In addictions, if a person does not want to help himself or be helped, there is simply no other way. Does your father want to stop drinking? If he wants, a way will be found. There is no way to make it.
Believe me, this is a very unsuccessful task that you want to accomplish. When I was 12, I realized that my father drank too much. He drinks a lot in the evening after work, and if he is on vacation he starts drinking at noon at 12 o'clock. Even when I was little I begged him to stop, I told him what not, I even threatened him that I would kill myself, I roared that I would lose him if he did so. I'm 23 now and he drives it the same way, he's been to the hospital several times in serious condition, his liver is not good and he says he won't drink and when he leaves the hospital he starts drinking again. When I tell him it's not right, he tells me that he works, earns money, is responsible for his family and has the right to at least drink. By no means did I manage to make him stop for 10 years. I ran away from us, cut my hands with a knife, sat on the window frame, and told him I would jump, but nothing changed. He has no desire to stop. In order to make your father stop, he must first have a desire. If he doesn't want to, no matter what you do, you can't make him do it.
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