Please add my story at least this time ... I will be very grateful !! I am a 14-year-old girl (8th grade) and I am in a new school. I need some examples of how to start a conversation with a stranger. I'm average, good at school, my friends have said I'm cool. In general, I'm not very shy, but when I like someone I can't say a word to him. Please share some of your experiences, dear girls, and tell me how to talk to someone I like, how to invite them to see me. Maybe it's important to say that I've had a few boyfriends and a lot of boy friends. But it always happened through a friend and so on. It must be different now. Thank you in advance!
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Wait a minute, girl. You entered the new high school to rise as a level in your education. Why bother with boys from the beginning? You are 14! What do you understand by love and liking? Now is your time to learn. U-CH-E-N-E. Wait until the 10th-11th grade, to refresh your mind a bit. What do you think the boys will immediately fall at your feet? They are like being shot at this age and if you ask me, they don't care about boyfriends, let alone they could understand the essence of a relationship. In my new class, the boys hardly talked to us girls, and only computer games and sports were in their heads. I don't understand what it's like to have a boyfriend at this fragile age? You will hug, let's hold hands, show each other in the corridors and here and there a kiss. Trust me, wait, grow up, get used to the new pace of learning (teachers and requirements are different from those of the neighborhood school). You will regret one day that you were in such a hurry. Don't waste your time chasing boys, let them chase you when they feel ready too! This is their role, not ours. -I.