to interfere in the private lives of others, to read morals to them and to wave a finger with various wishes already crosses all boundaries. I'm sorry that I attacked you like that, but you have already become too much on this site, not looking at their pitcher, but always waving a finger at others, as if they are holy water not drunk. Everyone has a head on their shoulders, makes their decisions and takes responsibility. You have no right to interfere in anyone's decisions, but you are not responsible for them, and you have gone as far as you want. With that wish, he really fell quite low. As what will you take into account for her future children? If you think that the only 14-year-old had an affair with her father, you are deeply mistaken. "when a thirty-four-year-old leaves after thirteen, your fourteen-year-old girl" And she said she was 14, not 13. Explain to you that she said 14, not 8,

   I'm 30, and there are various 14-year-olds who are twice as big as me, have make-up on and must have slept with more. So rethink your perceptions of "tender" and "innocent" and whether they are related to age today.

   Well, people, I'm addressing men more precisely - if your daughter, sister, and your mother at the time, went to bed on 10-11-12-13, because she was developed, is that OK for you? We've become a lot of big lately - a little marijuana, a little prostitution, a little theft, a little lying, a little someone killed - eee, but that's nothing! Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. Everyone can have all kinds of sexual fantasies, many people do not strive at all and strive to realize them, even if they have the opportunity. But when we get to the real thing, it's another matter.

   43, what kind of question? Mother if you went to bed on time. Well, what can I tell her - you slept with someone like that 40 years ago, huh? Quickly report it here and why you didn't ask me. Me, more seriously. What am I to hold someone accountable? And my daughter. Can I go after her 24 hours a day and watch her do what she does? As a young man, when I slept with 15-year-olds, didn't they ask their fathers? Or did I ask my mother if she was old enough and if I could sleep with her now? If my daughter is not 14 years old and sleeps with this and that, I will just report to the police, but if she is already legally, she can at least decide that. Not that I will enjoy sleeping with different people, but how can I forbid her. If you have a friend, I don't see a problem at all. You probably didn't fall in love at 14-15 and you didn't push at least. And that's enough 10-11-12-13. I and several other people have already specified 10 times that we agree for under 14 years old and we are only talking about over 14 year olds. It has already become annoying with this 8 year old, 10 year old. And no one has talked about thefts and lies here, I don't see what the connection is. Nor have I heard anyone on the site tolerate theft and lies. As long as you have already exaggerated. And which of the commenters here talked about murder at all? I know you're trying to demonize it and equate it with theft, fraud, scams, murder, but it's not quite what you think. By the way, a university lecturer told me that Vazov died of a heart attack, which he had during sex with one of his students at 14. Keep in mind that the then 14-year-olds must have been like the current 10-year-olds. Nowadays there are mutants at 12, which I was staring at when I realized they were 12,

   38 to 40 Don't worry so much, you are mistaken, comment number 38 is my only one on this topic, look at the hash, please. And since the relationship between a fourteen-year-old and a thirty-four-year-old doesn't bother you, but you think it's ok, why do you take my comment as an oath or some terrible tragedy? Besides, as a twenty-one-year-old commentator, I didn't wish for anything, my wish was for her forty-one-year-old husband. Regarding the dispute over the age of the girls - I have not at least lowered the years at my whim. I read this - I wrote this. I quote a passage from comment 28 to 30: "I have very clearly and precisely emphasized that it is about 12-13-14 year olds! And sex with girls of that age can be a crime under the Penal Code, but if it is not rape and girls they do it voluntarily, I don't see what the problem is! "- end of quotation. G. 46

   From 28 To 40-Thanks for the support To 38-And my parents at the beginning when they found out about the relationship with my friend were shocked, but over time after they met him and understood what kind of person he is, they realized that it is better to have a relationship with him than with some pickle of my age who only uses me for sex.

   Author, it seems that higher education does not help you read the Penal Code. What is so UNCLEAR about it? It says people under 14 are protected, you keep singing for 12 year olds. Leave the children alone, for God's sake. After 14 years at least it is legal! S ection VIII Debauchery Art. 149. (Amended, SG No. 89/86) (1) (Amended, SG No. 107/96) Whoever commits an act for the purpose of arousing or satisfying sexual desire without intercourse with respect to a person , under the age of 14, shall be punished for fornication with imprisonment of up to five years. Laws are written NORMS. That is, before it became law, it was the norm in society. In many countries, the limit is even 16 years. Go to Japan if you want 12-year-olds, and for younger ones in Saudi Arabia, but in our country you are a pedophile by definition.

