Advice For A Love Decision

Hello! I am a woman and in the next few hours a woman told me and showed that she would like us to be more than coffee friends. Years ago I had contact with women for a rehearsal, it's not something completely new to me and it's not something that scares me. I also have girlfriends who have been with women for years, so our same sex somehow doesn't bother me. I have a great time with this woman. She has many qualities that I look for in my partner. The most important thing is how it makes me feel - in this regard it is without remarks. However, she has an influential position in society, which scares me a little. Some time ago I went out with a man who was also a well-known person and getting out of it was very dramatic. And sometimes my relationships just don't work out, I'm a special person. From that point of view, I don't know if I should start a man again who has the opportunity to ruin my life a lot, if we break up and disagree with me that this should happen. What do you think about this Is it worth it? From my previous relationship I have only the bitter memories of the separation, I do not connect the person with anything good, and to be together for three years there was something good. The other thing that worries me a little is that, in fact, from the point of view of her position, she can't openly state her sexual orientation. At least at this stage, of course. In 20 years it may be different. Nooo that bothers me. I mean, I don't see the need to flaunt with your partner, I don't need caresses in public, but it's natural for me not to worry about who will see me in what situation and act at the first sign. I'm afraid I might blow her off because I'm just not used to doing things in secret. Is he getting used to it? Honestly, the only option I see before us is to see for a few months how we will feel with each other, and then to leave Bulgaria together and start our life somewhere where they do not know her. But is it right to enter into such a requirement? In my opinion, at the moment she has the desire to be with her, so she will agree, but morally I do not know if I have the right to want something like that from someone. With a lot of work she has achieved what she has done so far, and I will want to throw her work to the wind. And I'm going to quit a good job and ruin my wonderful life, but I'm not losing so much. Would you give me answers to the above questions and general advice on whether to choose to be together? If you can, ignore that we are of the same sex. Men aren't done, I'm sure somewhere in the world is the one for me,