I wonder, and I can't answer, why a man wants to make promises to a woman who doesn't even expect him to. I was dating a man, I liked him, he liked me, everything seemed to be going well. I was not looking for anything serious. I just wanted to have a good time, to have fun. And I knew he wanted that too. And we had a good time, however ... he obsessed me, constantly wrote to me, called me, we talked for 2 hours on the phone, invited me to lunch, then to dinner, and after dinner he wrote to me, called ... tell me how special I am. How he had never met such a woman. He wants me to be his wife, to have a child with him. It is constantly explained to me in love. And I started thinking about him all the time. I confused my life with thoughts of him. And when he saw that I had sunk, he stopped. He stopped calling, stopped inviting me. I invite him, he accepts, then refuses. Dropped out that there are other women. Not bad if he wants 100. But don't pretend I'm the only one. Does the ego want to scratch itself? Do you make a fan club? Why all this theater, when there would be sex anyway? Why should he deceive me that he is in love, that I should sink too? It would have been much more enjoyable without these strong feelings. Azne, I want to think about him all the time, why he doesn't write, why he doesn't call ... and that's why I plan to stop all contacts with him. But the next man who starts explaining himself to me in love will probably just slap him in the face. Azne, I want to think about him all the time, why he doesn't write, why he doesn't call ... and that's why I plan to stop all contacts with him. But the next man who starts explaining himself to me in love will probably just slap him in the face. Azne, I want to think about him all the time, why he doesn't write, why he doesn't call ... and that's why I plan to stop all contacts with him. But the next man who starts explaining himself to me in love will probably blow one in his face.
1 valentina.ospinar answered
Well, it tells you what you want to hear and see, you like being wanted and appreciated. It has a very good effect on your psyche to first show you that you are wanted and then to withdraw and you go crazy and become a horse with caps as in this case. There are two options: 1. Either he was interested and someone else has already appeared and nothing to you, respectively, 2. Or he deliberately manipulates you to make you fall at his feet