   46, "And since the relationship between a fourteen-year-old and a thirty-four-year-old doesn't bother you, but you think it's ok, why do you take my comment as an oath or some terrible ordeal?" Your very attitude and the fact that you are interfering in people's lives bothers me, not the oath itself. It's just ugly to take into account a person who has been in a relationship for 6 years, that she is almost a failed whore, and to mention the children who are not there yet. It's just that the tone of the comment itself is ugly and disrespectful of privacy. I do not know what is this mania on this site someone writing a story or comment and looking for opinions, solutions, sympathy to attack every second how bad it is, how he will suffer, etc. Do you think that a person who wants advice or just shares opinions do you put such verbal pressure on him, even without specific insulting words, will he learn a lesson and will there be any benefit from this morality at all? Tell your opinion, tell him where you think he is wrong, offer him advice, etc., and let him decide for himself which advice and whether to listen, but I do not understand this verbal abuse and I do not see any benefit from him neither for the bully, nor for the one he is bullying. You're now expecting the girl to dump her boyfriend because you waved a finger, I don't know what you're aiming for? Or you expect her to change her mind and say, "Oh, yes, now I realize I was actually wrong, it's good that she opened my eyes." Well, you're wrong about her. What are we doing? Who is the justice of the peace to say unilaterally who is right and who is wrong? The truth is different for everyone.

   38/46 to 45 By the way, did the "university lecturer" teach how the yellow press is made? Come on, before we write nonsense, get a little informed, get educated, it's so easy now! And consider who you are saying such nonsense about! Ivan Vazov - pedophile, aren't you ashamed, huh ?!

   45, the author writes for 12-14 year olds. These are girls of 6th and 7th grade. It is one thing for these girls to push and touch each other with their peers, it is quite another to have fun with their uncle. I see that here, apart from the author, a lot of people have no problem with that. You ask why I compare it to murders, thefts, etc. - because our norms on all fronts have dropped dramatically, and our claims have skyrocketed. I deliberately say norms, not morality, so that someone doesn't think that morality counts for him ... This is about ordinary human appearance, there is no need to talk about morality and guilt, I thought it was easy to understand. But obviously the level of the nation is like that. And it will get worse, because in the west it is worse, and we are following them. The topic is promising to the delight of the author pedophile-eventually, only that of anal sex beats her.

   At 14 the girls are shaken by the hormone and think about love and are easily deceived, my acquaintance's daughter is 14 and I noticed her constantly glancing at me, but that does not mean that I should sleep with her, any normal person would not think so something, this disease that needs to be treated, I advise the author to seek help from a specialist.

   So, in my opinion, he does not do anything wrong until he enters the law. In general, I have 2 daughters, one close to the age mentioned, and I'm really upset to even think that she would be the object of such fantasies, but as we noted - if you do not step on the law, there is nothing wrong with fantasies. Now another question is why the author is treated by such an age group ... children / women. Maybe purely sexual, maybe he is looking for a person who is physically weaker, more immature, more vulnerable and, accordingly, compensates for some of his insecurities. When I was that age, I watched Lolita and I really liked it. Later, I had contact with men much older than me, and I was satisfied with the fact that they were dependent on my youth, that they had a stronger desire to protect, pamper, and dominate a much younger girl. In fact, I felt in control of their emotions, and that gave me a sense of power over them. I also avoided my peers because I was raped by them at that age. They scared me and I didn't like contact with them. So the reasons could be complex. Author, you don't have to feel guilty about fantasies. There are 2 types of pedophiles - situational - such men who accidentally come across a child instead of a woman as an object, who replaces the woman as a full-fledged sexual object due to social or emotional inadequacy. Because controlling a child is easy. They are vulnerable. The second type are naturally crippled sick creatures extremely attracted only by children! They are mentally ill and often touch children close to the family, acquaintances, etc. They do not like women and do not feel the need to have sex with them. Greetings!

   For you, 13-14 year old girls may seem more attractive to you in terms of being younger, fresher and more fragile than older women, but not everything is based on the physical. This is a child who has not matured, has no experience and cannot make independent decisions adequately. Such a girl can easily be misled by a 34-year-old simply because she does not have enough life experience yet. It is from this point of view that a 34-year-old should be a reasonable person and not try to deceive younger than him, simply because he is in a stronger position and should not take advantage of a child. Otherwise, pedophiles for me are sick people who just don't think these things, but just try to satisfy their sick sex drive. There are many cases of children benefiting from them as children who then become drug addicts, prostitutes and what not. That is, they ruin their lives because someone like you has taken advantage of them because they can't be aroused by big women. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I'm far from thinking that you will be very interested in talking about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. That is, they ruin their lives because someone like you has taken advantage of them because they can't be aroused by big women. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I am far from thinking that it will be very interesting for you to talk about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. That is, they ruin their lives because someone like you has taken advantage of them because they can't be aroused by big women. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is already an adult and then he can choose to be with whoever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I am far from thinking that it will be very interesting for you to talk about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. for someone like you has taken advantage of them, because he can't be aroused by big women. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I'm far from thinking that you will be very interested in talking about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. for someone like you has taken advantage of them, because he can't be aroused by big women. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I'm far from thinking that you will be very interested in talking about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I am far from thinking that it will be very interesting for you to talk about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. Yes, there are many cases in which little girls offer themselves, but this is still immaturity and big men should not say - but she pressed me. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is already an adult and then he can choose to be with whoever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I'm far from thinking that you will be very interested in talking about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. It is not in vain that a person of 18 is already an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I am far from thinking that it will be very interesting for you to talk about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong. It is not in vain that an 18-year-old is now an adult and then he can choose to be with whomever he wants and do whatever he wants. But until this age, I believe that children should be left alone and protected, because their adequate development depends on it. And you, author, what can you offer to such a girl - just to take advantage of her young body, because I'm far from thinking that you will be very interested in talking about lessons, children's discos, lexicons, etc. Just leave children of peace and do not push where you do not belong.

