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After Five Years, We Finally Went To Bed. And To That Extent

By femboi484 June 16, 2020 4 answers Last updated June 16, 2020

Hi, this is the case. We've known each other for five years, our relationship has never been more than friendly. We've joked about other things, but everything within the right thing. For small periods, we have lost touch, for one reason or another, but when we find each other again, we have never split up. I'm 22 and he's a year younger. Very combative, stubborn, everything is done with thought. Since the beginning of summer, we've been in touch again. We're both busy, though. I've been living with my boyfriend for 5years, he's been with his girlfriend for two years. I've always been very friendly. Until at one point, my boyfriend proposed to me, and I accepted. Since then, the other boy has been behaving differently. He showed me more and more that he was holding on to me, he wanted us to see me more often, to talk more. I didn't say no. Until the moment I did not start to feel feelings on his part, accordingly, this gave rise to strange sensations in myself. We argued we argued, we argued, and then we enjoyed the presence of the other side of each. We became a kind of intimate, even though we denied it. We shared relationships problems, we wanted advice from each other, we talked about everything. To the point where a lot of conversations have come to physical proximity. It's the most wonderful feeling I've ever had. And I wasn't indifferent to him at the time. It wasn't just sex. Since then, however, things have changed. I don't know. We're both busy working in normal life, with our families and everything, and we don't see each other every day. We're barely detecting each other, but we're writing. Almost every day. I feel like I'm looking for him first all the time. We were soon annoyed and had an argument because he had told his best friend about us. That me off. I felt it that way, he went to bed with me and then boasted. He explained that he did it for an alibi, and I was wondering. But how can I trust? I haven't seen you since. Was it just about sex? I miss him a lot, I don't know what to do.

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ailenschulz answered · June 16, 2020
And here, once again, the hand of morality will pat the confused girl and the poor young man, bravo you are a dream for everyone, and then they will explain to me that there could only be a friendship between a man and a woman. There's no animal like that.
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loveselenamoon answered · June 16, 2020
Make sure he's your guy, and it just takes a little time to talk about what you've been through and what you're doing.
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20babylyn answered · June 16, 2020
I've been through something like this, it's a little more complicated. I'm 31. with three children and supposedly a happy eleven-year marriage. Five years ago on social media, I started writing to a man my age then we were both with one child. We were interested in each other twice, but it didn't work out. Our paths went away, he went abroad, during this time I had two more children, and he had a second child. We lost touch for a while, but maybe in our minds we were always together. Now, five years later, this summer we met, slept a few times. I thought it was going to work out the way you were going to stop looking for ourselves, so it's when it's just sex. He went back abroad, but alas we keep looking for each other, writing and calling each other, and often he does it first. I don't know how to explain it, I dare not think he's in love, but that's another matter. I'm very sorry that I didn't take an important step last time, that I didn't have the courage to part with my husband and move on with the second, the illegal one. My advice is to decide to look for him, and if you think you're in love, let's tell him. After all, things are simpler for you, don't torture yourself. Put your life in order, if he doesn't agree, at least you'il know it's not worth wasting your thoughts on him.
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cumfindme420 answered · June 16, 2020
There's no male-to-woman friendship.