Are you okay? Just because someone smokes and drinks doesn't mean you have to be like him, even after you don't like him. I am also 18, I do not smoke cigarettes, I only afford a hookah once every 3 months because I am a competitor. I drink alcohol, but I don't get drunk: D, but very rarely. In general, beer and wine are not scary. If you still want to drink 1-2 glasses of wine or a beer and then some non-alcoholic. You drink a little without pouring as much as for "Cheers". Judge for yourself what you want, I don't do things I don't want just because others do. Otherwise, don't worry about the boyfriends either. I recently got my first kiss, but I didn't like it, maybe because I had no feelings for the boy, but life is ahead of us. Be more confident, hang out, find friends to go out with, if you have a sense of humor this is a big plus at least for me. If you're funny, no one cares if you smoke or drink.
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You better not! He doesn't do it for the sake of others ... Otherwise, in principle, the hookah is an interesting thing. You don't even have to smoke tobacco - there are various herbal mixtures that look like herbal tea (for example jasmine), only for breathing instead of drinking :) Congested? !! Haha! When you come across the right person, you will be happy and you will both be very happy and satisfied that you have now been "congested" ...