   Just to remind commenters that your comments are valid only if he intends to sleep with a minor. And he did not mention such. If it is only attraction, it is neither illegal nor can one choose it consciously. It's funny to tell someone what to attract and what not.

   38/46/50 I speak from the position of a parent, although of sons, I do not expect you to understand until you become one, why I do not tolerate sex with minors, or as the law classifies them there. Let them love their peers, but a partner who can be their mother or father I can not accept. And don't think I'm personally affected, nothing like that. I've interfered in someone's personal life, but don't make it public, what do you expect, applause? Someone mentioned Lolita here, and do you remember how she and Professor HH ended up in the end ?! You children have seen the movie, but some of us have read Nabokov in the original.

   Nom. 28. You judge 12-year-olds as if they were adults. They were not saints. They are children with underdeveloped brains. They do not understand what they are doing. That is why they need control and protection. The brain develops at the age of 21. Then the real person becomes big / mature.

   Dear author, your question opens a topic on which a dozen dissertations can be written. I declare in advance that I have not read everything written so far, I suppose there are reasonable comments, as well as those in which hatred is poured and they explain to you how wrong you are. In short - you're fine, there's nothing wrong with you, at least not from a psychological or physiological point of view. In order for a person to be classified as a "pedophile" from this point of view, there must be a pronounced and focused attraction to children of kindergarten age and younger, which is obviously not the case with you. The Penal Code does not define the term "pedophilia", but prosecutes and punishes certain actions (as far as it is reasonable and appropriate in all cases, at least in my opinion it is controversial and the area is quite gray, but the law alas should judge in black and white). Specifically - the Penal Code considered any sexual act against a person under the age of 14 as fornication or rape, not caring whether the person was in agreement (or even more - actively sought contact). Having sex with such a person, in my opinion, as attractive as it may seem at a given moment, is highly inadvisable, at least for your own safety, because it could make you a convenient target for extortion. Possession of visual material with persons under the age of 18 can also create a problem, even if it is not generally accepted as pornographic by standard standards. This is not the place to comment on how adequate and correct the law is, the important thing in this case is that it is, at least until it is (one day) changed in one direction or another. Finally, there is the issue of the situation in public. If you go out and ask the same question, you will be stigmatized as a "pedophile", including by people who also look at schoolgirls or have discovered their sexual biography at the age of 10-11. Society has always needed scapegoats - when witches, when heretics, pedophiles are in vogue today, quoting them because the public label "pedophile" has almost nothing to do with the psychological problem of "pedophilia". In conclusion - You are a completely normal person, but in view of the legal norms and public attitudes, it is desirable that some things are not done or even said openly, so as not to suffer public and even legal negatives without doing anything wrong. If we lived in the Middle Ages, Your question would probably sound like this: "Yesterday I looked askance at my neighbor, and today he got sick. Am I a witch?" In other words, I say once again - you are a normal person, you just do not fit into the manners of the time.

   I am a 15-year-old girl and I slept with a 35-year-old Arab. I suppose he was pleasantly fascinated when I told him my age. I also slept with a man of 30. My set was 16 years old and that was my biggest mistake! Of course, most men like minors, and that shouldn't surprise anyone. It's strange to me that every day I catch the eyes of such people when I go out. Of course they will be attracted. Every man would have a sexual attraction to a girl like me - long thick hair, medium height, with a sexy ass sticking out from under my skirt, my juicy big breasts waiting for new caresses ... the narrow pussy, the perverted look and this so innocent look. And no, I don't think they're criminals, on the contrary, that's perfectly normal. You have to get used to it. , :) Regards

   50, Vazov, like any other writer, and everyone known in general was a man like all of us with his weaknesses, secrets, etc. Being intelligent and able to write does not make him a perfect person without weaknesses. It's just that most people have developed a romantic image of famous writers, artists, etc. There is no connection between the talent to write and hebephilia.