My story is as follows: We have been married for 2 years. We have a 9m baby. We live with my parents. His parents are from another city and are divorced. He came to live in my city for me, and not only that. We just don't have the opportunity to move out. He works in another city and travels every day. He gets up early and comes back late. When he comes back, I always find something to fight about. Even for the smallest thing, I'm capable of arguing. I've been like that since I was a little grumpy, I've been making a scandal since at least. We fight all the time. On the other hand, our people always scold me for his mistakes. They are just used to 1 type and he is not used to it yet and when he does something in his own way and ours immediately quarrel with me and from there I accumulate, I tell him and finally scandals start. He returns tired, eats and goes to bed. I want to go out with the baby, and he calls me why you will go out, when you will return. Then I go out alone or with my mother and he mutters that I didn't even invite him. What an invitation he is waiting for to go out with his wife and child. Since I don't know what to do, I go out and that's it. The child wants a walk. He could no longer stand the scandals and said that if I continued he would leave and not return. For me personally, I take these scandals for granted. I don't pay attention to them. for me they are part of everyday life but he doesn't think so. I don't think that when we quarrel over 1 tomato or 1 glass of soda, these are already things we have to part with. we only quarrel over such trivial things. I admit I'm nervous and irritable for the slightest thing. I have had such a character since I was a child. I've tried to change to kill this harmful vice, but it doesn't work. He is a calm and balanced person, but next to me he learned to call me. He couldn't stand it anymore. In my opinion, living with my parents also has a huge impact. I always consider them first. I fight with him just to have peace in the house and to please my mother who stomps her foot that something should be the way she wants it. My father keeps telling me that I am a scandalmonger and that I will not recover. Everyone blames me. I'm not saying I'm not, but I'm between a rock and a hard place. Everyone blames me. I'm not saying I'm not, but I'm between a rock and a hard place. Everyone blames me. I'm not saying I'm not, but I'm between a rock and a hard place.
1 elblogdelgordo answered
Forget about writing how old you are, but I'm sure you're another young mother who wasn't ready for marriage and a child - materially and mentally. You are a mother and you do not work, can't you find a small window in the village where he works - so you will have more time together. Done - done, but if you do not change, if you do not move out, you will lose your husband. ... and yes, you are guilty, but that doesn't matter in this case - the important thing is to save your marriage and keep the father of your child, and that requires a little tension and compromise ... everything depends on you. No, I can't, if you don't change and support him, you will become another single young mother in our country, who barely connects the two ends and lives with mom and dad, soaks in coffees and mourns her fate all day, and your baby will be left without father. The stakes are huge - a lifetime!