On the Behavior in Intimate Marriage for the Exaltation of the Spiritual Holiness of the Blessed Sacrament of Marriage and for the Glory of God, written by Ruth Smithers, beloved wife of the Rev. LD Smithers, pastor of the Arcadian Methodist Church at the Eastern Regional Conference94, in -to. ==================== For the sensitive girl, who was lucky enough to receive the right upbringing, the wedding day, ironically, is both the happiest and the most horrible day. in life. The good side is the wedding itself, in which the bride is the center of attention in a beautiful and inspiring ceremony, symbolizing her triumph, in which the man guarantees the provision of all her needs for the rest of her life. The bad side - this is the first wedding night in which the bride , so to speak, pays the expenses, as for the first time he has to experience all the horrors of sexual life. In this regard, dear readers, let me reveal to you a shocking truth. There are girls who meet the test of the first wedding night with curiosity and pleasure. Beware of such treatment! A selfish and lustful husband could easily benefit from such a woman. Never forget the main rule in married life:
GIVE A LITTLE, GIVE RARELY AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, GIVE RELIGIOUSLY.
Otherwise, what could be a real marriage will turn into an orgy of sex drive. On the other hand, the terror perpetrated by the young wife should not be entirely extreme. To the extent that sexual intercourse is disgusting at best and painful at worst, woman is forced to endure it from the beginning of creation, which finds retribution through the monogamous home and the children who appear in the world through it. Of course, this husband would be ideal if he had intercourse with his wife only at her request and only for the purpose of conceiving offspring, but such nobility and selflessness should not be expected from an ordinary man. Most men, if they were not denied, would want sex almost every day! But a wise woman should only allow two short intercourses a week during the first month of married life. Over time, she must make every effort to reduce this frequency. The imitations of malaise, the pretense that she is asleep and the headache can serve her best in this endeavor. Arguments, constant grumbling and arguing can also be very helpful if they are resorted to late at night, about an hour before the usual time when the husband begins with his insistence.
A wise woman must be ready to constantly look for new ways to deny her husband and discourage him in his love claims. A good wife should strive to have sex with her husband no more than once a week towards the end of the first year of marriage and up to once a month towards the end of the fifth year. By the age of ten, many women manage to complete childbirth and achieve the ultimate goal - complete cessation of sexual intercourse with a husband. At this time, to keep their husband at home, they can already use his love for children, as well as social impact. When we say that a wise woman should strive to keep her sex life to a minimum, we must emphasize that the quality and level of sexual intercourse should be given no less attention. Most men are perverted by nature, and if given even a small opportunity, they use it in all sorts of disgusting ways. Such, by the way, are the cases in which the normal act is performed in abnormal positions, as well as when the man licks the woman's body or forces her to lick his vile body. Nudity, talking about sexual life, reading stories about it or looking at photographs and drawings depicting and showing sexual life are activities that destroy the soul and also easily become habits in men, if it is allowed.
The wise woman should make it a rule never to allow her husband to see her naked body and never to allow him to show her his. Sexual intercourse, if unavoidable, it must be done in complete darkness. Many women find it helpful to have thick cotton nightgowns for themselves and pajamas for their husbands. Dressing in them should be done in different rooms. They should not be filmed during the act. In this way, only a minimal part of the body is exposed. When the woman puts on her nightgown and turns off the lights, she must lie completely still on the bed and wait for her husband. As soon as he groped into the room, she should not make any sound that could guide him in which direction to move, so that he would not take it as a sign of approval. She must give him the opportunity to feel his way in the dark on his own. At the same time, there is always hope that he will stumble into something and get some small trauma, which will serve as a good excuse to deny him intercourse.
When he finds his wife, she should lie as still as possible, because every movement of her body can be interpreted by the optimistic man as sexual arousal. If he tries to kiss her on the lips, she must turn her head and then the kiss will safely fall on her cheek. If he wants to kiss her hand, he must clench it into a fist. If he picks up her nightgown and tries to kiss her somewhere else, he must immediately pull the nightgown down, quickly jump out of bed and say that a natural need forces her to visit the toilet immediately. This usually kills the desire to kiss her in forbidden places. If her husband tries to seduce her with voluptuous conversations, the wise woman should immediately remember some ordinary non-sexual question to ask him immediately.
Gradually, the man will understand that if he wants any sexual intercourse, he must do this without any erotic introductions. The wise woman will then allow the husband to lift the nightgown no higher than the waist and open the slit of his pajamas slightly so that he can have intercourse through it. She would be completely speechless, or she would mumble something about her housework as he panted and yelled at her. In addition, he will lie still and in no case emit any moans or sighs during the act. When the man completes the act, the wise woman will begin to tease him about some small omissions or various things that he wants to do the next day and which he has planned in advance. Many men receive much of their sexual satisfaction in blissful relaxation after intercourse. Therefore, the woman should not give him the opportunity to do so, otherwise, he gets an incentive to repeat it.
Over time, the man becomes convinced that he will not relax and it is impossible to enjoy him. Another encouraging factor in favor of the woman for which she should be grateful - this is if the man's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life contribute to building a sense of deep guilt regarding his gender. instinct so that he approached the marriage bed with a sense of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. for which she should be grateful - that is, if her husband's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life help to build a sense of deep guilt regarding his sexual instinct, so that he proceeds to the marital a bed of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive.
The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. for which she should be grateful - that is, if her husband's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life help to build a sense of deep guilt regarding his sexual instinct, so that he proceeds to the marital a bed of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. already half broken and submissive.
The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life.
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