Department "child protection"-SACD-NTLD 111 116-> Don't keep her from ruining your future, ask for help, talk to yourself, you will not cope
My case is the same, only I know how to stop her hand. Such a man cannot be fixed, so if you still have any hope, stop fooling yourself! My advice is to go to Auntie, uncle, uncle, someone who will be able to help you realize, like I did.
Success!
Author, I'm a boy at 25, and I'm telling you, waving as much as it hurts to be your parent. And I was like that with my mom, and I thought this was going to work out someday, and I was your age, but nothing like that!
When I was about 18, our father dumped us and now he lives quietly but I'm stubborn, and I decided that I would fight to fix everything! I have a sister, but she's living with her boyfriend and she doesn't even want to hear about the mamas anymore! And I had a girl we had great plans for the future, but she figured out what kind of trouble I was fighting and left!
From a very bitter experience I know that such people are very hard to get better-not to say that it is not-because the cure for it does not!
And despite all the times I've tried to help, I talk, and I've paid crazy money for psychotherapist, but no effect is even worse!
Now my only dream is to have my own žiliže and save myself while it's time--I saw the fix!
I wrote you all this to tell you to look ahead and think about your future! Watch your school, go to the family if you can, or maybe the mamati will harass you and pull you down!
Properly! A bully is a bully, a drunkard is a drunk, and a psycho is a psychopath. Run away and don't worry!
From the author: All of my family are on her side. She humiliates me all the time. Please help.
Well, here, you were written to go to child protection.
YOU have to do something. There's nobody else to do it.
If you sit like this, it won't work.
Don't be afraid your mother will get worse if she finds out. Worse than that, there's no more. After a year or two start work, my daughter started working at 17, because we were alone and didn't get the money. You are not little children, and it is not a bad person to work and be independent of their mother and father unloved.
First of all, wake up that you're the one who has to do something to get away from the situation.
It's the author again. Yesterday, she was drunk during the day. The hour was one and a half. He offends me with a lot of bad words. I'm ashamed to write them. There's no one to go to. She's the only one. If I get help, She'il beat me up. Please give advice.
Don't be afraid.... Won't beat you up. Look people have written you above what to do. Don't dawer, well, get out of there because you're a child at risk.
DO NOT BE AFRAID, BUT SEEK HELP!!!
It's the author again. You don't know her. She threatened me if I didn't want a high score on a subject that he was going to kill me. She created me. I want him to stop getting drunk. That's the problem.
It's the author again. I have often been told in a few days that if Alicia was my mother, everything would be different. I don't know why she did it. It's just a couple of nights dreaming about her being my mother. And everything is beautiful. Don't beat me, don't drink, and the best part is, he treats me like a man. Maybe I was dreaming about her, because I was watching her interview a few days ago. She was her child, too. She was so kind to him..... Then I couldn't myself my tears. I was thinking about what my life would be like if a good human being was my parent. I've never been missing anything. Except goodness to me. I don't know if I'm dreaming today, but if it happens again, I don't want to wake up.
I'm dreaming, Anelia. Help!
Dear girl, It's alarming that you don't write. Hope you look at this topic though. You are underage, you are being abused, your parent is unable to take care of you-in a word you are under state PROTECTION. Don't be afraid! Go to the first police station, tell what you told us here, they will contact the social services and they will find you a home where you will be safe and you can continue your education. So you can help your mother, who will be forced to cure her alcoholism.
I regret that the rules in this forum require anonymity, otherwise I would asked you for an address so I could report a child abuse. It can also make any neighbor of yours. You could trust someone you know and ask for it.
It's the author. Number 12 Thanks! I've never been missing anything from a material point of view. My problem is that she doesn't feel it. She hasn't been to me in a while. Now it's 12 in the day, and she's drinking. It's awful. She denies any problems. It's a terrible night. Then she's drunk on a pick, and it's ruining me. I don't know how to keep her sober.
You know what I did when I was your age, and my dad drank like a dog?
He wasn't me, but he did. It's intolerable for a person to watch and listen. You can't concentrate on anything else, that's the only thing you're scared of.
One night he went to drink. We were both alone. My mother was at sea at work. He drank, and I was topping him, he drank, and I was topping him up and I encouraged him. You drank so much, you finally fainted. I called in an ambulance. There, the doctors gave him a lavage, and one night he was on some systems-alone like a dog. Neither did I get in the ambulance, nor went to see him, nor did I drink it. How he found money and who he called, when his phone was at home, I don't know. I called my mother in the meantime and told her everything, what and why I did. She told me to find from somewhere 20lv and the first train to go to her.
I was going to write him a note where I was, but I didn't. I was very sorry to see him after the hospital, but I just got up and went to my mother's. He called her, scared about me, if I was with her. She said no! And he saw himself forced to tell my mother how he got drunk like a beast, how they got him to a hospital, and how he got home, he was gone. She told him that if she didn't find her child, she'd be whacked. Three days later, he called me to see her. He doesn't know about our theater until today.
And then I realized that three days he was running around all my friends, the neighborhood and the nearby quarters, he let me search the police, checked the hospitals. He questioned all the neighbors.
Maybe he knows we played him, I don't know, but he hasn't dared to drink since. Now, 15 years later, he drinks his drink in the evening before dinner on 50-100 G, or a glass of beer when it's hot.
It was a very scared of everything.
