I admit it, and I watch sex scenes from time to time, not so much to enjoy kinky views, but to see different reactions. I'm more interested in watching women have sex. I can't stand artificial sex in man-to-woman. I could tell you how they do it. Separate poses and scenes are recorded in sessions and then assembled, they can make movies for hours. That's exactly what is about fooling people into thinking there are over-gifted people -porn artists who can have sex for hours, and that's a delusion. Don't you see, in movies like this, how much they kiss, especially the way a man kisses a woman, it's funny to me, so I prefer to watch sex between women! I want to use the subject and ask women what we see in sex between women is true, or is it still a porn-cheating?
People like to watch fetish. There are others like you. I have more interest in fetish videos than videos with standard, sometimes however I only look at erotic photos or videos without sex.
You can't stop watching unless you do something like that from the things you've seen in the videos.
If it doesn't affect your sex life, it's no big deal. I think there's a difference how you look at it and how you look at a poor chick. It sounds like you're just curious, and you're not looking for sexual satisfaction with the whole thing, you don't prefer it to your mate, you don't fantasize about your gifted macho, etc.
To tell myself, I like to watch the squeezing of blackheads, pulling out subcutaneous hairs, pimples, cysts and so on videos on youtube. I'm really dying of fun and interest how, for God's sake, this can come out of a pore?! I find it very entertaining and, above all, satisfactory. But by no means do I want to do anything like that or have anything to do with it. I know how some couples squeeze each other's pimples and I want to die of, but I like to watch it safe on the internet.
You can hint at something and see how he reacts. Usually problems have men and, when you say someone is addicted, the mass idea is just about some lonely, greasy and backward mold. If a woman says she's addicted, she's perceived as naughty, open, crazy in a cool way, etc. the problems with these things come not so much from the question of whether it's right or wrong in principle, but whether it's right or wrong for your mate. Some don't mind infidelity, they watch together, they do swingers, they get high, etc.
Otherwise, you can see two men in certain bars in Berlin. They put a band-aid on your phone camera at the entrance, and you go in... People have a beer, and between them, a couple of gay couples get away with it. It's something I'll remember for the rest of my days haha
And I'm so envious of you for finding a man like that. I've never met a creature like this in my entire life.
And my girlfriend watches. It's a weakness and it's. Although we don't have sex often. It just turns her on.
www.yourbrainonporn.com
Read the information there. It's in English, but I hope it'il be useful to you for the chemical processes of addiction. You're at the beginning, but if you don't stop, you're going to get involved in harder things - dating sites, indiscriminate relationships...
Success... Only with will does not work
Dopamine modulator, similar to drugs and social networks. Desire to see "something new", "interesting", "exciting", "wow"... And actually, there's nothing wrong with that.
My advice is not to be a man. Stop or at least reduce it considerably. Watch something else if you have to - there are tv shows, movies, short films, documentaries, a lot of things..
On your border (and you may even have crossed it) you become dependent. In general, it is ok to watch from time to time and by measure. But, as a person becomes addicted to gambling, drugs, cigarettes, computer games, alcohol, so does. At first you look less, gradually it becomes more and more perverse (that is. the small dose is no longer enough for you) and when you realize you have a problem it is too late. Even the few, like time watching, but on the other hand often (several times a week) is a problem simply because it becomes a habit, and hence the longer viewing is only a step. The very fact that you've been thinking all day about what videos you're going to play in the evening is a siptom. It's the same as drinking 100 milliliters of brandy (or wine) every night with a salad and claiming that because you're not getting drunk, you're not alcolick. But actually, you are, if you can't just stop. That's what my story looks like. You'd better tell your friend, because you, like everyone else with some kind of addiction, besides lying to their loved ones that they don't have a problem, they're actually lying to themselves. Let him, by more impartially assessing whether you have a real problem or not.
In my opinion, the recipe for a happy life is moderation in everything that pleases you and is a passion. For example, it is super pleasant to go somewhere to wine tourism with tasting and it is something quite different every day to practice such "tourism". It's the same with gambling, say - it's a thrill to drop your lottery once and wait with your friend for the numbers, but it's a problem to play every draw or walk to the gym next to you. It's similar to - once a few months with the partner to watch is exhilarating and inflames passion, but every day is disastrous.
I had a boyfriend in tech, a classmate, who we had sex with for the first time. That was in the mid-1990s. That's when they ran the first channels. That's the way we saw sex for the first time. That was the reason we tried. My classmate was outraged at what she saw at first, but then said she was curious to try what it felt like. was the reason.
There's nothing wrong with, but yours just looks like voyeurism. Which is a pretty cool fetish, and you can just fantasize about how to develop it. The development of real-life fetishes is much more satisfying ;)
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I don't know how old you are, but in your post, I guess you're very young, maybe 20 at most. I mean, I think you're at the beginning of a very dark road. I went down that road. Trust me exactly the same. For the record, I'm a man. I started in my early teen years with normal. It's perfectly natural. Back then, it was all on video tapes. Then I saw lesbians for the first time. I'm out of my mind. Vestni Chuk-Hammer was one of the greatest things. Whoever remembers him will understand me :) But then came the internet... And it turned out that even in those early years you could see everything. One day I went through a site and saw a section of strict gosporads. I was curious... And I slid down the bottom. Day and night, that was my fantasy. How a woman dominates me. Then I saw another section- gay. I didn't think I was gay. But I couldn't stop looking. Then with adult women. Then transvestites... And all sorts of them. Trust me, there's no end. I've seen and self-widowed at everything. Everything. There's a lot of them, and I don't want to list. Only when I think about it without sex with animals and the like... I got to the point where I was going to the internet room, watching and then going into the bathroom. I was like a madman. It's been years and I've realized I have a serious problem. At the same time, I developed a problem with alcohol. All I can say is that I haven't tried the things I've been looking at, except for a little sado-masochistic once. And it's a good thing I held on. I'm sorry a hundredfold anyway. Trust me, this is going to get stuck in your brain and it's not going to come out of there. You're curious now. You say you're just watching, you're not even masturbating. You'il start soon. And you can't stop. You'il jump from category to category, and there's no end. And yes, as you say, it's exhausting. You're losing yourself. You're losing your mind, your soul...
But you have another problem. Even if you stop the now, something else will come along. You're going to develop some kind of addiction anyway.
Because you're running away from something. Something dark inside. From your dark aspect of your soul. You have to understand who he is and accept it. Look at the parents. Look what you don't like about them. What always annoyed you, angered, saddened... And then see if you don't have the same aspect in you, but you're hiding it. The process is not as easy as it sounds, but it is not as difficult. But he wants time. Look for different books. Morgan Scott Peck. There are others. If you take this path, I guarantee you it's rocky and difficult, but in the end it's worth it. Much more than or anything else.
You have a friend who doesn't care about it so there's a balance in your life. It's always like that. If he's like you, you'il destroy each other. Trust me. There's a brief relationship with a woman sex and a maniac. I felt my life energy just go away during my time with her, even though it seemed to me the most logical thing to be with such a woman. Not for you. I say it from experience.
It's been a little long. That's it for now. If you think my opinion is helpful, you have questions, ask.
Good luck, whatever you decide.
Greetings!
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