The author is back. My father passed away two years ago. She hasn't been to me in a while, but she's drinking, and that's a problem. I've never seen her vomit or faint. He just comes home from 5 to 10 drinks. He gets drunk almost every day. I hate weekends because he's been drinking 10 a.m. I'm afraid to leave because I know he's going to get drunk. It's the same thing when I go out and not get out. He's going to get drunk. If there's any way I can get away from her, I would. The problem is, there's nowhere to go. In child protection, nothing will happen. She offends me and humiliates me. He tells me I'm no longer a thing or anything. How do I keep her sober?
Hello, me too. I'm in the same position, except I'm a boy of 26. I live with my mother, and I've wondered many times why I tolerate her, but if I'm not, she's a goner. Fainting each or every other month, drinks several times a week and is not very adequate in conversations. He's wasting money, not telling you about more serious tasks, like paying electricity, telephones, etc.
He's been whining under his nose, hiding his bottle under his pillow. He can't work. There's even something like alcohol schizophrenia, because there's a whole week of not drinking, but something's going on in the head and talking like a madman at times. My mother did not want to heal and drink already 20 years tirelessly. She's a wonderful, responsible man, but only when she's sober. I want to punish her and get away from her, but I can't. I get pity, I break up and I keep on being. Alcoholism is a serious problem. They have no desire to treat alcoholics, they will not be cured and from a whole year stay in a clinic. If your mother has money and a close relative, leave her alone. Look for two years and then find a job and some place for a temporary stay. I can't think of any other advice. You're not going to talk her into talking. On it the organism itself and dictates and it is not easy to fight it. I'm without a father, but I don't regret it. He also drank and was even aggressive toward a mother.
And when I was a kid, I cried and watched and listened to fights and scandals. Now I would have slapped someone else and kicked him out of us. I understand you well, and you're too young and I'm guessing scared. Parents do not realise that no matter how much they think they are harming themselves, they actually interrupt their strong relationship with their children and ruin their lives. Act mentally and after quite a while, get out of it. If there's no option to leave her and you're in my position...
Be strong and pay no attention to everything. It is very difficult and I understand it, but I did not listen this advice years ago and I was close to a possible tragedy. Sanity was the reason for my salvation. If you have any questions, i'il follow the subject.
Dear Child, you can't keep her sober! No one can. Alcoholism is a mental and physical disease, but patient denies his illness until he is forced to seek help. Your mother's not well with her mind, you know? You live with a mentally ill person. Please find a friend to share your problem with. Cohabitation with your mother is very dangerous for you. Things are going to get worse.
At least for a start, seek information and read about the illness "alcoholism" to clarify the essence of her condition.
It's the author. I'm very sick of her getting drunk. The bad thing is, she offends me with terrible words. He's swearing me. That's what makes him sober. He's just looking to beat me in the head, that I'm nothing. My grades are good. There's nowhere to go. Otherwise, I'd be out of here right now. There's just no way. I'm sick. I'm still saying it hasn't happened to faint, but it's drunk and in front of my friends at a party.
Please give feedback and advice! I'm asking you all my heart. Now she's drunk again. By talking to her, she denies it. What am I going to do? Tell me?
As much as I sympathize with you, I'm telling you, it's not the forums people who are going to help you. Your mother cannot stop drinking herself, she needs treatment; This treatment it must either wish it itself, or if there are signs of mental abnormalities, it should be enforced. Another way does not exist.
Save yourself. The way is: you go to the police and tell what you are telling us; They will contact social. Second option: You are trusting a close relative and asking for assistance; If he doesn't know what to do, say that you want to be contacted by the Child Protection Agency to take care of you.
You have to be safe first, so you can actually help your mother later if she decides to fight her problem.
It's the author. I don't feel her as a mother. She wants to control my life. I can't trust anyone, and if I go to the police, I don't know what's going to happen. Are they going to adopt me or what? I'm afraid if I say it's going to get worse.
Only in the social will you find help in my opinion.
No one helped me. You could've given me a little help. No one gave me good advice.
Please give me some more advice. I'm asking you.
What do you want me to say to you, kill her? You get in the child's wings, it's the police, just get some help from somewhere, even from school. You've had your life... with your wife.
L.
Yes, the # 26 gives you a good idea – if you're not close to your relatives, talk to your classroom leaders or the teacher you trust most. It will take measures, there are ways. When I say "measures," I don't mean to make your mother refuse alcohol. This can be done only with treatment. No one's going to adopt you, okay? There are centers and dorms for children at risk, there are foster families for temporary accommodation, if none of your relatives are committed to take you to adulthood. One can only solve their own problems, remember that. With other people's problems, there's no way you can handle it. If your mother is judged to be dangerous to you, she may be forced to be treated. Some drunks stop drinking when they really hit the bottom, and taking your child away is a bottom.
I don't understand why you're all telling her to call the social or the police? What are they going to do? They're just going to make her mom even more angry. You can try to get a job after school, so at least you won't stay home. I have been working since I was 16 years old and I graduated with honors. Just a desire to have. And if things get even more intolerable, you might try to out a house. In the beginning, until you graduate, it's a misery, but then you start building your life a little bit. I know it's easy to say, but it's very hard to do, but in your situation, you're left with either that or you want to endure. Luck!
Number 28 is the author. I want to work. I want to move out. She's not giving me a job. He's controlling my life. He has to let me go. It's just awful.
I don't trust any teacher. It will destroy me if I complain
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